From the monthly archives:

July 2010

Film I Want To See: Orgasm Inc.

16 July 2010
Posted on my Facebook Page by reader D.D., Orgasm Inc. [trailer above] is a film I really want to see. It has familiar faces in it such as Dr. Stuart Meloy (a topic of a few of my talks and a subject in my future sex Chronicle column) and friend […]
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Wake Up Call: John Stagliano’s Obscenity Trial Will Affect Us All

15 July 2010
UPDATE Friday July 16: All charges against John Stagliano have been dropped on a technicality. "'I hope the government will learn a lesson from its experience,' [U.S. District Court Judge Richard J.] Leon said in a rebuke. He cited a string of "difficult, challenging and novel questions" raised in the […]
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[Videos] Armand Van Helden: Hear My Name and Shake That Ass

15 July 2010
The music isn't my favorite but after seeing Armand Van Helden's video for Hear My Name on The Sex Carnival, I'm a fan regardless. Taking tea in a luxe mansion and doling out spankings all day long does not look like such a bad pastime... I also have no problems whatsoever […]
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The Savage Love iPhone App (Is Made of WIN)

14 July 2010
Now this is the kind of joy and delight the iPhone was made for: I'm pleased to tell you about the Savage Love iPhone App (fresh as of July 9)! Yay Dan Savage! I mean, who hasn't wanted Dan in their purse? At their fingertips with sage advice about adult […]
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Pretty Intermission: Anna and Alena

14 July 2010
The models are awfully skinny for my personal tastes, but I love the Andrew Blake vibe in this Met Art set. You know I'm all into that fashion porn these days.
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Eloquent Analysis (And Seduction Secrets): Love in the Age of the Pickup Artist

13 July 2010
Seen on Hacker News and sent by a sweetheart: Love in the Age of the Pickup Artist by S.G. Belknap is a must-read. A spot-on analysis of pick up artist's techniques in the post-"The Game" era, plus a simply beautiful, personal piece of writing suitable for those who love New […]
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Kink in July: Kink Live Visitor’s Gallery

12 July 2010
It had been a while since I'd visited Kink's armory, and last night I got to watch a shoot for Kink Live and check out some of their new sets. It was great fun, a warm and friendly vibe and I have to say that their new sets are mind-blowingly […]
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Summertime Sexy: Hilo Chen’s Ultra-Realistic Paintings

11 July 2010
Sent from a friend: Hyper Realistic Paintings – Hilo Chen (ufunk.net). Hot, sweaty, sexy, lots of biknis and beach scenes by Hilo Chen, all in vivid oil on canvas. Glorious! (Also: I spotted one with the Twin Towers in the background; always such a weird feeling.)
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The Periodic Table of Swearing

10 July 2010
Sadly, The Periodic Table of Swearing by Modern Toss is currently out of stock. It was also extremely expensive. Still, the very British-flavored periodic table of verbal obscenities and graphic insults is really entertaining (click to view large size for detail, link via The Awesomer). I'm definitely going to start […]
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Femina Potens Beauty: July’s “Thin Line Between Art and Sex”

10 July 2010
Femina Potens might just be one of the most happening and significant art spaces in the United States. Seriously. And not just because the central them is sexuality: this space is a movement, an intersection for art and thought, and an evolution in the space between artist and art, subject […]
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Indonesia’s “Evita”? Julia Perez Takes on Indonesia’s Conservatives

10 July 2010
This is a great story that defies stereotypes; Julia Perez is a sex symbol in Indonesia, a primarily Muslim country (86%) who is currently running for deputy district head in Pacitan, the province Indonesia’s president comes from -- with a big focus on sexual health, women's rights, sex ed for […]
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please bury me in this dress

10 July 2010
This is a personal post, so if you're not here for a long-winded LiveJournal moment, skip it and get back to the frolic. (more...)
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Open Source Sex Advice (on Facebook)

9 July 2010
I'm not a sex advice columnist, nor do I particularly want to be one, but I thought it would be fun to answer a sex question once a week on my Facebook page. I have over a decade of training and do hotline sex crisis counseling now and then, and […]
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Straight for Pay

8 July 2010
When three things on the same topic collide in my life and online, it's time for a post: this is about men who are Straight for Pay. It started with explaining to a Brit friend what BangBus is. With humor for something patently offensive and ridiculously fake, I explained BangBus […]
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Jean-Paul Gaultier and Dita Von Teese Runway PFW Haute Couture F/W 2011

7 July 2010
Today in Paris Dita Von Teese got tight-laced and took to the runway for Jean Paul Gaultier's Fall/Winter 2011 collection for the highlight of Paris Fashion Week. Teese stripped down to an eye-popping rhinestone-encrusted exoskeleton that cinched to a micro-waisted corset. Amazing. The whole gallery of Getty Images from today's […]
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Feature: No One Wants .XXX, So How Did It Happen?

7 July 2010
The short answer to that question, in my opinion, is that three guys who like to wear Hawaiian shirts out of season wore down ICANN until they were like, alright already. You can sell swampland to sugar cane farmers who *have* to buy it and tell the world it's all […]
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Wednesday Nibbles: VPL Edition (Visible Prince Line)

6 July 2010
* As you may have heard, Prince(ss) declared the internet "over" so you can just pack up your free tube porn and go home. MK describes it best (image via), "Pack up all your shit and let's all say our goodbyes to easy access porn, videos of cats riding on […]
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Life Under the Soviets: Nikolay Bakharev

6 July 2010
Friend Praemedia sends me a link to this lovely post Nikolay Bakharev: Life Under the Soviets II (fantomatik75.blogspot.com), with a large collection of Nikolay Bakharev's nude photos. Bakharev was born in 1946 and became a photographer during the USSR. He photographed people at beaches, which was the only place that […]
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This Week In Porn Hysteria: The Shame Merchants

3 July 2010
You just can't put a price on the kind of powerful crazy this week's porn hysteria has been. We were all too busy wishing the pain of a million violent bowel movements on BP and pissed off that they ruined the only planet that makes True Blood to really see […]
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Happy Hour Quickie: Pretty Girl Friday Meets Hot Boy Thursday

2 July 2010
...and their happy hour hijinks are courtesy of the gay male porn company making straight porn Next Door Hookups. Here's the gallery of a cute Thursday-Friday pairing, and a video of their happy-ness. She got happy with this cute guy, too (image above). Also here's Crissy and Sam (video), Aline […]
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