Comments on: Sex News: Porn’s Condom Problem, Plus Size Models, Prison Sex, XBIZ Porn Awards http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2012/01/sex-news-porns-condom-problem-plus-size-models-prison-sex-xbiz-porn-awards.html Journalist and author Violet Blue's site for sex and tech culture, accurate sex information, erotica and more. Tue, 26 May 2015 17:18:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: tejanojim http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2012/01/sex-news-porns-condom-problem-plus-size-models-prison-sex-xbiz-porn-awards.html/comment-page-1#comment-19992 tejanojim Sat, 14 Jan 2012 06:02:02 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=13948#comment-19992 "No one can stop you for from feeling more, or less, attracted to a particular type. But we might think you have a moral obligation to try to overcome that preference. You could examine where this particular preference comes from, and you could make a special effort to date other types." White guy who prefers Asian women here. Yes, I'm a stereotype. Too damn bad. The above statement strikes me as no more plausible than telling a gay man he has "a moral obligation to try to overcome that preference." People lust after who we lust after. Marriage is hard enough without being strongly, physically attracted to your partner. Should I have dated white women because it in some marginal way makes the world better? I do my best to be a loving and dedicated husband to my Filipina wife. She's not the easiest to live with, but neither am I. Our first child is due in a couple of weeks. Does anyone want to tell me what I've done wrong? “No one can stop you for from feeling more, or less, attracted to a particular type. But we might think you have a moral obligation to try to overcome that preference. You could examine where this particular preference comes from, and you could make a special effort to date other types.”

White guy who prefers Asian women here. Yes, I’m a stereotype. Too damn bad. The above statement strikes me as no more plausible than telling a gay man he has “a moral obligation to try to overcome that preference.” People lust after who we lust after. Marriage is hard enough without being strongly, physically attracted to your partner. Should I have dated white women because it in some marginal way makes the world better? I do my best to be a loving and dedicated husband to my Filipina wife. She’s not the easiest to live with, but neither am I. Our first child is due in a couple of weeks. Does anyone want to tell me what I’ve done wrong?

]]> By: epynephrin http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2012/01/sex-news-porns-condom-problem-plus-size-models-prison-sex-xbiz-porn-awards.html/comment-page-1#comment-19980 epynephrin Sat, 14 Jan 2012 04:18:47 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=13948#comment-19980 It's bugged me, for a long time, that completely normal-looking women in modeling are referred to as "plus size." By "bugged," I mean "pissed me off." That sets a ridiculously high standard, mostly because "plus size" clothing typically won't fit on "plus size" models. Also, it would be nice to be able to buy three pairs of pants at the same dimensions, and have them all fit roughly the same way... It’s bugged me, for a long time, that completely normal-looking women in modeling are referred to as “plus size.” By “bugged,” I mean “pissed me off.” That sets a ridiculously high standard, mostly because “plus size” clothing typically won’t fit on “plus size” models.

Also, it would be nice to be able to buy three pairs of pants at the same dimensions, and have them all fit roughly the same way…

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