From the monthly archives:

April 2013

I don’t know what took me so long to find her, but as of tonight I’m crushed out on model and makeup artist Beauty Foster (also @BeautyFoster, beautyfoster.wix.com for booking inquiries, and Formspring). ::swoon!

Above video: “beauty foster in heaven above you” recently featured in tsurufoto nudiezine #20 ($4). Image below via Beauty Foster.

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Legendary erotic jewelry designer Betony Vernon has a new book out, The Boudoir Bible (Kindle; hardcover). I don’t have a copy yet, but the book has been described to me by friends as the Vernon’s own tome about making the most of a refined sex life, with Vernon’s pro-kink, sex-positive point of view throughout.

It’s no secret that I’ve always wanted pretty much everything Vernon makes. And what I think will be really cool is the book launch event coming up here in SF on Tuesday, April 30, 2013 from 6:30 PM to 8:30 PM (PDT). The “Conversation & Book Signing with Betony Vernon” is with Jimmyjane + Arkitektura’s Design Assembly – and Vernon will be interviewed by Jimmyjane’s own Ethan Imboden. Vernon and Imboden are at the top of the high-end sex toy design genre, and I think it’ll be really interesting. Oh – and it’s free.

THE PLEASURE PALETTE: “Creating a new design language for sexuality”
Conversation & Book Signing with Betony Vernon
Jimmyjane + Arkitektura’s Design Assembly
Tuesday, April 30, 2013 from 6:30 PM to 8:30 PM (PDT)
San Francisco, CA
Register here on Eventbrite.

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NSFW Vine aka #NSFWVine

by Violet Blue on April 25, 2013

In case you missed it: The site is NSFW Vine, twitter is @NSFWVine and tag is #NSFWVine – it is all user submitted. It launched in January and sadly hasn’t updated since February – but I see it has a low subscription base, so I wonder if they just didn’t get enough word out? As an Android user and Apple anti-adult-content conscientious objector, I find it highly amusing to see the latest iOS darling deliver unto us a channel of mostly hot, mostly amateur porn. Also, this is a PSA letting you know that if you see my name on Vine it isn’t me. As with Instagram, I can’t wait for the disappointment of seeing 50 versions of my username snarfed on Vine by people who barely post by the time Vine’s Android version comes out (and no, we droidies can’t pre-reg – nor can I see Vine’s ToS to find out if NSFW Vine was being naughty).

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When elected representatives attempt harmful, insulting things like CISPA, it makes me feel even more like it's our Internet, and not theirs.

I was unable to blackout this website today for the CISPA Blackout due to a long, annoying-on-many-levels story involving *someone else* getting massively hacked. So I thought I’d do something to raise awareness and make a point. I think that the women in these galleries would agree with my feelings about CISPA for the following reasons:

* The women in these galleries have given clear, legal consent for their images to be shared. CISPA permits sharing of your data between companies (Apple, Amazon, Facebook, etc.) without your consent.

* The women in these images know what viewers are doing – hopefully enjoyably – when they look at, and think about, the images and women in them. There are hundreds of Federal agencies that can easily obtain your data under CISPA and companies have stated they cannot protect your data under the Act. It is unclear exactly what will be done with your data. At least the porn models know what you’re doing with their pictures.

* The women in these images have signed contracts with the companies holding license to distribute the images and have legal standing to hold the companies accountable if the companies misbehave or act negligently with the images. CISPA grants companies immunity to share your data and information without your knowledge or consent.

* The women in these images want the images to be shared in the manner which they were initially agreed upon at the time of the shoot. CISPA facilitates unmonitored sharing and changes the data protection, privacy and data sharing Terms you agreed to when you signed up with, say, Google.

* The women in these images would be at risk in potentially serious ways if the data associated with them vis-a-vis their modeling work and their real-life online accounts was compiled into a dossier without their knowledge and passed around to Federal Government agencies without their knowledge and consent. Like porn, apparently Federal Government agencies apparently will know a cyberthreat when they see it: the terms used in CISPA to obtain info on individuals is not defined. Much like the term “porn” is used to label “things I don’t like” (See: Apple, China, Morality in Media) it is likely that “cyberthreat” will be used the same way.

* The potential for the women in these images to be nonconsensually exploited (or worse) by U.S. Federal Government employees (from the TSA to Immigration, the FBI and more) behind closed doors is very real. Think about it. The TSA. All it takes is one bad person with this unchecked access to ruin a girl’s life.

The ACLU has pretty much the most badass rundown of what CISPA is in their CISPA Explainer series. Check out my article today explaining what you can do about it. This expose on Federal security practices is also worth reading.

You know how anonymity protects the lives and safety of at-risk individuals everywhere – journalists in Syria, female rights activists in Egypt, that gay or trans kid who might actually get killed after school, human rights activists in China, those who IWF (Internet While Female) or IWS (Internet While Sexy)… CISPA, and legislation like it, carves a huge hole out of the back of any safety net these people have.

This wouldn’t be so upsetting for me if the data the U.S. Government wasn’t just proven to be the worst at data security of any American industry.

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I was so amused by the tweet below by my dear, longtime friend Steve Diet Goedde that I had to share the video with you – and I want to encourage you, of course, to follow him if it makes sense for you to do so :)


The song is “Louisiana” by Duke Ellington.

The follower thing has always been so weird. People get so emotional about it, and companies try to measure it. I’ve loved meeting so many new friends through it, but I’ve seen a lot of people do lame, even terrible things with what they think is a power they’ve been somehow been bestowed by entitlement. I’ve also had people get really mad at me for not doing what they think I should. And though the news stories about fake-like rackets are relatively recent, I can tell you that since the first person with the title of “Social Media Manager” hit the socials, followers and likes have been gamed to fuck and back, and most definitely for sale if you know where to look. So I don’t worry about it too much, and cherish the real connections I get to make through the medium. And I’ve always believed this:

It’s not how many. It’s who.

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  • Peter Acworth of Kink.com is already thinking about how his business could make the most of Google Glass a la Kink.com style. According to SVBD, “The heads up display will offer filmmakers discreet recording capabilities and point-of-view perspective, something that could be particularly useful for the adult entertainment industry, where “up close and personal” takes on new meaning.”
    How Google Glass will change porn forever (Silicon Valley Business Journal)
  • A new smartphone app is on hand to help Icelanders avoid accidental incest. The app lets users “bump” phones, and emits a warning alarm if they are closely related. “Bump the app before you bump in bed,” says the catchy slogan. Some are hailing it as a welcome solution to a very Icelandic form of social embarrassment.
    New App Helps Icelanders Avoid Kissing Cousins (The Epoch Times)
  • A third-party internet security firm in Beijing called Anquan recently posted an opening for the position “chief porn identification officer“. The company was started in 2010 to “combat bad information on the internet” and promote greater control of pornographic content on the web. Its partners and members include internet giants, like Baidu and Tencent, as well as government agencies that regulate the internet in China.
    Ad For ‘Chief Porn Identification Officer’ (Business Insider)
  • Apple is in an article listing a number of websites and app stores investigated for providing pornographic content in China. Following a March call for a new campaign against porn a government regulator named Apple’s app store as a source of “obscene pornographic” content and ordered it to remove the content, submit a report about the violation, and take measures to prevent future violations. The Wednesday article has drawn Chinese Internet users’ speculation that the Chinese government is determined to push Apple out of China, its second largest market.
    Apple Named in China Porn App Investigation (WSJ)
  • A new study shows that prostitution laws enable pimps and pimp-related violence. Researchers from the University of Ottawa have released the findings of a three-year study on “third parties” in the adult and sex industries, including their role in sex worker safety. Findings confirm that the current prostitution laws, often presented as protecting sex workers, work against their interests and increase sex workers’ vulnerability to violence, by targeting these third parties.
    U Ottawa researchers highlight sex industry “third parties” and sex worker safety (Health News)

[SATISFY your CURIOSITY and CONTINUE READING…]

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Eye Candy: Quickies

17 April 2013
Night - Fake View Tofana and Subil - Solace Sinia - Mavros Stoya and Skin (main post photo)
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Sex News: Condom snorting, DC Comics’ transgirl, Lulu hack, tech sex work, Audrey Tautou

16 April 2013
If you look at a certain stretch of Australian highway in Google Street View you can see two people having a pretty good time - at least, you could yesterday, according to Buzzfeed... Here Are Two People Having Sex On Google Street View (Buzzfeed) Sperm out the nose. Braces. Barf.... and […]
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Erotic drawings by Terby Wonder

15 April 2013
I came across one of Terby Wonder's drawings last week on Flickr and saved the link; there are more splendid examples of his whimsical sexiness on his Tumblr. Light, flirty, fun - and some really cute girls!
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Eye Candy: Pretty Porn Saturday

13 April 2013
Penny Flame - Love, Marriage and Bad Ideas Lola Fellini - Life, Love, Lust (image above) Pierre Roshan - Tantra Sasha Grey - Expert Guide to Rough Sex Valeria - Casting Valeria Clover - White Chair Mia Sollis - Sonnetts Loretta A - Salon Macy B - Exquisite Grace C - Domatio Amirah and Mark - Young Love Anna […]
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Sex News: Google Glass strip club ban, Apple gay comic censorship, revenge porn

9 April 2013
Above: The Elegant Gentleman's Guide to Knife Fighting: Porn OH&S (YouTube) Update, April 11: Clarification and correction on the "Apple gay image censorship" story (below) from @ImageComics from @comiXology - apparently we didn't have the whole story, and SAGA's 'response' to Apple was... not completely clear. On Tuesday, mainstream news outlets […]
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Nude girl, with machine gun: Marble sculptures by Thom Puckey

8 April 2013
There are many astonishing data points about Thom Puckey's sculptures, and (warning) some of you may find them disturbing. Most of his work over the past decade is life-size, realistically detailed female subjects with different kinds of guns - sculpted flawlessly in marble (often monochrome marble, to be exact). Puckey […]
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Call for Submissions: Best Women’s Erotica 2014

6 April 2013
It's time... Best Women's Erotica 2013 is on shelves both virtual and actual, and I'm delighted to see it has glowing 5-star reviews. My new book Voracious just came out, too! So starting right now, I'm looking for the best erotic short stories written by women for the 2014 edition […]
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Sex News: Luxury sex work, more porn racism, Feminist Porn Awards, taser lingerie

6 April 2013
In the last five years prostitution in Brazil’s largest and richest city has had a makeover. A new type of brothel has proliferated – aimed at a younger, more funky, less reticent customer. Forget dirty old man, think guy-about-town. There are about 20 of these “luxury houses” in the city. […]
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Lara Croft, cats and dolphins, and more: The incredible Andrew Lucas

5 April 2013
A day ago, I was curating an Eye Candy post while I had some hacker friends hanging out in my living room; I put the imagery I was culling onto my big TV so everyone would have a nice distraction (and I could get input from the guys for a […]
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[Video] Lass Suicide by Nathen Atia

5 April 2013
I just came across this very sweet video of the extremely sexy Lass Suicide by Nathen Atia. I have those exact panties! Lass Suicide is on Twitter here.
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[Video] Louis Vuitton 2013 by James Lima

4 April 2013
Click through to watch this one. This video was pulled from its primary channel due to (IMO ludicrous) protests from French feminists, and I'm delighted to have found it for you on the artst's channel. Louis Vuitton 2013 by James Lima is stunningly, arrestingly beautiful, sexy and completely haunting - […]
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Eye Candy: Best of Babes

3 April 2013
Leona B - Be Taken (main post photo) Annija - All In Samantha Bentley Samantha Bentley Samantha Bentley Bobbi Starr Bobbi Starr Nika E - Modesta Dariya A - Enticing Maria M - Goitro Olya O - Bellota Subil A - Embros Meseda B - Presenting Meseda (unshaven) Candice Luka - Jacinto Nastya K & Susana C - Teneur (above image) Fucking Machines […]
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