From the monthly archives:

November 2014

This is a big post of sex toys and sex gifts on sale through December 1, discounts and hot items of note that I’ve come across in my feeds and travels in the past week. The sales and sale items are from retailers and toy makers I know and respect, and I’ve handpicked what I think are some really great finds.

But before we get to the sales, I wanted to let you know about some things that aren’t on sale but are highly recommended for your consideration — things I personally love and give to myself and my lovers.

Give yourself or someone awesome a class in the erotic arts (from confidence to dominance) with the incredible Midori (New York, Dallas, San Francisco, Washington DC). If you’re looking for sex books, check my recent Kink Your Kindle posts, and look for the next one I’ll be posting here December 1. Also, I have to plug my new book Filthy Housewives and the Rift Recon sale (they now carry the Escape Ring!)

One of my all-time favorites and personal travel companion is the USB Crave (also on Amazon, $149), pictured below. My #1 can’t-live-without vibe is the Fairy Mini Wand ($13.99). Every guy I know (who’ll admit it to me) loves a Tenga Egg ($5.59-$24.99).

A few tips for the erotic gift giver: Always make sure you have some inkling your gift will be well received. If he watched “Secretary” and thought it was gross, don’t surprise him a paddle while hoping for the best. For first-time toys, always pick a small or medium before a large (unless you know a large is desired). First vibrators: best to get one with adjustable speeds, rather than on/off styles, so the user can decide what speed they like, rather than all or nothing. And, you know — do give these gifts in private.

Sales

The Tantus Black Friday Steals sale (through December 1) is not to me missed (also check their regular sale page). Check out the silicone Neo plug ($15.99, was $39) and Rocket ($43.99, was $73).

Luxury UK sex toy shop Coco de Mer has a few black Friday discounts, ending on November 30. My fave retailer Lovehoney has a ridiculous amount of toys and lingerie on sale through the 1st; you’ll get 25% and free shipping if you spend $80 — or, click this big funky overly specific URL they gave me and enter BLACKFRI14 before you shop.

Recommended:

SheVibe has a Black Friday Blowout deals page, with a graduated discount scale with up to 20% off orders.

The good people with the great fetish toys at Stockroom are having a huge sale (up to 75% off) through December 1st. If you want to shop with my affiliate code, click through here. Their three sale pages are Black Friday, Spanksgiving and On Sale (general).

What’s hot in Stockroom’s sale:

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Eye Candy: Cosplay Quickies

by Violet Blue on November 23, 2014

My new book is on sale: get Filthy Housewives on Amazon or Filthy Housewives direct; authors split all revenue!

* Yuffie Yulan runs Cosplay Babes, it’s her site.

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My new book is on sale: get Filthy Housewives on Amazon or Filthy Housewives direct; authors split all revenue!

  • Four designers in California have come up with dirty emoji, and they’re calling it “Flirtmoji” that you can paste into messaging apps as needed. The project launched on Tuesday.
    These are NSFW emoji for sexting (The Verge)
  • One of the detrimental truths about Silicon Valley is that while the sex industry is enormously lucrative, it’s ghettoized to the point where it’s totally separate from the tech world at large. But the gap is being gently bridged thanks to Snapchat’s launch of Snapcash, its new money-sending service.
    Why Snapcash is the new currency for Snapchat porn (Daily Dot)


  • This Change.org petition calls out matriarch Michelle Duggar for participating in a robocall campaign against a bill that combats discrimination against LGBT residents in her home state of Arkansas. In the robocall, Duggar specifically attacks transgender individuals, saying the bill “would allow men — yes, I said men — to use women’s and girls’ restrooms, locker rooms, showers, sleeping areas and other areas that are designated for females only,” and that some of them would be “males with past child predator convictions that claim they are female.”
    Thousands of People are Calling for TLC to Cancel “19 Kids and Counting” (Cosmopolitan)

Thank you to our woman-run sponsor, Cosplay Babes.

  • Hustler Lingerie announced plans for upcoming plus-size options for its brand of erotic lingerie. “We’re pleased that more women are embracing their curves and stepping outside of their comfort zone with more revealing choices in lingerie,” a Hustler Lingerie representative said.
    Hustler Lingerie Announces Upcoming Plus-Size Collection (XBIZ)

  • Scientific discovery mingles with stimulation in Britain’s first exhibition about the study of sex, with pioneering sex aids, ancient phallic charms and even a chair credited with inducing orgasms. “The Institute of Sexology — Undress Your Mind” exhibition is named in honour of Magnus Hirschfeld’s research centre of the same name, whose immense archive of sexual research flourished in Berlin during the Weimar Republic.
    Erotica galore at London’s first study of sex show (AFP/Tahoo News)
  • A chart from Max Einstein’s Data Looks Dope reveals the top 500 video tags in porn. The data comes from Xvideos’ 500 most used tags. The idea is simple, if there are a lot of tags, it’s assumed there’s a lot of demand. (However, that assumption relies on whether or not they are user-created tags, or distributor-assigned tags. A longstanding failing of the porn industry understanding its own viewers is deciding, rather than crowdsourcing, demand.)
    The 500 most popular types of porn in one chart (Sploid)

Thank you to our sponsor, Nubile Films.

  • Would it surprise you to learn that most bros’ awful Tinder pick-up lines aren’t exactly original? On forums across the Web devoted to guns, shoes, pick-up artistry, and bodybuilding, Tinder bros are crowdsourcing the most dumbfounding opening lines they can Google.
    Here’s where Tinder bros crowdsource their ridiculous pick-up lines (Daily Dot)

  • ‘War Machine’ has pled “not guilty” in Nevada to charges that he tried to kill his ex-girlfriend Christy Mack and her friend in an assault in August. Mack suffered 18 broken bones, including a broken nose, missing teeth, a fractured rib and a ruptured liver in the assault.
    War Machine Pleads ‘Not Guilty’ (XBIZ)


  • Some pornographers have realized the teledildonics on the market just aren’t good enough yet, as is the case with Oculus game Wicked Paradise, which closed up shop despite heaps of fanfare last year.
    When Porn and Virtual Reality Collide (Gizmodo)

Gratitude to our sponsor in Spain, women-run Lust Cinema.

  • This is GOLD. “Dear Straight People (…) You know that sense of discomfort and alienation that you sometimes feel in our bars? That’s how we feel in virtually every social space we go to, so please do not begrudge us this one public place on Earth where we can pay for the “privilege” to hit on, dance with, and make out with people we actually find attractive without watching our backs.”
    Dear straight people, this is how you should act in gay bars (GayStarNews)


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My new book is on sale: get Filthy Housewives on Amazon or Filthy Housewives direct from me!

If you’ve enjoyed the work I do, consider a small Bitcoin donation so I can do more: 1KfV1QgYcdy5CZCRW9Ryw456xsyXJHrUZD

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  • While the “fuck-a-fan” trend isn’t a new one, the concept of bidding to be a porn star for a day is. “Now that porn is pushing more mainstream and the taboos are washing off of it, more people are anxious to try,” says Adult Verified Video Chat company spokesman Randy. “It’s like bragging rights.”
    Sotheby’s for Sex: The Problem with Auctioning Off Sex with A Porn Star (Daily Beast)

Thank you to our sponsor in the UK, Joybear.

  • “Prostitution opponents love to promote images of abused hookers and human traffickers to trump up hostility towards sex work. While it’s true ill-intentioned criminals do exist and should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law, these conditions do not apply to the vast majority of sex workers. We should especially not conflate the sex industry with the abuses of human trafficking because it delegitimizes the workers and creates a moral panic that manifests itself in harmful legislation. The fact of the matter is that most sex workers enter the industry via their own consent and genuinely enjoy their work.”
    Opinion: ‘Prostitutes Are People, Not Criminals’ by Belle Knox (Rolling Stone)
  • Fur seals have been caught engaging in an extreme form of sexual behaviour. Specifically, trying to have sex with penguins. BBC warns, “You may find the videos in this story disturbing.”
    Seals discovered having sex with penguins (BBC)

  • The newest ebook from Digita Publications went on sale this weekend: Filthy Housewives (order direct) is an explicit erotic 80-page ebook that features sexually frustrated (modern) housewives figuring out what it takes to push their husbands over the line — and the book splits all sales with the authors evenly. Also released this weekend in the must-have erotic book sphere include Rachel Kramer Bussel’s Sex and Cupcakes.
    Filthy Housewives (Digita Publications, Amazon)
  • Is female Viagra a scam? The International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health, which is largely funded by the pharmaceutical industry, had joined with Sprout Pharmaceuticals and other companies with skin in the game to develop two slick campaigns, “eventhescore.org” and “womendeserve.org,” which argued that the FDA’s failure to approve a drug to treat women’s sexual problems was “sexist.”
    ‘Pink Viagra’: The sham drug idea of the year (LA Times)
  • Cindy Gallop considers Bitcoin: she finds that necessities like VC funding, bank accounts and video streaming platforms usually read “no adult content” in the small print. As many business owners do, Gallop is cautiously and slowly approaching the Bitcoin space. We thought we’d reach out to her and give her a warm crypto welcome.
    Decentralizing Sex: Cindy Gallop Makes Love Not Porn (Cointelegraph)

Thank you to our woman-run sponsor, Cosplay Babes.

  • Over the past few years sex clubs have become increasingly common. You can find them in almost any major city and many suburban areas throughout the US. There are definite dos and don’ts that Popsugar apparently learned the hard way.
    Sex Club Etiquette (Popsugar)
  • In the UK last week, Luke King, a 21-year-old man from Nottingham, England, became the first man in Britain to be jailed for posting revenge porn. A 12-week sentence was handed down on Nov. 14, after King pleaded guilty to harassment, after posting revenge porn of his ex to WhatsApp. The woman had sent King the photo while they were dating. After the break-up, King threatened to upload the photo, which is when his ex reported him to police. Although he was warned by police that posting the image online would be a crime, King followed through with his threat in August.
    Revenge Porn: Man Jailed In Britain As US Lawmakers Prepare New Legislation (TIME)
  • Have you ever dreamed of having a bra that could change colors when you bumped boobs with a girlfriend? Yeah, we haven’t either.
    Frozen Bra That Changes Color (Popsugar)

Thank you to our sponsor, Nubile Films.


  • Warning for survivors of sexual abuse and trauma: A woman named Joan Tarshis has come forward to describe how Bill Cosby drugged and assaulted her twice after she met him when she was 19 years old in 1969, describing his actions as rape. Tarshis appears to be the fifth woman to publicly accuse the comedian of sexual assault. Drugging women for sex was a repeat theme in his comedy routines.
    Another Woman Accuses Bill Cosby of Rape (Slate)
  • Warning for survivors of sexual abuse and trauma: Federal prosecutors say a Utah truck driver had four other victims in addition to the two women he is accused of keeping as sex slaves in his semi-trailer as he drove across the country.
    Prosecutors: Utah trucker had 4 more sex slave victims (Fox News)

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Our savior! The only appropriate response to Paper’s Kim Kardashian stunt is a salve of Archer’s number one “foul-mouthed, ass-kicking cocaine enthusiast” Pam Poovey. Thank you Uproxx!

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Psst: My new book went on sale three hours ago! Get Filthy Housewives on Amazon or Filthy Housewives direct from me!

Psst 2: I haven’t announced my Privacy Stickers yet, but we *just* finished the website tonight, half an hour ago!

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Sex News: Superhero Uterus Man returns, AdSense doesn’t give a shit, libertarian James Deen, intersex life

13 November 2014
Paper's successful publicity stunt involved Kim Kardashian's ass, and then her breasts. (FWIW, I think she looks great.) PAPERMAG: #NOFILTER: An Afternoon With Kim Kardashian (Paper) Google’s AdSense has told San Francisco news outlet The SF Appeal that it has three days to remove editorial content that violates its advertising policy, alleging […]
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Sex News: Pregnant trans study, gay in Iran, Tinder’s anti-sexwork fakes

10 November 2014
Support indies! Pre-order my next book Filthy Housewives ($3.89); profits are split with all authors! Yay! Ms Naughty made a short documentary about the 2014 Berlin Porn Film Festival, the 9th edition. This film gives a brief overview of this year's famous porn film festival, with snippets of some of the […]
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Eye Candy: Quickies

9 November 2014
Psst: My next book Filthy Housewives ($3.89) is now available for pre-order! Whitney Westgate, Ryan D. - All Oiled Up (above image via) Emily Grey, Dylan Snow - Passionate Awakening Alessandra Jane, Matt Ice - Hardcore Passion Halle Von, Van Wylde - Intimate Session Sicilia and Noleta - For Your Love Cassidy Klein Casts Kaylee Haze […]
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How to get a free copy of my next book, Filthy Housewives

8 November 2014
My next erotica collection Filthy Housewives ($3.89) is an anthology of seven written-to-order stories, and all profits are split with the authors; we all put tons of love into it, and I’m thrilled with every inch of it. Amazon made the book available for pre-order yesterday -- it's a 100% […]
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Video: Eva Green by Ellen Von Unwerth

7 November 2014
After posting earlier today that Eva Green is the star of Campari's 2015 calendar, I went looking for recent hot stuff featuring her. I'm very happy to have found the above behind-the-scenes video from Green's flirty Vs Magazine photo shoot by Ellen Von Unwerth.
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Sex News: Filthy Housewives, privacy for dancers, porn stars versus Google, Eva Green for Campari, Keira Knightley

7 November 2014
Support indies: My next erotica collection Filthy Housewives ($3.89) is an anthology of seven written-to-order stories, and all profits are split with the authors. Pre-order sales went live today, we all put tons of love into it, and I'm thrilled with every inch of it. Filthy Housewives (Amazon) This writer can't seem […]
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Eye Candy: Best of Nerdy Babes

4 November 2014
Danielle - Wet Hamster (video; image above via) Jeri - Double Deep Yuffie Yulan, Bonnie Rose - Nerd On Nerd Elizabeth Bally - Let Hatsune Sing Amy Latina, Vellocet - Neko Kitty Girls (video) Elouise, Harmony Reigns - Meddling Kids Jessica Jensen - Xbox Slut Yuffie Yulan, Pipa Lily - Suckerpunch This! Less nerdy: Vanessa A. - Stockings Susi R. […]
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Sex News: Droneboning, sex murders, Tigger, ethical porn, robot sex

4 November 2014
According to production company Ghost+Cow Films, the entire "Droneboning" video was shot on location in San Francisco. Except it wasn't -- we don't have vineyards here in the city :P (NSFW) Afternoon Palate Cleanser: Droneboning (SFist) In a very jarring transition, the adorable end of the annual special “It’s the Great Pumpkin, […]
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Dia de los Muertos eros by Sylvia Ji

2 November 2014
Today is Dia de los Muertos SF, my hometown's celebration for the Day of The Dead. It has always been an important day for me personally, as well as for friends and family, particularly people I grew up with, and families that have adopted me. I'll be celebrating later with SRL […]
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Halloween flotsam and jetsam

1 November 2014
Image above via: The Sexy Halloween Costumes We Want to see This Year (playboy.com, where else?). "Delicious Women's PhD Darling Sexy" is a Halloween costume made by Rubie's Costumes in New York. For as outstandingly awful as this costume is, its existence is more than made up for by its hilarious […]
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