From the monthly archives:

May 2010

just fabulous: photos by jonmmmayhem

17 May 2010
Oh, kitteh. This one is called "The Crash Cat Intervention by jonmmmayhem. Tagged: felis interruptus" If you see anything online tagged "jonmmmayhem" then it's the work of the Hard Nipples Forever guy -- "a pervert and his Polaroid." And he's incredible. So glad I found him (via Modfetish).
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new podcast, saucy: Apple’s Porn Problem and a Mac geek sex guide

17 May 2010
Everyone and their LOLcat is sending me links and photos, as the backlash to Apple CEO Steve Jobs' weekend comment about saving people from porn is starting to sink in. Yes, he really said that. And yes, everyone is talking to me about it. They're also saying it's changing their […]
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the Jillian Lauren “Some Girls” exclusive: the sex lives of harem girls

16 May 2010
When someone tells you that one of their best friends was in a harem, you might have reacted like I did: disbelief. I was out with a longtime pal for lunch last month, and she casually mentioned that, hey, one of her bestest friends was in a harem and she […]
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new podcast: Open Source Sex #74

14 May 2010
This week, big news: my new book Sweet Love: Erotic Fantasies for Couples won the Gold for Best Erotica Collection 2010 from the Independent Publisher Book Awards -- it's a big deal! Congrats to all the authors whose incredible work made this collection recognized as one of the top erotica […]
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saturday sexiness: to do in San Francisco and London

14 May 2010
Like many people, I wish I had a lot of money and obedient robot clones. If I was this kind of sex blogging criminal mastermind I would already have V-Bot 22 on a jet to London with a really nice DSLR camera to attend the Saturday opening of Body to […]
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the art of Ben Newman

14 May 2010
This post in no way endorses acts of theft against senior citizens. While there may be something in equal measure to shock (or offend) and arouse (or admire) in the artwork of Ben Newman, his sci-fi, fairy tale and horror-movie flavored erotic art is certainly fascinating. For a while he was […]
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intriguing new pleasure devices

13 May 2010
Image from Numéro #113 May 2010. I like to imagine that somewhere in the Pacific a nefarious mastermind, resembling Scarlett Johansson in her Iron Man 2 catsuit, is in a secret lab staffed with fembots engineering all the latest in new sex toys. What better way to conquer the world? And […]
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when being a lesbian gets you killed: help save Kiana Farouz

12 May 2010
Last night I had the privilege -- and I mean that in every sense -- to attend the private 20th anniversary dinner for The International Women's Media Foundation. We seldom hear how dangerous it is for women who work in media outside of Western countries: journalists, filmmakers, photographers. (Although I […]
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“I want one.”

12 May 2010
I mean a 3D printer, of course. Why else would Robert Downey Jr. be on a sex blog? That picture makes me dizzy. Also: are we all waiting for the Black Widow spinoff or what?
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Trailer: Ramzi Abed’s Altporn Documentary The New Erotic

12 May 2010
This week I actually got two press releases that turned out to be things I was happy to nonconsensually learn about. One was getting the trailer for director Ramzi Abed's upcoming documentary on altporn filmmaking "The New Erotic." According to IMDB the film is completed, but none of the marketing […]
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fun facts about kissing

11 May 2010
Image by ambivalenzz. This list of 43 Fun Facts About... Kissing is so fun! I'm excited to see that some items are facts I included in my book on how to kiss. It's also a nice reminder that I want to make a "how to kiss" page on this site. This […]
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gorgeous new iPad porn site: David’s Nudes iPad edition

11 May 2010
Images from these galleries of Rima (above) and Ericka (below). This is pretty exciting: seeing tasteful porn for the iPad. I found out about the brand new David's Nudes iPad site yesterday and I'm loving it. It's not a collection of re-used porn movie clips (like all the other iPad porn […]
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monday nibbles

10 May 2010
After we saw the complete misfire of Christina Aguilera's entry into the bad girl's club of eroto-pop, Rihanna quietly strikes with an expert shot in skintight rubber, simple and sexy. Hot. More fetish flavored pics from her Birmingham, England show last weekend can be seen here (zomg a camel, zomg […]
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the Photo Booth pinup girl

9 May 2010
Anyone remember Natasha Merritt (link: sound alert)? A long time ago she took artistic, erotic digital self-photography so far that she ended up in a really arousing, beautiful, classic Tashen book called Digital Diaries. I kind of think that few have come close to the level she achieved since then, […]
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footballers’ wives? hold the wags, just ‘ballers please

8 May 2010
Photo above is Japanese ex-footballer Hidetoshi Nakata for Calvin Klein. I've never been that into sports per se. I've grown up with a distant American girl, West Coast appreciation for baseball and basketball. But I've always been more into skating, snowboarding, surfing, fighting, motorcycle racing and BMX. And now that I […]
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friday nibbles: the facebook = faceplant edition

7 May 2010
* The above image is the first nibble, and I just know you are all going to be shocked: people talk about sex on Facebook like, a lot. Crazy, I know. The original blog post (annoying popup warning) about the data results says "sex sells on Facebook!" but I think […]
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yay! announcing galleries at Girls Out West!

6 May 2010
Image from this gallery of Daphne and Peppe. I love, love, LOVE Girls Out West. They've been a sponsor -- and my friends -- for many years now. GOW is a women-owned and operated porn goldmine in Australia, featuring lots of eager and happy amateurs who love to show off for […]
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hopefully tasteful sponsor shout-out

5 May 2010
Image by Miss Aniela. Contrary to outside appearances, we don't run entirely off of lube, glitter, rainbow flags, the sweat of anti-porn pundits, or even the sweat of nubile code babes. (Though I try. Oh how I try.) I feel like some days it's a trick of the light that I […]
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expanding on the “erotic capital” theory

5 May 2010
Image of Natasha S from this gallery. Yesterday I read two great articles about sociologist Catherine Hakim's theory on "erotic capital." One way by Hakim herself in the pages of Prospect magazine titled Have you got erotic capital? The other was an interview with Hakim called Making capital out of sex […]
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the Batman XXX parody: purrrfect

5 May 2010
Great job Vivid -- I can't wait to see this. (There's a slideshow on the Examiner.) The casting looks spot-on, and as for the rest, I'll let Comics Alliance explain: (...) this might be the first pornographic parody that actually has higher production values than the source material. And secondly, the […]
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