From the monthly archives:

October 2011

  • Friend and fellow tech geek Sinnamon Love writes, “As a parent, a woman and a porn star, this whole Amber Cole debacle has me heated. I have to wonder, did anyone ever have a discussion with Amber Cole about sex in public places or looking out for hidden cameras? Did anyone ever say to these boys that pornography is something produced for and by adults and is not something for children and teens to engage in?” Life, Love & Sinn: The Miseducation Of Amber Cole (The Well Versed)
  • China has shut 50 microblogs (note: Twitter is a microblog) for distributing pornography and carrying “vulgar content” state media said on Monday, as the government steps up monitoring of the internet. China shuts 50 microblogs for porn, vulgarity (Reuters)
  • Charlotte Allen writes in the LAT on Saturday wondering why advocates for women and girls lament the sexualization of Halloween — and in almost the same breath, support the SlutWalk movement. Allen sees “irony” and “contradiction” here, missing the essential coherence of these two positions. Sexy Halloween Costumes for Girls Don’t Cause Rape (The Good Men Project)
  • Denying he ever sexually harassed anyone, yet offering conflicting responses, Republican presidential candidate Herman Cain declared Monday he was falsely accused in the 1990s while he was head of the National Restaurant Association. Herman Cain Says He Was ‘Falsely Accused’ of Harassment (ABC News)
  • “You could get the impression that having sexist beliefs, or prejudiced beliefs more generally, is just an individual thing—‘my beliefs don’t impact you,’” Brandt says. But this study shows that isn’t true. If individual people in a society are sexist, men and women in that society become less equal. Individual Beliefs Lead to Gender Discrimination (Psych Central News)
  • The American Academy of Pediatrics now recommends that all teens 16 to 18 years old receive regular, routine HIV tests if they live in an area where the prevalence of HIV is greater than 0.1% of the population. Doctors urge HIV testing starting at 16 (CNN Blogs)
  • Sexuality exists as a spectrum, not as a rigidly defined set of boundaries. Sexuality as a spectrum (Columbia Spectator)
  • The porn star vs. prostitute class clash is a deep and persistent rift. It stems primarily from the completely ludicrous legal logic that deems one profession criminal and the other not. Sex Work Snobbery (Tits and Sass)

  • Way better than OkCupid or eHarmony, Craigslist will help a girl find that special guy to fuck her up the ass. Yay Craig (I mean, his list)! Craigslist Personals Ad Campaign (Buzzfeed)

[SATISFY your CURIOSITY and CONTINUE READING…]

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If you like puppets, googly eyes and trans pride, you’ll squee like I did over the above trailer for the 10th Anniversary San Francisco Transgender Film Festival, which kicks off this coming Thursday with a night of performance by transgender and gender-variant artists, and follows it up with full two nights of short films. As this year’s Call for Entries describes it, the Festival exhibits “Groundbreaking, provocative, outrageous, courageous, moving and innovative works that show the complexity of lives lived on the transgender/ genderqueer spectrum.”

The whole thing’s at CounterPulse, 1310 Mission Street in San Francisco, November 3-5, with sliding scale admission $12-15 each night. If you’re interested in attending, it’s highly recommended that you buy tickets in advance at Brown Paper Tickets, since last year’s event not only sold out — it broke CounterPulse’s all-time attendance record. The SFTFF, true to the heart of San Francisco’ss transgender and gender-variant community, has cast a wide and inclusive net thanks to the attentions of its many volunteers, Fresh Meat Productions and the Festival’s longtime artistic director, Shawna Virago.

Weirdly, the Los Angeles Transgender Film Festival is on the very same dates, which sounds like it would really put a damper on a few travel plans.

Anyway, back to the SFTFF! The live performances are on Thursday, November 3, starting at at 8pm, and the all-short-film-format runs on Friday and Saturday, November 4 and November 5, with different films each night. As the website says, the films feature “enticing tales of defiance, bullying, relationships, sex, humor, enchantment and romance…This year’s Festival features an award-winning mix of international films from countries including Thailand, Australia, Brazil, Israel, Canada, Singapore, Germany, Scotland, England, South Africa and The Netherlands.”

The Thursday performance gig features Annie Danger, D’Lo, Natsha Muse, Storm Miguel Florez, Butch Tap, Kentucky Fried Woman, Shawna Virago, Eli Conley and more, and is hosted by Fairy Butch. On Friday, the films include “Love and Other Red Spot Specials,” about a shoplifting transperson in an isolated Australian town; the German “Ring Frei,” about a transman boxer, “Robin Hood is So Gay,” in which Sherwood Forest’s hero is tweaked right back to his ultra-gay roots. There’s also “Butch Tits,” in which butch women “discuss the sometimes complicatated relationship they have with their breasts,” and that’s just to mention a few.

Another of Friday’s short films sounds like a fascinating documentary and an important addition to trans history: “Changing House” by Z.A. Martohardjono, in which “Rusty and Chelsea are a transgender lesbian couple who devoted 15 years to making their Brooklyn home a communal living space for transgender women in need and transgender civil rights organizers, including Stonewall legend Sylvia Rivera.”

Saturday’s films include the California premiere of Nikki Lee Taylor’s “The Lusty Gypsies.” — “On the stage it’s glitz and glitter, but backstage the gloves come off: the choices and differences between Drag and Transsexual performers are explored.”

Saturday also includes what sound like two amazing historical films, one fictional but inspired by a real story, and one the California premiere of rare historical documents. “Lili Longed to Feel Her Insides” is a “short fairy tale” inspired by the life of Lili Elbe, who died in 1931 of complications from one of the first (attempted) male-to-female gender reassignment surgeries — a procedure that included the transplantation of a uterus (she appears to have died from tissue rejection). And “Dayzee Dee’s Dazzling Drag Balls” is “[A] rare super 8mm film of pre-Stonewall Brooklyn drag balls plus contemporary interviews with early drag ball organizers.” Another of Saturday’s offerings, “The Panty Man,” tells “The true story of a man’s obsession with female panties and his denial of his sexuality.”

Remember, last year’s Festival broke attendance records at CounterPulse, so buy tickets in advance! Find out more about the SFTFF at www.sftff.org, and while you’re at it, you can hit the Twitterverse to follow both the SF Transgender Film Festival and Fresh Meat Productions and even “like” Fresh Meat and SFTFF on Facebook, if you do that sort of thing.

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Perfect for the day: happy Halloween!

Do visit the dark eros over at Jeffrey Scott’s website Factory 1019. While the images are lushly dark like the ones in this Halloween post, it was difficult not to select for you the cream of the crop, which I think are in the mechanical girls series – and there are so very many. I especially love those, the pleasure models and Nexus babes, “upgraded” maids and twisted Vaudeville themes with siamese twins, but I do the doll/mannequin themes are also exquisite. Look in all three portfolios.

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This fun, slow motion glittery spank video is by Photography Factory UK via Unscathed Corpse. I also really liked their slow motion film of a smiling girl in a bikini jumping rope:

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Filles De Nuit in the Fall 2011 issue of Treats Magazine is a wonderfully dark and sexy, Blade Runner-esque photo editorial that fits with the season. Do take a look. The accompanying video is embedded below and its style is completely inspiring for a noir-speakeasy sex vibe (which I love), although the music is not to my taste. No matter, it’s quite hot… and don’t miss the photographer Steven Lyon‘s dreamy, glossy, sexed-up site. Along with sultry female nudes, it’s chock full of hot men, too.

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Memewatch: Big Bad Wolfing

27 October 2011
Yesterday my friend Crimson sent me the bizarre video Big Bad Wolf's Video By Duck Sauce (embedded above) and it is a slice of crazy pie hot from the oven of someone that not only names their penis, but also assigns pet names, identities and Facebook accounts to the genitals […]
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Eye Candy: Fresh French Hardcore

26 October 2011
New galleries from our favorite French hardcore site... Yay! Mademoiselle L. - smoking fetish Pauline Cooper - with a fantastic Lelo Iris (pictured) Kenza Sucke - très bon use of Opi crackle nail polish Marla G. - with two gentlemen and their morning baguettes Katia D. - with two more baguettes for a filling petit […]
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Sex News: Transgender Girl Scouts, Girl vs Zombie, Libyan Sexuality, Michael Fassbender’s NC17 Penis

26 October 2011
Above: new racy Axe commercial Hot Girl vs. Zombie. Following the story of a child who was denied enrollment in a local Girl Scout troop despite identifying as a girl, yesterday the Girl Scouts of Colorado spoke out in support of transgender children. Girl Scouts of Colorado Released Statement Welcoming Transgender […]
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TSA Misses Loaded Guns, But Finds Silver Bullets

25 October 2011
As you may know, the Transportation Safety Administration doesn't have an impeccable record when it comes to sex and sexual assault issues, the simple sanctity of passenger bodies, passenger privacy, et cetera. Sure, sometimes that can be pretty funny -- because, hey, what's not hilarious about being non-consensually groped? Other […]
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[Video] Halloween Delight: Agent Provocateur Soiree 2011 “Les Fleurs du Mal”

25 October 2011
Wonderfully, just in time for my favorite holiday of the year! A dream come true (and a bit close to home for this gothy girl - yum!) Found via Miss AP. Link: Halloween Evil: Agent Provocateur Soiree 2011 "Les Fleurs du Mal"
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UK Sex Work Data Analysis: Infographic of Popular Terms, Sex Acts, Escort Appearance and Best Service

24 October 2011
On his new blog, Jon Millward has published the results of 5,000 escort reviews based on data from the UK sex work review website PunterNet. Don't miss his infographic, in the shape of a blonde woman on a couch (the most popular hair color and location for sex acts, respectively). Millward […]
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GOP Frontrunners Would Make Contraception Illegal; Rachel Maddow Responds With Basic Sex Ed Lesson for Romney

24 October 2011
As you may know, one of the big questions in the Republican U.S. Presidential primary is just how rabidly anti-choice each candidate can be. Afraid of being labeled not-rabidly-anti-abortion-enough by Republican voters, the candidates have been struggling to one-up both each other and themselves -- with anti-choice positions migrating ever […]
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Sex News: Online Sperm Donation, Rihanna, Military Rape Epidemic, Sacred Sex

24 October 2011
Don't miss my article from the weekend, Hacktivist Collective Anonymous Attacks Child Porn Websites and Publish User Names(Pulp Tech) Why feminists can't be sex-positive: "A lot of criticism of sex-positive feminism is really criticism of sexy women. It's hard to find a piece that isn't dripping with disgusted descriptions of women […]
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Eye Candy: A Late One-Handed Salute to International Fisting Day

23 October 2011
Female indie porn director Courtney Trouble is tired of Big Porn telling her to edit consensual fisting out of her indie porn films to gain "mainstream" acceptance - and get distribution though their hallowed, shriveling channels. In the first week of October, beloved queer porn star Jiz Lee and adored […]
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[Video] Bobbi Starr by Dave Naz

22 October 2011
Famed fetish photographer and friend Dave Naz recently did a photo shoot with kinky feminist porn star (and porn director) Bobbi Starr - this short video is a nice taste of the sexy bondage scenarios they created together.
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This Week in Porn Hysteria: Porn Causes Impotence Research Fakery (Again)

22 October 2011
Look, I'm not going to spend too much time on this one because the hysterical opinion and anecdote-based, copy-and-paste rant on Psychology Today "Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction Is a Growing Problem" already got used in March as the poster child for porn research hoaxing. Media literacy - is seriously lacking in […]
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Anonymous Outs Pedos, Hitachi Magic Wand Banned, War on Sex Ed, Rihanna LaChapelle Lawsuit [Sex News]

22 October 2011
This past week hacktivist collective Anonymous claimed credit for taking offline over 40 websites used for sharing pedophilia - and for exposing the names and identifying information of more than 1500 alleged pedophiles that had been using the sites. Anonymous Attacks Child Porn Websites and Publish User Names (Pulp Tech) Rihanna […]
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Extreme Tightlacing in Corsets: The Discipline of Fashion by Steven Meisel

21 October 2011
Fashion photographer Steven Meisel took model Stella Tennant to fetish extremes for a recent Vogue Italy shoot, The Discipline of Fashion. Yes, that's actually Tennant's waist tightlaced into haute couture corsetry for fashion's sake. Don't fret if you're unfamiliar with corset fetish and tightlacing. It has nothing to to with […]
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Eye Candy: Wet Fingers

21 October 2011
Tegan: Alone At Home Caprice: Interview Megan and Caprice: Pillow War Maria: Wet Fingers Hayden: What I Really Like - Video Denisa and Abagail Difrancesca and Richie Konata: Tokyo Massage (pictured)
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