From the monthly archives:

September 2012

  • UK ISPs have come out against default internet filtering of adult content, telling a government consultation that proposals to block content are neither necessary nor effective.
    UK ISPs dismiss calls for default porn blocks (PC Pro)
  • Trichomoniasis is a common STD caused by the parasite Trichomoniasis and can go unnoticed in the male body; research has found a correlation between having it and developing prostate cancer.
    The STD That Can Lead to Prostate Cancer (Men’s Health News)
  • I want to tell you what Vivid’s iOS app is about, but reading Fox News explain web apps and capitalize “Web” and use it in place of the word ‘internet’ is just too distracting.
    Vivid’s porn app puts the ‘O’ in iPhone (Fox News)
  • Indeed: Bacchus writes, “This Huffington Post interview with Peter Acworth, founder of Kink.com (which HuffPo describes as “the largest fetish porn production company in the world”), is more fascinating to me because of what Peter does not say about his business”
    A (Silent) View On The Future Of Porn (ErosBlog: The Sex Blog)
  • In an excellent neuroscience-view takedown of Naomi Wolf’s assertions about dopamine and female desire (and sexual dysfunction), The Neurocritic gives a succinct scientific take on what women “need” sexually – and why studies on rats just don’t cut it.
    Of Mice and Women: Animal Models of Desire, Dread, and Despair (The Neurocritic)
  • In case you missed the ::headdesk of the week in sex: “In my high-school health class they taught us that women pee through the clitoris.”
    26 Ridiculous Sex-Ed Fails (Buzzfeed)

Image: Tanya Dakin.

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On September 17 (9 days ago) I got a cold-call email from an Account Executive at PR firm KCSA Strategic Communications. This is what it said:

Hi Violet,
Later this month, ICM Registry, the company that created and now operates .xxx domain names, is launching their very own search engine just for adult entertainment websites, Search.xxx. Similar to your favorite search engine, consumers looking to surf the web for adult content only have to input a few keywords or topics and thousands of .xxx websites will appear.

Not only is Search.xxx the first search engine dedicated to over 13 million .xxx websites, it is the only porn search engine that brings you “clean” porn –clean in a good way! The .xxx domains are the only ones in the world that benefit from a daily malware scanning as a standard, which makes it one of the safest top level domains on the Internet; no cookies, no tracking, and no unwanted viruses will be stored on your computer when you visit a .xxx site.

In addition, it has a very simple user interface, with zero clips – so when you visit the site and search for what you like, you will only run into the porn of your choice (no accidental glimpses of something that is NOT your speed).
I have the CEO and brainchild of Search.XXX, Stuart Lawley available to interview, as well as porn star Nina Mercedez. The search engine launches on Sept 27th, so I’d love to set up something that runs towards the end of the month.
Let me know your thoughts on this.
Thanks! [NAME REDACTED]

When I read this email, I honestly contemplated doing some good old fashioned trolling on ICM Registry and their PR company. Not that I wouldn’t love to interview Nina Mercedez and Mr. Lawley about competitive search engine marketing and optimization for its clients, or their opinions on determining user intent, especially as related to current trends in semantic search among their competitors. Because I think that would be good fun. But I couldn’t tell if ICM and KCSA Strategic were trying to place a PR-disguised-as-news piece on my blog here, or on one of the other channels I write for, such as c|net or ZDnet. Either way, a quick search on any engine in the universe with my name and their client would have told them that I was so so so the wrong person to ask for promotion of anything dot-XXX:

More importantly, the chances of me ever taking someone’s PR and passing it off as news are about as likely as the odds of me deciding it would be fun to ruin the twelve years of reader trust I’ve built in one fell swoop by regurgitating a press release for one of the most pernicious, malfeasant actors in the gTLD space to date.

Aside from my previous coverage of their client, and the fact that I’m not a shill, one must ask is this – an overly specific search engine in a walled garden of low number content – among many other great porn search engines, newsworthy? No. No, it’s not.

I got busy with breaking the Wikipedia story for c|net, and forgot about the email.

The Account Executive at PR firm KCSA Strategic Communications emailed me a couple days later with a resend of the text, and telling me she’d love to send me a press kit. It got lost in the developing Wikimedia hurricane that kept my inbox on fire (and still does, for the story seems to be unfinished and on slow burn).

Today, looking over my news filters and feeds, I was amused like Willy Wonka to see which outlets are “reporting” the “news” – I mean, regurgitating the press kit and pissing in the actual news pool – with ICM Registry’s content via KCSA Strategic Communications. Right on time, as per the solicitation.

Here’s who fell for it and hit publish on a press release today, and thinks you won’t know any better – file under you’re being lied to:

This happens all the time, but I thought you might find it interesting to actually see it in action.

Main post image: Kiki and her MacBook (Hegre Art).

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I sort of don’t know which is sexier to me – Angga Pratama‘s filthysexy galleries – like Ms. Pretty Pussy, Teenage Naughtiness, Stockings, Black Cross, Bookshelf, Nakkid Planking With Stiletto’s – or their bio photo.

Hmmm.

Also, don’t be a damn fool and miss ogling Pratama’s Tumblr.

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  • My dear friend Jack Shamama brings us the above iPhone pic – a classic Folsom Street Fair moment in time (San Francisco, Sunday September 23).
    Best Folsom 2012 moment … (Jack Shamama | Twitter)
  • Turkish rescue workers retrieved an inflatable sex doll from the Black Sea after police were notified by panicked residents who mistook it for a woman’s body floating offshore, Milliyet newspaper reported on Sunday.
    Turkish divers ‘rescue’ blow-up sex doll from sea (Reuters)
  • At The Rumpus, Zoe Ruiz writes a melodic essay about meeting her first and only porn star crush, Kink’s Princess Donna.
    Donna (The Rumpus)
  • So many sex subcultures get to do the biggest ‘I told you so’ over this one: New research finds that comfort with sexual communication is directly linked to sexual satisfaction. According to the study, people who are more comfortable talking about sex are apparently happier with their erotic lives.
    Talking About Sex During Sex Is Good for Sex (LiveScience)
  • The fact that Burning Man has not been doing rape kits before shipping sexual assault victims off the playa is so fucking inexcusable, I can’t even dig into the rest of this post, which is (IMO) one horrifying admission after another.
    Sexual Assault in Black Rock City (Burning [Man] Blog)
  • One of the sex educators I respect above nearly all others is Dr. Cory Silverberg, and in this post he describes how he sees and defines gender in fascinating details. I think it’s the start of a roadmap for our present, and their future.
    What Do I Call Gender? (About: Sex)
  • National Geographic’s “Taboo” series has mostly been poorly researched, sex-negative, sensationalistic crap. But this installment about female bodybuilders paying rent by doing fetish work is interesting.
    Muscle Worship (National Geographic Channel)
  • There’s most certainly more to this story: an English subject worksheet for third-year students at an Islamic school in East Java contained the [clothed] image of the porn star Maria Ozawa, popularly known as Miyabi.
    Japanese porn star in workbook angers Indonesian parents (Times LIVE)
  • Bosnia’s electoral commission has kicked out an independent candidate from the race for the mayor of the country’s fourth-largest city for using online porn to attract voters: Mirad Hadziahmetovic was banned from participating in the race for mayor of Zenica in the October elections for uploading pornographic video clips to his official campaign site.
    Bosnian candidate banned from elections over porn (Boston.com)
  • Last week’s CatalystCon, a new conference on human sexuality, assembled a variety of perspectives around sex and porn, from sex educator Charlie Glickman’s take on modern masculinity to “professional naked woman” Jolene Parton’s views on fat women in porn.
    Porn and the media: How the pornography industry wants to be covered (Slate)
  • We already knew Paris Hilton was a bigot, mostly towards Blacks and Asians, but now we get to add gays to that list. A taxi driver recorded a conversation between Paris and her gay model friend who was explaining the Grindr app. This eventually led to Paris Hilton shouting that most gays have AIDS.
    Paris Hilton Says Most Gays Who Have Sex Randomly Probably Have AIDS (The Blemish)

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Autostraddle’s NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday is a treat every week. This week is no exception. Le yum.

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Eye Candy: Pretty Porn Sunday

23 September 2012
Marla, and a guy and a girl Busty Kenza Sucke with Ricky Manccini Coco Charnelle - fellatio Jasmine Arabia - massage party Candice & Valerie - Ebony And Ivory (main post photo) Engelie - Tropical Tease Subil A - Spirto (this guy is so hot) Lily Love - The Date Dani Daniels, Holly Michaels, Jasmine W - A […]
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Wolf Hudson is Bad

22 September 2012
The title of this post wanted to be "Wolf Hudson is Hot" but I got a little shy at the last minute. This sexy photo of porn stars Jiz Lee and Wolf Hudson that Jiz just Tweeted made me have to share Wolf Hudson is Bad with you, Wolf's insanely […]
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Practice Part 1 and 2

22 September 2012
Two pretty posts to get your weekend off on the right foot. Practice 1 and Practice 2 by Therese + Joel (Model: Samantha Xu).
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A Steampunk’s Guide to Sex

21 September 2012
Adorable, and must be featured here for all Victoriana fetishists: A Steampunk's Guide to Sex is a project in the making by Combustion Books that is currently looking for Kickstarter support. For some, the halcyon days of steampunk may be long gone, but this idea has enough whimsey and […]
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Boardwalk Empire returns: we miss you, Jimmy

20 September 2012
HBO's Boardwalk Empire returned this past Sunday in a hail of bullets, betrayal, bitterness and sex - thank the gods. As you can see by the above image of gorgeous Meg Chambers Steedle (Nucky Thompson's new mistress), we're off to a great start. There is so much to love about […]
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Sex News: Breaking Bad XXX, PinSex, Sex Ed Justice, Boy Scout Pedos

19 September 2012
Music video by New Afternoons In Stereo via Buzzoutroom. When prostitution cases are brought before a judge in Britain, a particular kind of “John” (or customer) will almost always have the case tossed out of court: that is, if the customer is a person with a disability. The Moral Significance of […]
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Eye Candy: Animated Kink – The new BDSM hentai site from Kink dot com

19 September 2012
I'm happy to see Kink add the genre of hentai to their stable of BDSM websites. Animated Kink is off to a great start; I just got the notification that it's ready for sharing so I've gone into the interface to get you some free galleries in case you want […]
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The A to Z of porn by Bish Training

17 September 2012
Bish Training is a widely respected, indie porn UK-based education website that fouces on helping people of all ages (particularly young adults) understand the entertaining artifice of pornsex - as well as know how to make enjoyable choices surrounding one's own porn observation and consumption. Bish just published The 'A' […]
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Eye Candy: Quickies

16 September 2012
The new video for Joymii's recentest F-F-M threesome scene (here's the gallery) Gallery and video for French porn site Explicite Art's newest M-M-F threesome (main post image) The video and gallery for SexArt's new film Brothel with Holly Michaels and William Corazon Video and gallery for SexArt's new short hardcore film Spark Man […]
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Racy: British GQ’s Woman of the Year Lana Del Ray

15 September 2012
British GQ has Lana Del Ray as their 2012 Woman of the Year, and the shoot is really hot. Lots of skin, no real nudes, but I think it's really sexy. All the images are here on ZenGarage in nice big sizes.
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NSFW looks great with a RED camera

14 September 2012
Over at Treats! Magazine, they getting ready to pop out their fourth issue - and the cover girl is supermodel Sessilee Lopez (one of the four cover models for Vogue Italia’s Black Issue in 2008). While I was checking her out on their fabulous blog, I spotted an interesting post […]
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Eye Candy: Best of Babes

13 September 2012
Tanusha A - Wet Beauty (main post image) Beilija - Raw Rebeca - Midnight Release Abby - City Chic Sinia - Dimiergo Afrodita - Rosa Mia Manarote - Home Alone Little Caprice - Boring Afternoon Olivia F - Postavit Monika F - Ideato Frida - Presenting Frida Sof A - Anixi (holy wow, those flowers!) Lyala A, Milena D - Zevgari Milania A […]
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[Video] Eniko Mihalik for 25 Magazine

13 September 2012
Hungarian model Eniko Mihalik stars in this tasty short for 25 Magazine. Via Fashionography.
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Sex News: Dong Draper, Kiss of the Damned, New Yorker nip privilege, Google unbans bisexuals

11 September 2012
Gore warning on the above trailer for Kiss of the Damned. JWZ provides a concise summary of The New Yorker's *temporary* Facebook ban for showing illustrated nipples in a cartoon. I'm sorry, but - unlike the rest of us (April Flores, Ducky Doolittle, etc.) The New Yorker's account was quickly reinstated […]
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