From the monthly archives:

October 2009

tonight in SF: Christine Kessler at Madame S

9 October 2009
Image: cover for Kessler's new/upcoming book Nylon Girls (available now in the UK). Being on the Femina Potens newsletter is well worth it; I'm still an ardent fan of talk lists as news sources and newsletters for orgs and certain people who do cool non-spammy stuff. (However, I get added nonconsensually […]
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sex crime dept: really unfortunate word choices

9 October 2009
Image of much-needed levity via elbasta. I've had this sex crime (bestiality) story open in one of my million tabs for a while, forgot about it, then went back today -- and saw why I didn't dump it immediately. When you get to 'milk' you'll understand what I mean and just […]
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Anna Span tells all about female ejaculation, girl porn and the BBFC

7 October 2009
Cover for the not yet released "Women Love Porn" - find the other titles from this fabulous series in VoD and DVD here (hotmovies4her.com). I've long been a fan of female UK porn director Anna Span. I love her fun Porn for women website. But what she did for the history […]
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Jimmyjane’s newest delights

7 October 2009
Today I got a very special gift: the newest Usual Suspects from Jimmyjane! I can't tell you how thrilled I am to have these gorgeous toys in my hot little hands for testing. So far, everything starts up like a charm -- and they're all really quiet. I especially love […]
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proving that everything is made in China

5 October 2009
Image by larrytroy. All your hymens are belong to CCP. Google/Associated Press: Egyptian lawmakers want to ban fake hymen CAIRO — Conservative Egyptian lawmakers have called for a ban on imports of a Chinese-made kit meant to help women fake their virginity and one scholar has even called for the "exile" of anyone […]
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pretty girls for saturday

3 October 2009
Image from Undressed (mi-undressed.com); more after the jump. Pretty girls make the weekend sweeter, I think. We'll start with my new discovery, French amateurs at Petites Parisiennes. French cuties for the weekend include Alizee, Cindy, Lou and her friends, and sweet Margot. You know how much I love member-compiled erotic galleries; they […]
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Ulorin Vex, and living in a bell jar of relentless hate

3 October 2009
This morning I woke up feeling like the mood in this shot of Ulorin Vex from her portfolio. I had yet another conversation with a respected news site editor about the awful comments SF Gate lets people leave on my column every week. I am depressed, tired and angry that […]
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stuff about me

2 October 2009
* Today's post on Laughing Squid was a lot of fun to write, and I'll admit to watching the video three times. And then three more times when dotBen came over. Here is The Social Media Guru. * I was quoted on the San Francisco Appeal about the SF Chronicle/SF Gate's […]
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Favorite New Pr0n Site: (French) Explicite Arte

2 October 2009
My last happy porny discovery was Juliland; this week I was delighted to discover the French explicit porn site Explicite Arte (paysite: but many free goodies here). The performers are having fun, we see a lot of safer sex, it's all well shot and for those looking to see very […]
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a photo for the time we live in

2 October 2009
Left to right: me, Fivestar, Madison Young, Margaret Cho.
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Nibbles: Ethics of Tweeting Miscarriages, Girls of Nerdcore are Boring

2 October 2009
Image by elaisted. * The upcoming Girls of Nerdcore 2010 looks seriously boring. And the topic is horror so it's just a damn crying bleeding shame. Someone should cut Curtis Joe Walker, Modern Citizen, Addicted Image and Richard Kadrey loose on the idea. I'd slap down some long green for that. * […]
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gratuitous product plug: the fairy mini wand

2 October 2009
I am in no way associated with the toy retailer MyPleasure, nor am I an affiliate. So I get nothing from telling you about the Fairy Mini Wand (again). Still, without TMI, it's one of the best all-around toys I've gotten my hands on. It's literally an adjustable, powerful mini […]
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future sex looks weird and awesome

1 October 2009
Image by Eon McKai from his next film "Eyelashes." The images populating this post are, I think a great match for the texual subject matter. I follow Eon on Twitter and for the past few days he's been tweeting pics from the set of his next film: I asked if I […]
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