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	<title>Comments on: Sex News: Apple, The Walking Dead, Google&#8217;s Transgender Gold Standard, OkCupid, Chaz Bono</title>
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		<title>By: violet blue</title>
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		<dc:creator>violet blue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2011 21:39:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All the information about the comic is illuminating - I haven&#039;t read it yet, but it sounds like if I had my expectations would be slightly - but not hugely - different. Yet I&#039;d still feel alienated by the female characters and the choices the writers are making, and I&#039;m guessing that their pacing (drawing out the character development) has made the female dependency more of a characterization issue that it should be otherwise.

And Mindvalve - thanks for reading, and best wishes to you as well. It&#039;s regretful there&#039;s no room in your world for conflicting viewpoints, though I&#039;m having a hard time believing that if you&#039;ve been reading for two years that my point of view about strength and/or complexity in female characters in fiction came as an unexpected surprise to you. I&#039;ve been editing fiction anthologies for women and heterosexual couples for over ten years now, and I do know how to pick a story with submissive females that don&#039;t insult my readers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All the information about the comic is illuminating &#8211; I haven&#8217;t read it yet, but it sounds like if I had my expectations would be slightly &#8211; but not hugely &#8211; different. Yet I&#8217;d still feel alienated by the female characters and the choices the writers are making, and I&#8217;m guessing that their pacing (drawing out the character development) has made the female dependency more of a characterization issue that it should be otherwise.</p>
<p>And Mindvalve &#8211; thanks for reading, and best wishes to you as well. It&#8217;s regretful there&#8217;s no room in your world for conflicting viewpoints, though I&#8217;m having a hard time believing that if you&#8217;ve been reading for two years that my point of view about strength and/or complexity in female characters in fiction came as an unexpected surprise to you. I&#8217;ve been editing fiction anthologies for women and heterosexual couples for over ten years now, and I do know how to pick a story with submissive females that don&#8217;t insult my readers.</p>
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		<title>By: d</title>
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		<dc:creator>d</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2011 14:35:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree this season has pacing issues... and unless I&#039;m remembering the last season through rose colored glasses, the dialog seems to be getting worse - interactions between people are becoming a little frustrated because of it.  But so far, I&#039;ve still enjoyed the season.

As for the Christian, red-state moral play... well, we&#039;ll see where they go with it, but it seems like the clash of values between the family on the farm and the main group is going to escalate, and could play out in interesting ways - and not in a way that really flatters some Christian values.  I mean... dude is keeping zombies in the barn b/c he thinks they are still people, and lamented the fact that they killed the zombie in the well... that combined with Maggie&#039;s reaction to the morning after pill thing.. the stage is being set for a major clash here, over these things.

And of course, remember - they are in the deep, traditional south.   The stereotypes tend to hold down there (and where I live, to an extent - NC).  
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree this season has pacing issues&#8230; and unless I&#8217;m remembering the last season through rose colored glasses, the dialog seems to be getting worse &#8211; interactions between people are becoming a little frustrated because of it.  But so far, I&#8217;ve still enjoyed the season.</p>
<p>As for the Christian, red-state moral play&#8230; well, we&#8217;ll see where they go with it, but it seems like the clash of values between the family on the farm and the main group is going to escalate, and could play out in interesting ways &#8211; and not in a way that really flatters some Christian values.  I mean&#8230; dude is keeping zombies in the barn b/c he thinks they are still people, and lamented the fact that they killed the zombie in the well&#8230; that combined with Maggie&#8217;s reaction to the morning after pill thing.. the stage is being set for a major clash here, over these things.</p>
<p>And of course, remember &#8211; they are in the deep, traditional south.   The stereotypes tend to hold down there (and where I live, to an extent &#8211; NC).<br />
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		<title>By: Mindvalve</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mindvalve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 16:36:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow...

I used to think you were different. I used to think you were reasonable and open minded. Now, with your response, it&#039;s clear to me that you&#039;re neither, except when it comes to the points you defend. If you told me that you just didn&#039;t like it, that would be fine with me, but your reasons speak volumes to me on the kind of person you are - an extremist. You&#039;re just an extremist from the sexual positive side.

I know one person is insignificant, but I&#039;ve been reading your blog for two years now and you just lost me forever. 
Good luck with your life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230;</p>
<p>I used to think you were different. I used to think you were reasonable and open minded. Now, with your response, it&#8217;s clear to me that you&#8217;re neither, except when it comes to the points you defend. If you told me that you just didn&#8217;t like it, that would be fine with me, but your reasons speak volumes to me on the kind of person you are &#8211; an extremist. You&#8217;re just an extremist from the sexual positive side.</p>
<p>I know one person is insignificant, but I&#8217;ve been reading your blog for two years now and you just lost me forever.<br />
Good luck with your life.</p>
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		<title>By: Rob</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 13:03:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the series suffers from some pacing issues for sure. However, you are missing out on Andrea becoming all sorts of bad-ass. You haven&#039;t met Maggie yet either, stopping where you did. And if they follow the comics (which don&#039;t really suffer from the same pacing issues as the show) then eventually you&#039;ll meet Michonne, who is majorly awesome. I just feel like (with especially Andrea), they are addressing the very things you&#039;re talking about head on.  It&#039;s just taking them a long time to do it at the pacing they&#039;ve chosen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the series suffers from some pacing issues for sure. However, you are missing out on Andrea becoming all sorts of bad-ass. You haven&#8217;t met Maggie yet either, stopping where you did. And if they follow the comics (which don&#8217;t really suffer from the same pacing issues as the show) then eventually you&#8217;ll meet Michonne, who is majorly awesome. I just feel like (with especially Andrea), they are addressing the very things you&#8217;re talking about head on.  It&#8217;s just taking them a long time to do it at the pacing they&#8217;ve chosen.</p>
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		<title>By: violet blue</title>
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		<dc:creator>violet blue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 04:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I could make a very long post about how fucked up the women in TWD are portrayed - especially in this second season. But I&#039;ll make it brief.

The female characters are relegated to the same social and agency status as children. Worse, the male children have more agency than the grown women. The female characters exist in their relationships to men, and the relationships have dated and stereotypical threads about what validates them as women.

I was so insulted that I barely finished the season two premiere, and I haven&#039;t looked back. Add to that all the christian religious trappings (I&#039;m not anti-christian or anti-religion, either) and I felt completely like I was watching a red state morality play.

Don&#039;t get me started about Silence of the Lambs. It&#039;s a great movie and I&#039;ve enjoyed it many times, but it reinforced harmful and flat-out wrong stereotypes about cross-dressers, people with kinky leanings and piercings, and cartoonized serial killers in a ridiculous way. It would have been scarier if the killer was more like real serial killers, who are typically *not* kinky crossdressers.  It purposely played on people&#039;s fear about sexual outsiderism, and created a raft of new misinformation about sexual outsiders.

I&#039;m all for characters that are true to their own fucked up, flawed and offensive natures. But it&#039;s not a singular issue on TWD, it&#039;s a saturated theme. I will watch *anything* with zombies, but I won&#039;t watch TWD again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I could make a very long post about how fucked up the women in TWD are portrayed &#8211; especially in this second season. But I&#8217;ll make it brief.</p>
<p>The female characters are relegated to the same social and agency status as children. Worse, the male children have more agency than the grown women. The female characters exist in their relationships to men, and the relationships have dated and stereotypical threads about what validates them as women.</p>
<p>I was so insulted that I barely finished the season two premiere, and I haven&#8217;t looked back. Add to that all the christian religious trappings (I&#8217;m not anti-christian or anti-religion, either) and I felt completely like I was watching a red state morality play.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get me started about Silence of the Lambs. It&#8217;s a great movie and I&#8217;ve enjoyed it many times, but it reinforced harmful and flat-out wrong stereotypes about cross-dressers, people with kinky leanings and piercings, and cartoonized serial killers in a ridiculous way. It would have been scarier if the killer was more like real serial killers, who are typically *not* kinky crossdressers.  It purposely played on people&#8217;s fear about sexual outsiderism, and created a raft of new misinformation about sexual outsiders.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m all for characters that are true to their own fucked up, flawed and offensive natures. But it&#8217;s not a singular issue on TWD, it&#8217;s a saturated theme. I will watch *anything* with zombies, but I won&#8217;t watch TWD again.</p>
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		<title>By: Winston Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Winston Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 14:31:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are lots of good reasons to stop watching TWD. It&#039;s really just godawful. Short scenes of zombie mayhem tacked together by what seems like hours of overwrought, nonsensical, badly-written, hyper-emotional, dialog between characters you just can&#039;t care about no matter how hard you try. I&#039;m willing to watch most anything with zombies in it, sad to say...and I can&#039;t yet bring myself to stop watching TWD...but I end up fast-forwarding through much of it, and expect I&#039;ll just stop soon enough. The very first episode of the series was, I thought, very good. Since then...ugh...lucky for TWD that Terra Nova is so unutterably awful...takes some of the critical heat off of them....(/cranky)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are lots of good reasons to stop watching TWD. It&#8217;s really just godawful. Short scenes of zombie mayhem tacked together by what seems like hours of overwrought, nonsensical, badly-written, hyper-emotional, dialog between characters you just can&#8217;t care about no matter how hard you try. I&#8217;m willing to watch most anything with zombies in it, sad to say&#8230;and I can&#8217;t yet bring myself to stop watching TWD&#8230;but I end up fast-forwarding through much of it, and expect I&#8217;ll just stop soon enough. The very first episode of the series was, I thought, very good. Since then&#8230;ugh&#8230;lucky for TWD that Terra Nova is so unutterably awful&#8230;takes some of the critical heat off of them&#8230;.(/cranky)</p>
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		<title>By: Hiero</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hiero</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 14:25:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I quit watching The Walking Dead in the third episode because it was *so boring* watching a bunch of people do nothing but stare disapprovingly at each other. Does that make me closed-minded for not appreciating how masterfully the writers managed to show that day-to-day life after the apocalypse is really dull?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I quit watching The Walking Dead in the third episode because it was *so boring* watching a bunch of people do nothing but stare disapprovingly at each other. Does that make me closed-minded for not appreciating how masterfully the writers managed to show that day-to-day life after the apocalypse is really dull?</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 14:11:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Second what Mindvalve said.  The issue of the bad science regarding taking morning after pills to induce a miscarriage is even addressed in the scene, when the guy who went and got the pills for her asks, &quot;Will that even work?&quot;  It&#039;s a desperate decision that I felt highlighted just how important and under appreciated such things are in our modern society; that when civilization breaks down women become slaves to their reproductive systems once again, with no viable options to ensure their safety.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Second what Mindvalve said.  The issue of the bad science regarding taking morning after pills to induce a miscarriage is even addressed in the scene, when the guy who went and got the pills for her asks, &#8220;Will that even work?&#8221;  It&#8217;s a desperate decision that I felt highlighted just how important and under appreciated such things are in our modern society; that when civilization breaks down women become slaves to their reproductive systems once again, with no viable options to ensure their safety.</p>
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		<title>By: Justin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 11:27:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>They got the science wrong, yes, you have to take two contraceptive pills quite quickly if you want to use that method to try and prevent implantation, it&#039;s also not a good idea compared to getting an actual morning after pill.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They got the science wrong, yes, you have to take two contraceptive pills quite quickly if you want to use that method to try and prevent implantation, it&#8217;s also not a good idea compared to getting an actual morning after pill.</p>
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		<title>By: Mindvalve</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mindvalve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 10:08:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You formed your opinion about the walking dead too soon. The female characters are not weak. Everyone is. It&#039;s the basis of the show. To show how flawed our humanity is when facing a zombie apocalypse. The walking dead are the humans not the zombies.

Secondly, she is only doing what many people think is right. That does not mean it&#039;s  right or that it&#039;swhat the writers think is right. When a writer creates a character he gives her her own thoughts, opinions, feelings and intelligence. Or do you also think that the guy who wrote silence of the lambs is a cannibal?

You&#039;re being as close minded on this issue as the people you complain about when it comes to porn.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You formed your opinion about the walking dead too soon. The female characters are not weak. Everyone is. It&#8217;s the basis of the show. To show how flawed our humanity is when facing a zombie apocalypse. The walking dead are the humans not the zombies.</p>
<p>Secondly, she is only doing what many people think is right. That does not mean it&#8217;s  right or that it&#8217;swhat the writers think is right. When a writer creates a character he gives her her own thoughts, opinions, feelings and intelligence. Or do you also think that the guy who wrote silence of the lambs is a cannibal?</p>
<p>You&#8217;re being as close minded on this issue as the people you complain about when it comes to porn.</p>
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