Comments on: [Video] The State of Sex and Dating in San Francisco, Commonwealth Club Panel http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/04/video-the-state-of-sex-and-dating-in-san-francisco-commonwealth-club-panel.html Journalist and author Violet Blue's site for sex and tech culture, accurate sex information, erotica and more. Tue, 26 May 2015 17:18:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Loveofmystery http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/04/video-the-state-of-sex-and-dating-in-san-francisco-commonwealth-club-panel.html/comment-page-1#comment-13304 Loveofmystery Mon, 02 May 2011 05:44:57 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=9692#comment-13304 I had a feeling that I should have bought tickets ahead and as I was futzing with an outdoor internet connection, the friend I was with said it would be fine since it was a weeknight and so I was disappointed when I arrived downtown to a sold out event. So I am glad I got a chance to view it. I thought you did a great job Violet-of keeping the panelists in discourse, organized and the topic engaging. My question would have been this: When the sex positive-porn positive-pansexual-kinky playground people are your tribe, how do you make deeper and mostly monogamous relationships without giving up that lifestyle? I had a feeling that I should have bought tickets ahead and as I was futzing with an outdoor internet connection, the friend I was with said it would be fine since it was a weeknight and so I was disappointed when I arrived downtown to a sold out event. So I am glad I got a chance to view it.

I thought you did a great job Violet-of keeping the panelists in discourse, organized and the topic engaging.

My question would have been this: When the sex positive-porn positive-pansexual-kinky playground people are your tribe, how do you make deeper and mostly monogamous relationships without giving up that lifestyle?

]]> By: moneda http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/04/video-the-state-of-sex-and-dating-in-san-francisco-commonwealth-club-panel.html/comment-page-1#comment-13188 moneda Wed, 27 Apr 2011 04:13:09 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=9692#comment-13188 I finally got around to watching this and I'd have to agree with Kit in regards to you having to pull answers out of the panel like teeth. A nice watch overall though. Kudos. I finally got around to watching this and I’d have to agree with Kit in regards to you having to pull answers out of the panel like teeth. A nice watch overall though. Kudos.

]]> By: Kit Kawaii http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/04/video-the-state-of-sex-and-dating-in-san-francisco-commonwealth-club-panel.html/comment-page-1#comment-13142 Kit Kawaii Sun, 24 Apr 2011 09:47:28 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=9692#comment-13142 Great job at keeping the questions interesting and diverse! Is it just me or did it feel like you had to wrangle almost every question out of the panel :-) Great job at keeping the questions interesting and diverse!
Is it just me or did it feel like you had to wrangle almost every question out of the panel :-)

]]> By: Ario http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/04/video-the-state-of-sex-and-dating-in-san-francisco-commonwealth-club-panel.html/comment-page-1#comment-13141 Ario Sun, 24 Apr 2011 06:18:49 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=9692#comment-13141 Great event! Also related to SIS... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Propinquity Great event! Also related to SIS… http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Propinquity

]]> By: Conflicted Monogamist http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/04/video-the-state-of-sex-and-dating-in-san-francisco-commonwealth-club-panel.html/comment-page-1#comment-13139 Conflicted Monogamist Sun, 24 Apr 2011 04:09:11 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=9692#comment-13139 Those were some great questions at the very end, and some interesting answers to them. In fact, I'm really glad that the dating coach who asked the final question got a chance to speak out. Living in a major metro area and looking back on my days of being on the market, it's all true. It's challenging to find the places you refer to as high SIS situations though, when you don't know anyone in a city which makes the whole thing a big catch-22. Even if all you're looking for is just a batch of new friends, it's a really hard nut to crack. Those were some great questions at the very end, and some interesting answers to them. In fact, I’m really glad that the dating coach who asked the final question got a chance to speak out. Living in a major metro area and looking back on my days of being on the market, it’s all true. It’s challenging to find the places you refer to as high SIS situations though, when you don’t know anyone in a city which makes the whole thing a big catch-22. Even if all you’re looking for is just a batch of new friends, it’s a really hard nut to crack.

]]> By: Jack http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/04/video-the-state-of-sex-and-dating-in-san-francisco-commonwealth-club-panel.html/comment-page-1#comment-13133 Jack Sun, 24 Apr 2011 01:17:25 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=9692#comment-13133 Nice Job, you are getting much better at public appearance. Nice Job, you are getting much better at public appearance.

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