From the monthly archives:

April 2011

  • No, we will never ever be able to afford the Kohler Numi Bidet Toilet ($6400) but damn, the commercial makes it look sexy. (YouTube)
  • The brand-new Jimmyjane Form 4 ($145) was high on my want list – and then they sent me one. I can objectively state that despite that disclosure, it is well worth wanting. (video, Babeland)

Titan Cock Cage

  • This is very cool: the TitanMen Tools Cock Cage is a nontoxic, phthalate free and hypoallergenic sleeve that can be used for sensation play or for adding girth for vaginal penetration (not safe for anal play). And I spotted that it’s on sale! (SALE: $9.71, Stockroom)
  • It’s an open secret that Etsy is the place to find well made and inexpensive leather BDSM toys, but finding this soy, petroleum-free set of play candles – in colors, which are hard to find unscented and in soy – is a score. Click through for temperature details. Ideal for dripping or drizzling hot wax on a squirming lover: Pillar Play Candle ($4) by BearThings (Etsy)

Kitty Sleep Mask

Love Sexy Body Harness

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North Carolina photographer J. Caldwell has so many visual moods, it was difficult to select a single image to represent this work with: this is the front page of J. Caldwell’s Tumblr, Neither Here Nor There. But I think the archives are a much easier to parse gallery, and have lots of animal masks, tattoos, and at least one naked girl with a chainsaw. He has a non-nude series called Droidaroids that I think are Polaroid style photos taken with his Android, and I’d like to know what app he’s using if that’s the case. And for chemical structure nerds that also happen to enjoy nudity, check out his Chemical Bonds series – you see, Caldwell has a PhD in neurobiology.

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Chantelle MetArt

Sorry, I can’t help it. I stayed up late last night watching the Royal Wedding (spoiler alert: Harry looks like a perv the whole time, and the Queen escapes the tentacles of scary Cthulu Hat).

Pretty girls posing and prancing solo in photos: Milena D., Elina, Kitty, Indiana and Yusi on the beach (jealous!), redhead Kirstie, Chantelle (pictured above) who looks like a runway model, busty Lana, hot Leona, pretty Anna Q., and Gwen in the… snow!

Solo gentlemen in videos: Kevin Crows, cute Zack Blake, tattooed Ty Roderick, Donny Wright, Phillip Aubrey playing with every part of himself and Paul Wagner looking a little like Prince Harry.

Boy-girl porns! Photos: Sexy Nikitia and Sebastien Barrio, my girlfriend Jasmine Arabia with two men. Videos: Lilo’s first on-camera p/v scene, OMG the girl with the mohawk is so hot… that’s Eliska. Couples filmed by gay studios: Anthony and Madison, Darcy Tyler and Mason Star, and Tyler Torro with Katie Summers.

Pairs and trios of ladies together enjoying each others’ company in videos: Hailee, Trixi and Nikka licking, Ashlie and Tasha fingering, Rosalie, Ashlie and Neve (cute!), Iris and Suzie avec dildo, Natali and Adela poolside, and Bibi Iris and Mia strappin’ it on. Don’t miss the new French lesbian video gallery over at Explicite Art – and photo shoots of three girls being sexy-silly, and Cecilia , Rachel, Astrae fisting and squirting.

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chalmydia plush toy

  • Black Eyed Pea will.i.am tells Elle that women who have condoms on hand are basically tacky hos – putting forth a view about women taking care of their sexual health that is neither ‘cute’ or ‘old fashioned’ but is in reality demeaning and devaluing: Master Pea (Elle)
  • With all the hate directed at porn performers so far this year, let’s send one some love – Hollie Stevens has been diagnosed with breast cancer and needs to raise some survival funds: Help Support Loving Hollie Stevens- Breast Cancer (GiveForward.com)
  • Take it with a grain of PR flavored salt, but it is fun to read the survey on “cubs” (young men who date older women) and find out that American Pie was not that far off at all: Cougars and Cubs Dating Secrets Revealed (Cougared.com)
  • Very moving. A mother-in-law with past sexual trauma comes to terms with both being disturbed by her porn star son-in-law’s work, and inspired by his deeply loving relationship with his porn star girlfriend (who happens to be Maggie Mayhem) Finding healthy boundaries for family (My Whole Sex Life)
  • You have to watch this video! So funny – from the 1970s, a quick clip of archival footage of a female “barker” in front of a San Francisco Strip club. Love it when the reporter comments on “this equal rights thing”: Memory Lane: “Lady Barker” At Garden Of Eden Strip Club (SFAppeal)
  • Those particular Republicans should read this fabulous op-ed about the proposed Mississippi sex-ed law that would help lower the teen pregnancy/STI rates: New sex ed law is a must (The Clarion-Ledger)

Image: Chlamydia Plush Microbe (Etsy)

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Jiz Lee and Stoya by Rae Threat

Two small pages of arresting portraits that I want to call ‘beautiful pictures of beautiful people’ – because they are. Rae Threat‘s galleries on Behance, comprised of right now’s top cult porn stars, include The Industry: Textured and The Industry: Select Works. In them you’ll find achingly romantic photos of April Flores, classics like the John Lennon/Yoko Ono shot of Jiz Lee and Stoya shot (above), plus really incredible pics of Dana Dearmond, Dylan Ryan, Courtney Trouble (who I can tell was photographed in Eon McKai’s kitchen), and Drew DeVeaux.

Also: Threat’s archives are on fire.

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New York Initiative real life superheroesThe Long Island Serial Killer has dismembered and murdered possibly up to ten women, and all of the victims are sex workers. Many feel that because they are sex workers the victims (and any potential victims) have not been treated respectfully (or seriously) by the press – and some say, the police as well.

Real life superhero vigilantes in New York – the New York Initiative – have decided to step in and have sworn to do everything they can to protect sex workers from the Long Island Serial Killer. They are offering brute-force, no questions asked protection – because they believe police are inadequate:

The Long Island Killer is out there. He’s a scary bastard, and it’s starting to seem like he is focusing on you pretty ladies because some people are slower to report you missing, and also because apparently the law doesn’t respect your personal choices and that means cops are slower to follow through when it comes to you. Well, I’m here to say FUCK THAT. We respect you as human beings, we believe in personal freedoms and think that you’re doing something that is absolutely your choice to do.

Members of the New York Initiative are trained in martial arts, and use weapons. They can be found on the New York Initiative Facebook Page, and have also issued a statement to sex workers and are offering concrete systems in which they can be employed for protection on this Craigslist New York ad. NYI’s posting also promises:

We will react quickly and without hesitation every time, using our considerable contacts to the full extent of their reach.

We also want to extend to you our services as the NYI: Namely, practical martial arts training free of charge, as well as improvised weapons training free of charge (i.e. pens, phones, keys)…Add to this basic to advanced survival skills, or pretty much anything else you want to know about that will keep you safe out there.

We care about you. We want you alive, in this world, just like everyone else. Because you’re a human being, and you are deserving of love. The NYI loves you, and we’re here to bust the asses of any asshole trying to hurt you.

This is just one of the ways we can get the Long Island Killer off the streets, as well as make what you do safer.

Let me say one more time that we won’t involve law enforcement unless you are in serious danger. The logs will be kept personal and private, because what do the police need to know about your personal life, right? It’s just a date, for cryin’ out loud.

Be safe out there, whatever you choose. You are no longer alone.

New York Initiative ad on Craigslist offering sex workers protection from the Long Island Serial Killer

Click the above image for full-size text; NYI has specifically requested that people spread the ad, and its message far and wide, and encourage reposting. The group was featured in the documentary about real life superheroes, “Superheroes” by Michael Barnett (image via). NYI’s members also have cool superhero names, such as Dark Guardian, Blindside, BattleStar, Skinner and Shade.

There are more cool photos of NYI in their armor and gear in this Facebook album.

(Some information via; thanks for the tip Juliette)

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Sunday Nibbles: McDonalds Victim Speaks, BDSM Massage Therapy, Anti-Porn Feminist Confronted, Much Ado About Semen

24 April 2011
Raging on the social internets since the incident broke Friday morning - warning, this is very painful to parse. Trans girl is beaten until she has a seizure in a McDonald's restroom, its employees film and post to YouTube (with sickening commentary), media picks it up. Kudos to the […]
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[Video] The State of Sex and Dating in San Francisco, Commonwealth Club Panel

23 April 2011
I recently had the honor of being asked to moderate a Commonwealth Club panel, The State of Sex and Dating in San Francisco. On March 31, I arrived to a standing-room-only event (with people waiting outside for possible openings), and moderated a panel that consisted of Ethan Watters (Urban Tribes, […]
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The Feminist Porn Awards 2011 Winners (Galleries, Video, More)

22 April 2011
Now in its fifth year, the Feminist Porn Awards are making history, getting recognition from the mainstream porn industry, and becoming legendary. (They didn't need anything from Big Porn, but I think it's great to see more bridges built.) No narrow stereotypes of porn, of feminism, or anything else here […]
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Sock Puppets, Jack Puppets, and Spotting Sexual Predators

22 April 2011
Sock puppets are a huge annoyance to anyone who runs a forum or manages comments on any public site that allows them. A sock puppet or "sock" is an account or username created to obscure the identity of its user, so that person can comment on threads or edit materials […]
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PinkLab: Having Fun With Porn and the Ominous “Wall of Porn”

22 April 2011
Porn research labs, indeed. If you liked The Blowjob Game: Super Deepthroat, then you might like this experiment. Tired of pecking at girl-girl video pages one at a time? I'm not, but you might be. Flash clip site PinkLab is a free Flash video pick-a-mix of porn clips; pick a […]
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Thursday Nibbles: Serena Williams In a Bikini, Tour Kink.com, Zynga CEO Stalked by Stripper

21 April 2011
Serena Williams is a goddess. Here she is enjoying life (she recently had surgery for a blood clot in her lung) in a bikini, frolicking on the beach in Miami, more pics at Daily Fail link: Curvy tennis star Serena Williams gets her beach wiggle on... but her tiny bikini […]
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Eye Candy: More Naughty Bookworms and Girls With Glasses

20 April 2011
There's an eyewear store near my apartment here in San Francisco called "Specs In The City." Cheesy, but yeas, kind of cute - just like these galleries of slightly nerdy looking porn babes in glasses. While the girls in this post don't fall in the geek category, they definitely wear […]
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Wednesday Nibbles: Game of Thrones, 4/20 Sex, OkCupid Rip-off Report, The Onion’s Masturbation Rules

20 April 2011
If you're not familiar with the national holiday of people who live and love by the leafy green, today is 420 which is the police code for busting a pothead (not true!). Now you can fondly remember all those times you had sex with that one ex that never paid […]
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Fleet Ilya Leather Harnesses: Gallery of Restraint

19 April 2011
I've professed my love for Fleet Ilya's incredible leather products before as part of my Coco deMer ogling (such as Coco's Ilya Fleet Leather harness and the Ilya Fleet Leather Cane), yet I'd never really cruised their website. It's well worth it - at least, it is now. They've put […]
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Time Warp: Online Porn Shocker From 1991 – The Horror Of UseNet Porn

18 April 2011
As many of you know, I'm a tech columnist on CBS Interactive's blog Tech Broiler. This week we're celebrating the 20th anniversary of ZDNet, which is a little nuts. A tech site celebrating decades of anything? It's a nice feeling at a time when AOL/HuffPo is throwing great writers and […]
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Monday Nibbles: Eco Sex Spoof, Caught Masturbating Stories, Screwy Sex Toy Museum, Lady Gaga by Terry Richardson

18 April 2011
British humor indeed - the above video is a strange product of the bizarre union between Friends of the Earth and lads' mag Nuts: Chloe and Will's hot date night (youtube.com) That was fast - Match voluntarily caved in light of the lawsuit: Match.com will screen users against sex offender database […]
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XKCD Explains The “Base” System

18 April 2011
This is what happens when you visit XKCD and hit "random." You find out that 'sex in crotchless fursuits' is considered so far in the outfield it could almost be a home run if it's a dead start from first base. Read: in the above comic, XKCD explains the antiquated system […]
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Weekly Want: Twitter “Follow Me” Lingerie, Royal Wedding Cockring, New JimmyJane

16 April 2011
Naughty is the girl with suspenders under her skirt and stockings that provocatively beckon a Twitter Follow me up the sides. The Follow Me thigh-high stockings ($18) come in varying shades and sizes, also come in a full panythose style, and in flirty knee-high variations as well. The maker Post […]
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Eye Candy: French Yumminess, With An American Pro-Porn Female Bite

16 April 2011
I can't even begin to say how happy I am that I discovered French porn site Explicite Arte: I found them back in October, 2009 right about the same time that I found (American site) Juliland. Explicite is super raunchy, yet also really tasteful - I am continually surprised at […]
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