From the monthly archives:

April 2010

say hello to the new additions

18 April 2010
I finally finished updating the right sidebar here, and if you're interested, there's a little tour and some handpicked porn after the jump... (more...)
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Lady Gaga’s “Telephone” butch kisses and tells (all)

17 April 2010
If you watched Lady Gaga's recent video "Telephone" and wondered what the story was behind the prison yard butch makeout session, look no further. I was really surprised and excited simply to see a butch in the video; masculine lesbians are just not cast in mainstream or pop anything, even […]
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office assistant by day, party photographer by night

16 April 2010
That's all the bio page on Flickr says for "party minnow" who I discovered via a blog I love oh so much, ModFetish this week. I see some SoCal porn performers in the photos, so they're not just anyone... Their URL is nonfunctional (expired?) but the photos they're piling into […]
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the tablehopper’s guide to dining sexily in San Francisco

16 April 2010
Image by Rebecca Tillett. Making a sexy dinner at home here in SF is a snap -- a trip to the Ferry Building Marketplace is the height of easy-access food foreplay. Going to a restaurant is something entirely different, especially when it's amour your're after. We often dine out when […]
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Banksy’s Exit Through the Gift Shop sexy LA premiere

16 April 2010
I'm a huge Banksy fan. Seeing this short video of the premiere of Exit Through the Gift Shop in LA (this week) is an extra special treat for also being festooned with hotness -- and starring my friend April Flores, performing at the event!
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thursday nibbles

15 April 2010
* Pretty much everyone agrees at this point that news media behaves irresponsibly in some manner, or has done so, about something. But it boggles the mind as to why they blatantly, consistently disregard fact when it comes to sexuality. I mean, it's getting ridiculous. I know you're going to […]
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the work of Steve Prue

15 April 2010
I don't know why it took me so long to discover photographer Steve Prue, but I'm really glad I have. There's a great interview with him on Yuhmm (lotsa pics), and he's going to be a lot of fun to follow on Flickr.
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porn for the blind, for real: Tactile Mind thermoform book

13 April 2010
Image by sweetie pie press. At the entertaining audio site Porn For The Blind, one can listen to dramatic readings of Bang Bros. porn, ostensibly for the sight impaired to enjoy. That's a lot of fun, but not to be confused with a whole new kind of 'porn for the blind' […]
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wow: the winners of the Feminist Porn Awards

13 April 2010
Let's just say that these films would make a certain anti-porn feminist-identified troll rust out her chastity belt. Or switch sides. When Good For Her posted the nominations for their annual Feminist Porn Awards, I was excited to discover hot new faces in the exploding world of female-fueled porn. (Which […]
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The VB List: favorites, improved

12 April 2010
This week's VB List answers a few of your requests in high style at decent prices -- and shows that the Hitachi Magic Wand has had some recent updates. What's so great about the Hitachi? If you're unfamiliar with this orgasmic powerhouse, it's a staple of women's sex toy boutiques […]
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new work by Danilo Pasquali

11 April 2010
Caught this in my Flickr contacts' updates -- I'm happy to see that Danilo Pasquali (Undressed) has been shooting again. Love it. More after the jump :) (more...)
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Daily Kos: sex and politics, there’s no shame in that

11 April 2010
Image by Tanguero. Reader DB points me to S-E-X at Daily Kos, which is a fantastic buffet of sex, politics, "fellationships" and current events. It's great Sunday reading. Snip: We are a sexually schizophrenic nation. We don’t talk about it in polite company. It’s something to do behind closed doors, shades drawn. We […]
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STPs: sexually transmitted poisons

10 April 2010
Yikes! It's real. And here we thought we only had to worry about... everything else. Apparently STPs are tricky because docs don't have them high on the list as a factor, and many patients don't expect their ills to come from sexually transmitted poisons. Plus, an STP is generally passed […]
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the anti-porn argument according to feminist Ashley-Anne Thompson (antiquelens)

10 April 2010
This morning I woke to a comment awaiting moderation on my Porn Is Good For You post from Canadian reader and fan Ashley-Anne Thompson. Being my biggest fan (sorry SFGate commenters!) she left her hotmail address, a link to her life through an antique lens YouTube channel and this message: "please […]
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scene from an unfilmed movie (Chad Michael Ward)

10 April 2010
I'm a big fan of photographer Chad Michael Ward (Twitter); you've seen me feature his photos with posts here and there. I watch him on Flickr where he recently uploaded a series called Scene From An Unfilmed Movie. The photos are nothing short of amazing, and sexy, and the women […]
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Apple’s family values

8 April 2010
This morning Ryan Block asked Steve Jobs whether Apple will enable unsigned applications, like Android and Palm OS. Jobs replied, "There’s a porn store for Android… you can download it, your kids can download it. That’s a place we don’t want to go, so we’re not going to." Notice that Ryan […]
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a sketch artist at a sex party

8 April 2010
I just discovered this elaborate scene from The Upper Floor dated April 2 (only last weekend), and it looks like they had one very decadent party. In a blend of art and sex, they invited a sketch artist. If I'm guessing correctly, that looks like the art of Suzanne Rachel […]
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DA threatens Wisconsin teachers: sex ed will get you arrested

7 April 2010
Image via chubbear426. The post title sounds sensationalistic -- which it would be if it were not true. Be prepared for the facepalm of the year, because it's real. Basically, an evangelical district attorney in Wisconsin sent a letter to schools saying that anyone teaching the new sex ed program as […]
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anti-gay propaganda alert: US schools

6 April 2010
Image by Eddie Colla. Hot off the front lines, so I'll just quote the source (with permission): FYI, the so-called "American College of Pediatricians" (americancollegeofpediatricians.org) has just sent a letter to schools across the country, giving supposed information about how to deal w/LGBT students. The letter links to this site: factsaboutyouth.com. It […]
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remainders: from SXSW 2010

6 April 2010
That's me bringing the sexy to the Nokia VIP rooftop party, with the Austin Convention Center behind me. Outrageously talented "rock star" photographer WM Salsberry just uploaded his photos from this year's SXSW in Austin, Texas -- and I had to share this one with you. I think this one […]
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