From the monthly archives:

March 2014

Eye Candy: Best of Babes

by Violet Blue on March 30, 2014

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Breast Cancer Eiffel Tower: FRANCK FIFE/AFP/Getty Images

Pink Bra Bazaar/Franck Fife/AFP/Getty Images photo via FP World In Photos.

  • In the past two weeks, hundreds of Internet users have spent hours investigating every career detail of felonious, law-evading porn performer Jake Steed. This isn’t due to a new porn film or his emergence from hiding. Instead, it’s a cryptic reference in Grand Theft Auto V – and some are convinced it contains the answer to one of the game’s biggest mysteries.
    Could a ’90s porn star unlock the biggest mystery in ‘Grand Theft Auto V’? (Daily Dot)
  • For failing to broadcast sufficient levels of Canadian-made pornography — and failing to close-caption said pornography properly — a trio of Toronto-based erotica channels has earned a reprimand from the Canadian Radio-television & Telecommunications Commission.
    Your porn is not Canadian enough, CRTC warns erotica channels (National Post, thanks John!)

January Jones

Image: January Jones for Violet Grey (no relation).

  • Imagine a study of the alcohol industry which interviewed not a single brewer, wine expert, liquor store owner or drinker, but instead relied solely on the statements of ATF agents, dry-county politicians and members of Alcoholics Anonymous and Mothers Against Drunk Driving. But change the topic to sex work, and such methods are not only the norm, they’re accepted uncritically by the media and the majority of those who the resulting studies.
    Lies, damned lies and sex work statistics (Washington Post)


  • This article’s copyeditor appears to have been faking it, but the piece is worth a read. “Yes, women fake it to boost their partner’s ego, out of insecurity and to just get the darn experience over with. But a new study suggests women also fake it ’til they make it.”
    Women May Fake Orgasms to Have an Actual Orgasm, Study Says (TIME)
  • I hope this story gets the attention it deserves. An American research grant from the National Institutes of Health comes with a stipulation to block pornography from a campus’s network – shades of the UK porn filter (disaster and censorship) coming home to roost.
    Get Grant, Block Porn? (Inside Higher Education)
  • “The first issue of Porn Studies, an academic journal exploring “pornography, and sexual representations more generally,” has debuted. The mere fact of its existence, which became public in mid-2013, was occasion for a media event. But the journal’s articles are serious articulations of the intersection between the concerns of media studies and those of pornography. Porn Studies is not a joke, though it seems to provide everyone with some relief to treat it as one.” (Disclosure: I’m on the Editorial Board for this journal.)
    Why It’s Time for the Journal of Porn Studies (The Atlantic)
  • “Like that bad-for-you ex from whom you just can’t seem to make a clean break, the reoccurring “news” story about how the federal government funds questionable sex studies has come back a-knockin’ at the door. We’re supposed to be totally horrified that our tax dollars are going to fund studies that find out what turns people on and what makes people loose.”
    Why Sex Research Is Worth Funding With Public Money (Pacific Standard)

Image from Olivia Munn’s sexy June/July Esquire shoot via In The Raw.

  • Bisexuals have historically been imagined as sexually predatory, “greedy,” “slutty,” or as necessarily requiring simultaneous sexual activity with people of different genders — essentially, bisexuality has been defined by mainstream culture as an inherently sexual and sexualized category, sometimes little more than a genre of porn.”
    The Journalistic Quest to Write An Accurate Story About Bisexuality (Autostraddle)
  • Judd Apatow has revealed that HBO refused to allow Lena Dunham to film controversial sex scenes for her hit show “Girls,” which he says may have included a male erection.
    HBO cut hardcore sex scene from ‘Girls’ (NY Post)
  • If your body isn’t ‘perfect’ it’s easy to feel like a failure. What I’ve learned is that humans are capable of desiring every type of body under the sun, and if you publish DIY porn online you’ll find your audience — whatever you look like. I don’t care what flaws you think you have, I guarantee those exact quirks are what make you someone’s fetish.”
    How To Empower Yourself Through DIY Porn (The Frisky)
  • This history of sex blogging is great! I have so much to add, so many stories (and backstories) to fill in the blanks… plus a huge part of the beginning of sex blogging was gay (male) sex blogging, so important to add. Anyway – enjoy!
    A Brief History of Sex Blogging (Dangerous Lilly)
  • So glad to see this article. I’ll add it to the page I’ve had on unsafe sex toys that is actually almost ten years old :P “There’s no government regulation for sex toys and their safety, so do your homework on which materials are safe, and which are not. For example, safety concerns have emerged over phthalates – chemicals found in sex toys and other products to soften plastic and increase flexibility.”
    A Guide to Sex Toy Safety (US News & World Report)

  • (Disclaimer: I love Spy!!!!) Artist Spy Emerson conceived of a unique way to explore the rise in popularity of geo-social dating/hookup apps like Grindr and Tinder with her Hook-up Truck. The truck is her latest art exhibit and is described as “a car service, like a mobile hotel room, available for short term rentals accommodating intimate relations.” In essence, she’s providing a safe and private place for strangers to have a safe sex adventure.
    The Hook-up Truck, a mobile art exhibit that facilitates sexual trysts for strangers (BlazenFluff)
  • You might expect an ex-judge and a sex worker to be on opposite sides of the law. But former High Court judge Michael Kirby has become patron of advocacy group Touching Base, which links sex workers with people with disabilities. And in his new role, Mr Kirby has spoken out against hypocrisy in laws that can inhibit sexual expression for some people.
    High Court judge turns patron for sex workers (Women’s Weekly, via Ms. Naughty)

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Eye Candy: Quickies

by Violet Blue on March 28, 2014

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The official call for Best Women’s Erotica 2015 submissions is now open.

I’m looking for the best erotic short stories written by women for the 2015 edition of the leading series for explicit women’s literature. The window for submissions get tighter each year, due to the level of competition and quality: I’m proud to say that the reviews for Best Women’s Erotica 2014 can tell you why it’s competitive, and wins earned praise from critics and fans alike.

Tell all your writer friends, and send me your hottest erotica.

It’s important to use the right email address to contact me, and read the guidelines. In this post (below) you’ll find all the information for submitting short story fiction for consideration in BWE 15 – please read and follow the guidelines, to make sure your work is considered and to make the process smooth for every level of consideration and production.

I’ll update this post with a link to the official listing on Erotica Readers and Writers Association, which should be live shortly. The ERWA link will be work-safe.

It’s a tight deadline, and this is the only open call.

This is also an open call for recommendations of hot stories in books published during 2014. Tell me about a super arousing short you’ve read (or written and have permission to allow a reprint) in a collection within the past year! I will consider it for the book, which is an unusual break from tradition; I really want the best of the best for this one.

Call For Submissions

Best Women’s Erotica 2015
Editor: Violet Blue
Publisher: Cleis Press
Deadline: June 1st, 2014

Please note: Publisher has final right of refusal on all submissions. Payment is upon publication, plus 2 copies of the book; publication date is December 2014. No email inquiries, please.

Best Women’s Erotica is a legendary and groundbreaking yearly series, and it is the best-selling women’s erotica collection. Every year BWE raises the bar for explicit erotica written by and for women, authored by the most exciting female authors, from around the world.

This edition (BWE 2015) is selected and edited by Violet Blue (tinynibbles.com, about.me/violetblue, @violetblue). Cleis Press holds right of final refusal on all selections. In this edition we are looking for fictional stories that seek to push the boundaries of female sexuality, present realistic fantasies and situations, and break taboos. The sex acts depicted must be explicit and must be realistic in detail.

A strong focus on character, predicament, and compelling situations is desired – smart, literate erotic fiction. The desired orientation within the main sexual element of the stories is primarily heterosexual, yet bisexuality and lesbian encounters are welcome and encouraged. The primary focus of sexual activity must be on the female experience; female pleasure is the main element. A playful, clever approach is welcome, as are intense scenarios.

The BWE editions 2006 – 2014 edited by Violet Blue regularly win awards, and are very different from other women’s erotica books: please read a few stories from any of those years of Best Women’s Erotica or the introductions for examples of tone. The easiest way to do this is to read free chapters from Best Women’s Erotica on Amazon.com.

Established authors and new writers are welcome to submit.

Desired themes include: Women’s sexual fantasies and experiences of all kinds, such as taboo sex acts, fantasy scenarios (real or imagined), bondage, fetish, male anal penetration (such as strap-on play), first-time experiences, light S/M, exhibitionism, power-play, voyeurism, public sex, seduction, role-play, spontaneous sex, spanking, erotic punishment, sexual surprise, emotional honesty, desire, longing, lust, passion, female fierceness, power (and power struggles), deviousness, meaning, themes that involve the Internet and technology, and sublime humor. Above all, include explicit sex.

What not to send: Dark themes (such as breakup, jealousy, infidelity and death) must be exceptional in content for acceptance and are *least* desired. Do not send sci-fi, poetry, slash or fantasy fiction.

Paste your story submissions into emails and send to: cleisbook at gmail.com

Rules: Only send submissions pasted into the body of your email: the limit is three stories. No email attachments, no links within emails to stories, no paper submissions. Again: only three submissions per author. Word count: 2500 to 4500 words is the desired range. No simultaneous submissions (you will be disqualified with no hesitation if you submit your story to multiple publications). Reprints that you have rights to use and excerpts from already-published, full-length books will be considered.

Best Women's Erotica 2010Required: You must include your name (and pseudonym if you are using one), a short 150-word bio, mailing address and main contact email address with your submission. Include a payment choice: Payments are made by check or PayPal only; state your preference when you send me your stories.

Authors must be female; sorry, no male authors writing under pseudonyms allowed (female transgender authors are warmly welcome here). Please don’t hassle me about not allowing male authors: this is the format of the “Best Women’s” series, and the series belongs to Cleis Press.

Because of the volume of submissions every year (literally hundreds!) I probably won’t be able to respond to your submissions until August.

Please only use the cleisbook at gmail.com address for correspondence about this book. Emailing me at a different address, Tweeting or Facebook messages will get lost.

A personal note: BWE authors become part of my network of colleagues, and I invariably involve authors in extra publicity about the book and other book projects. Do understand that I get a lot of stories, and I do read each and every one. If you email and demand a confirmation email, I’m sorry but you just won’t get one. I appreciate your patience in advance!

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Eye Candy: Quickies

by Violet Blue on March 22, 2014

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  • “The takeaway here is that the content you’re producing can be perfectly legal, not obscene by any jury’s definition, and if you can’t find a way to publish it you can still be censored as effectively as by the government or police. Everything we sell online is controlled by unregulated, international corporate entities that are not subject to any particular legal jurisdiction. Online marketplaces have democratised publishing, but that ease of access is the very thing that permits them to censor our work.”
    Spanked, Not Silenced (Pandora Blake)
  • This article has been one of the most shared articles within sex communities all week, and is getting *tons* of praise from sex workers, sex educators and sex-positive pundits of all kinds.
    What I Want to Know Is Why You Hate Porn Stars (The Stranger)
  • A federal district court judge in Ohio has ordered Eric Chason and Kevin Bollaert, the founders of the “revenge porn” site You Got Posted, to pay a woman $385,000 for posting sexually explicit images of her on their website.
    “Revenge porn” site creators hit with $385,000 judgment (Ars Technica)
  • Belle Knox writes, “The overwhelming criticism I have received for my participation in this rough blowjob scene is incredibly revealing to me about the condemnation-happy state of “gotcha feminism.” I’ve been called a hypocrite and mocked for daring to talk about empowerment if I have also not kept adequately hidden away my enjoyment of rough and dirty, nasty and filthy, saliva-dripping and name-calling-filled sex.”
    In Defense of Kink: My First Role as the Duke Porn Star Was on a Rough Sex Set (XOJane)

  • Join me in disbelief that the date of this article is actually 2014! Forbes thinks teledildonics and haptic technology might be the next big thing in sex and tech… Totally missing the rest of the blogosphere covering each of these things in detail ten years ago. Linked for the astonishingly dated lulz.
    The Future Of Virtual Sex, Part One: 5 New Technologies (Forbes)
  • MPs on a cross-party panel are calling on the UK government to use a 55-year-old law to better police the publishing of adult material online. GREAT IDEA GUYS. The Obscene Publications Act 1959 was the law famously used to try to prevent the publication of DH Lawrence’s novel Lady Chatterley’s Lover, which contains graphic descriptions of a married aristocrat’s affair with her gamekeeper. In his opening address, prosecuting barrister Mervyn Griffith-Jones famously uttered the phrase “Is it a book that you would even wish your wife or your servants to read?”
    MPs urge UK.gov to use 1950s obscenity law to stifle online stiffies (NAME)
  • Lindsay Lohan is “leaking” a list of dozens of celebrity dudes she claims to have fucked, and most of them are the sidewalk sale fare you’d expect out in front of the Marmont on a weeknight lineup of dollar-store Hollywood dick. The list is a no-surprise who’s-who of will-bang-anything stank dick, like Ashton Kutcher and Justin Timberlake, though props for we-know-he’s-a-perv Benicio del Toro.
    WORLD EXCLUSIVE: Lindsay Lohan’s Conquest List: More A-List Lovers (InTouch)

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A great review of Kissing: A Field Guide

20 March 2014
Alison Tyler is a writer I seriously admire, and I've had the honor of working with her for over ten years on a variety of projects. To my surprise and delight, she did a fabulous quickie review of my book Kissing: A Field Guide. In her post Kissing Is an […]
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Art by Michael Oswald

16 March 2014
Digital artist Michael O's bio says he's a full-time Bollywood movie poster artist, which is really cool all on its own. His Deviant Art profile has all kinds of sexy futuristic goodness, plus a terrific update on R2D2 and Rosie the Riveter's We Can Do It poster. See also: this […]
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Eye Candy: Belle Knox, and more new pretty porn

14 March 2014
Belle Knox - Passion HD (video) Belle - Casting Couch X (video) Very cute gallery of Belle Knox nude in bed, and doing some public flashing in Los Angeles Read about Belle Knox in her own words. Tommy and Lara - Creamy Coffee Alysa and Gina - Poolside Fantasy Dillon Harper - Passion HD (video) Tucker and […]
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Sex News: Daily Show’s recycled penis pumps, @PornHub contest, more anti-porn fapping in the UK

13 March 2014
It's really hard to find an article about this protest that is objective and not some weird first-person "me and porn" post. Basically, anti-porn feminist Gail Dines and all-around maker-upper of porn hysteria is teaming up with Guardian UK's prize anti-porn mouthpiece to get as much attention as possible and […]
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Ellen von Unwerth: “Sexy Boudoir / Glam Cabaret” for Madame Figaro

13 March 2014
How did I miss this gem? Ellen von Unwerth's sexy short “Sexy Boudoir / Glam Cabaret” for Madame Figaro (magazine) is sweetly silly, and wholly enjoyable. The Citizens of Fashion have a gallery from the session in an easily viewable, nice large hi-res post.
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Eye Candy: Chiaki Kimono

11 March 2014
A quickie: model Chiaki, looking beautiful.
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Sidney Bristow in Bambi Magazine

10 March 2014
Fashionising calls Sidney Bristow in Bambi Magazine "fetishised sensuality gone rogue" and I'd have to agree, though it's more of a haute couture version of the concept. The fashion blog explains, "It’s not about the desire to shock anymore, not since the bondage element has long morphed into a full […]
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Underwater sports eros: Fine art nudes by Franck Berthuo

9 March 2014
I found the incredible erotic and nude photo work of Franck Berhtuo through dear friend Jiz Lee's Twitter stream; they were completely loving Berthuo's under-the-waves series. It's wonderful and astonishing, and at the same time very sexy. Berthuo's bio tells us: He specializes in extreme water sports photography which eventually led […]
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Eye Candy: Pretty Porn Saturday

8 March 2014
Alyssa Reece Mia Michele - Walk on the Wild Side Mia Michele - Body Lines Holly Michaels, Tyler Nixon - Body Language (image above via) Chelsey, Nick - Ucta Erotika Angel S., Daniella - Ucta Erotika Penny Pax, Richie Calhoun - The Submission of Emma Marx (cover above) Penny Pax, Richie Calhoun - The Submission of […]
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Ketsujiru Juke (Anal Juice)

7 March 2014
There is so much to see and can't unsee in the truly bizarre, unsettlingly funny, award-winning animated short film Ketsujiru Juke (Anal Juice). It's subtitled in English so you don't miss the pure, unfiltered strangeness. Twitch writes, "Take Kabuki Sawako's 3-minute animated short, Ketsujiru Juke (Anal Juke - Anal Juice), for […]
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Babes in Toyland: Roxane and Tessa for Bambi Magazine

7 March 2014
Roxane and Tessa are the muses in Kay Smith’s cover story for the 16th issue of Bambi, styled by Aurore Donguy into pieces that hide and reveal, flirt and fetishize. More in this lush gallery: Babes in Toyland: Roxane and Tessa for Bambi Magazine (NSFW)
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Sex News: Ads beat porn for malware, Duke co-ed’s porn disclosed, detention in Iran

6 March 2014
Ask a Porn Star: Jiz Lee (OhJoySexToy, excerpt above via) Web ads directing users to malicious sites have surpassed porn as the leading source of mobile malware, according to a new report from security and networking solutions provider Blue Coat Systems. Today, one in every five times a mobile user encounters […]
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Eye Candy: Quickies

4 March 2014
I was playing around with search terms in the Nubile Films database and found two sexy threesomes plus one hot girl-girl twosome in the archives. For their newest, here's Walk on the Wild Side. Elaina Rae and Veronica Rodriguez with Ryan D. (image above via) Bella Baby and Leony April with Will Elle […]
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Hot times in Florida: David Hilton Photography

4 March 2014
Visit Florida-based photographer David Hilton's Tumblr and you won't go wrong. So much joy and eros in one photographer's world, I love it. Also, I need Sara's panties. Discovered through Modfetish.
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