http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/01/new-tinynibbles-feature-eye-candy.html Journalist and author Violet Blue's site for sex and tech culture, accurate sex information, erotica and more. Tue, 26 May 2015 17:18:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/01/new-tinynibbles-feature-eye-candy.html/comment-page-1#comment-11029 Swanky Pirate Hooker Sat, 22 Jan 2011 07:40:02 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=7706#comment-11029 Violet you are my hero !!! (= Violet you are my hero !!! (=

]]> http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2011/01/new-tinynibbles-feature-eye-candy.html/comment-page-1#comment-10887 Xtina Tue, 11 Jan 2011 13:08:41 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=7706#comment-10887 Thank you for your insights and caring. Your site is beautiful... I have a question about why a vibrator, which I rarely use, seems to deaden my orgasmic senses. I've used it once a week for the last 2-3 months and I have a noticeable decline in orgasmic strength. I used to have 6-12 pretty powerful satisfying orgasms with manual stim. Now I get really turned on...but then the climax is barely there. I'm 43, my gyn says vibrators don't effect orgasmic response, that it could be a 'blood flow' issue, but I can see and feel the engorgement...it's the desensitization. On the web, I've read several women with the same question. My only answer is to stop using the vibe and hope I can get my feeling back. I do Kegels, but need to do them 'deeper' I think I've only been using the superficial muscles. Either way, I'm going to try and not beat myself up over this. I'm going to notice how my body is working, and keep trying. It's difficult if you have a partner who has been patient, but not particularly understanding. So I'll figure it out on my own for a while :) Thank you for your insights and caring. Your site is beautiful… I have a question about why a vibrator, which I rarely use, seems to deaden my orgasmic senses. I’ve used it once a week for the last 2-3 months and I have a noticeable decline in orgasmic strength. I used to have 6-12 pretty powerful satisfying orgasms with manual stim. Now I get really turned on…but then the climax is barely there. I’m 43, my gyn says vibrators don’t effect orgasmic response, that it could be a ‘blood flow’ issue, but I can see and feel the engorgement…it’s the desensitization. On the web, I’ve read several women with the same question. My only answer is to stop using the vibe and hope I can get my feeling back. I do Kegels, but need to do them ‘deeper’ I think I’ve only been using the superficial muscles. Either way, I’m going to try and not beat myself up over this. I’m going to notice how my body is working, and keep trying. It’s difficult if you have a partner who has been patient, but not particularly understanding. So I’ll figure it out on my own for a while :)

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