From the monthly archives:

April 2010

sex addiction as seen by Dr. Marty Klein

6 April 2010
Are you like me and really starting to feel the hypocritical sting around the label "sex addiction" and not sure what to take seriously anymore? In An Epidemic of Sex Addiction? Dr. Marty Klein relates recent experiences talking to patients (and potential clients) about their dubiously, casually diagnosed "sex addiction." […]
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chomp chomp: Pac-Man pasties

6 April 2010
What a great game. Although I think the custom pasties made and modeled by French hottie Lady Tornade should be on opposite nipples. There's always one aggressive breast -- ladies, am I right? (via Yuhmm)
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a moment with pretty Anabela

5 April 2010
Features from women-run, women-owned Australian site I Feel Myself are always a delight in my inbox. Case in point is the newest shoot with Anabela. There are more after the jump, and they are a bit explicit. (Photos are linked to IFM's main page, for sadly they do not offer […]
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the lie of unbiased reporting, again: CNN and Japanese sex culture

5 April 2010
Image by exquisite vk photography. It's my opinion that one of the intersections in which we can truly see when big news outlets misbehave is when the subject is sex. This it not only my opinion, it's my experience. I'm referring to when I worked at The San Francisco Chronicle (SFGate.com) […]
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a few of my favorite things: The VB List

4 April 2010
Amazon / Babeland This weekend I added an Amazon widget of my favorite things to the right sidebar. This is a response to many, many requests for a 'Violet's Favorite Things' feature. The VB List is for your sex life, and vetted by me: good, safe, hygienic products, solutions to sensual […]
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and the winner for iPad porn is… Pink Visual

3 April 2010
Image by Richard Kadrey / Kaos Beauty Klinik. I hate to open up a post by talking smack about other features, but if you were a sucker like me and clicked on the 'The iPad is Made for Porn' article on NewTeeVee (via Techmeme) and felt like you got tricked out […]
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Senator John McCain on Guys With iPhones

3 April 2010
Many of you know that I've been a longtime, early fan of amateur gay site Guys With iPhones, and I've featured them here a few times over the years. Their simple site displays all kinds of men taking self-portraits with their iPhones, in various states of dress and undress, all […]
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revealed: the lusty bedroom behavior of Victorian-era women

1 April 2010
Image via Photography Paradiso. I didn't think this article was going to be interesting, and then I was fixated once I got into the salacious details -- it's almost certain that everything we thought about Victorian-era women being cold, sexless prudes was absolutely untrue. In fact, according to research that has […]
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the B in LGBT also stands for Anna

1 April 2010
Today, news hit that True Blood star Anna Paquin has come out as a bisexual, causing all of our girly hearts (and other parts) to flutter with delight -- in addition to making a nice, pointed statement about coming out as bisexual. That it matters. In a new PSA for the […]
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