Comments on: the psychology of masturbation and explicit sexual imagery http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2010/06/the-psychology-of-masturbation-and-explicit-sexual-imagery.html Journalist and author Violet Blue's site for sex and tech culture, accurate sex information, erotica and more. Tue, 26 May 2015 17:18:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Cathy http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2010/06/the-psychology-of-masturbation-and-explicit-sexual-imagery.html/comment-page-1#comment-8984 Cathy Thu, 01 Jul 2010 08:16:24 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=5047#comment-8984 It's really hard for me to admit to myself that I want certain things. While I'll often zone out thinking about a particular fantasy, I feel like I can't let myself masturbate to it. Even imagining sex with anyone other than a current partner just seems wrong and I can't do it. I am in a long distance relationship, extremely inhibited in a lot of ways, and have trouble asking for anything. I'm sometimes so frustrated that when I wank to let off pressure I just read a textbook to keep from thinking about sex because otherwise I end up too sad or angry to come. Yeah, maybe not so healthy... It’s really hard for me to admit to myself that I want certain things. While I’ll often zone out thinking about a particular fantasy, I feel like I can’t let myself masturbate to it. Even imagining sex with anyone other than a current partner just seems wrong and I can’t do it.

I am in a long distance relationship, extremely inhibited in a lot of ways, and have trouble asking for anything. I’m sometimes so frustrated that when I wank to let off pressure I just read a textbook to keep from thinking about sex because otherwise I end up too sad or angry to come. Yeah, maybe not so healthy…

]]> By: Bobby http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2010/06/the-psychology-of-masturbation-and-explicit-sexual-imagery.html/comment-page-1#comment-8958 Bobby Mon, 28 Jun 2010 08:53:03 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=5047#comment-8958 Just for the record I honestly can and often masturbate without fantasy. I'm not asexual and I love dirty fantasies but they aren't mandatory or even the norm for me. To be clear, incase my name suggests otherwise, I'm a lady. Just for the record I honestly can and often masturbate without fantasy. I’m not asexual and I love dirty fantasies but they aren’t mandatory or even the norm for me. To be clear, incase my name suggests otherwise, I’m a lady.

]]> By: Taryn http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2010/06/the-psychology-of-masturbation-and-explicit-sexual-imagery.html/comment-page-1#comment-8933 Taryn Thu, 24 Jun 2010 19:29:29 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=5047#comment-8933 Thank you for that, that was awesome. Thank you for that, that was awesome.

]]> By: Nida http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2010/06/the-psychology-of-masturbation-and-explicit-sexual-imagery.html/comment-page-1#comment-8932 Nida Thu, 24 Jun 2010 01:03:10 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=5047#comment-8932 Kind of a response to part of the article but, as a 'self proclaimed asexual', if I actually try to think of anything while masturbating, I loose it. I have to keep my mind as blank as possible to actually make it to orgasm. At most, focusing on the physical sensations themselves. Kind of a response to part of the article but, as a ‘self proclaimed asexual’, if I actually try to think of anything while masturbating, I loose it. I have to keep my mind as blank as possible to actually make it to orgasm. At most, focusing on the physical sensations themselves.

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