women watch porn: Oprah puts me on CNN

by Violet Blue on July 24, 2009


Image by elaisted.

I woke up this morning to pretty much scream like a girl with excitement to see my article for Oprah go live on CNN. Here’s Are more women OK with watching porn? — by me. (Violet Blue on CNN for Oprah — Oprah putting the “O” in my OMFG yet again!) Snip:

Personally, I like my pizza deliveryman to do one thing: bring me my dinner. But mention this guy to a group of women, and, while most of us will think of cheesy pies with tomato sauce, a good number of us will conjure up that hilariously bad porn cliché, the randy fellow who’s always ready to accept sex in exchange for a medium sausage and mushroom.

Notwithstanding how lame the cliché is, or how simply bad most porn is (and after ten years as a professional reviewer of the stuff, I can report that much of it is very bad), the fact is, millions of women use and enjoy “explicit sexual imagery.”

What’s perhaps more surprising, given the latest scientific research, is that more of us don’t.

In the first three months of 2007, according to Nielsen/NetRatings, approximately one in three visitors to adult entertainment Web sites was female; during the same period, nearly 13 million American women were checking out porn online at least once each month.

Theresa Flynt, vice president of marketing for Hustler video, says that women account for 56 percent of business at her company’s video stores. “And the female audience is increasing,” she adds. “Women are buying more porn.” (They’re creating more of it, too: Female director Candida Royalle’s hard-core erotic videos, made expressly for women viewers, sell at the rate of approximately 10,000 copies a month.)

Meanwhile, science is finally buying into the idea that women are at least as stimulated by porn as men. (…read more, cnn.com)

Updates 07.29.09: The article got put on the front page of CNN monday, after being #5 most read friday. Check out the almost 20,000 views and over 100 comments this article’s post got on Jezebel! Revel in the conservative blogs calling me and Nielsen/NetRatings liars! Win.

Violet Blue

The London Times named Violet Blue "One of the 40 bloggers who really count" and Self Magazine named TinyNibbles one of the “Best Sex Resources for Women.” Blue is an autodidact and pundit on sex and technology, hacking and security, porn for women, privacy and bleeding-edge tech culture. She is a journalist for ZDNet, CBS News, CNET; she's an educator, speaker, crisis counselor, volunteer NGO trainer, and the author and editor of over 40 award-winning books.

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{ 19 comments }

1 DominaDoll July 28, 2009 at 8:01 pm

Congrats Violet. Great article! Looking forward to your ‘recommended porn for women’ post too.

2 Popzealot July 28, 2009 at 7:32 pm

Given the slight niche-like interests of diggers…. if only you’d slipped something about legalizing pot!!! :-D

3 Popzealot July 28, 2009 at 7:31 pm

582 diggs and counting. You’re getting more diggs than the news of Brett Favre.

4 Angela Caperton July 28, 2009 at 3:47 pm

Now all they need to do is print your name large enough to see without a microscope!

5 Neve Black July 28, 2009 at 5:38 am

Hey there!
I think you should stilll be celebrating! Im thrilled about this! Congratulations!!

6 violet July 27, 2009 at 11:37 pm

Ms Nughty — agreed. it’s to be expected that they unfairly link to ONE side of the argument/discussion. hopefully someday they’ll grow up and truly present facts and news aside from what’s clearly their MORAL linking opinions/practices. but at least sex-positivity and female self-individuated sexuality made one inroad this entire damn year. it’s more than a cynical girl can hope for these days…

they should hire me for a monthly piece. could you image the traffic, controversy and fun!?

7 Ms Naughty July 27, 2009 at 7:42 pm

Well done Violet.

Although it’s such a pity that CNN would happily link to anti-porn Pure Life Ministries in that article but not Maria Beatty or Comstock Films.

8 Claudia Lamb July 27, 2009 at 2:26 pm

Rats! I meant to say 4:10 pm…

9 Claudia Lamb July 27, 2009 at 2:26 pm

My name is Claudia Lamb. I produce the afternoon news at KGO radio in San Francisco, the ABC affiliate.

I’m hoping you are available at : pm (PT) this afternoon to discuss why women like their porn, and why they’re reluctant to admit it. There would be a brief Q & A with our anchors, Bret and Rosie.

You can reach me at (415) 216 – 1300, or via email.

Thank you for your time.

Best,

Claudia

10 Read My Lips July 27, 2009 at 12:12 pm

First time caller.
My tag team partner likes to ‘bate while reading romance novels. So, is this common ? Being a guy, I would always have to put the book down first.

So now are you going to become someone else with this notoriety. Guest shots
on tv shows. Maybe your own series. Become an advocate in Washington. Make
the Porn biz more Disney oriented. Mix with kings and queens. Champion of
the poor in porn. i enjoy the reads

11 violet July 27, 2009 at 11:28 am

I can’t believe they moved this to the front page of CNN today! what a great start to my week! thanks, everyone — and I’m loving the conversation here. I’ve got a ‘recommended porn for women’ post that I’ll be posting here in a bit.

12 casualencounters.com/blog July 26, 2009 at 3:25 pm

Reminded me of reading this today: http://carnalnation.com/content/12324/615/shespot-penetrating-womens-porn

Might be an idea whose time has come? (Pun quasi-intended.)

13 Dave Krueger July 26, 2009 at 12:50 pm

Well, if porn is finally becoming accepted as not being an assault on women and that women are now permitted to participate in its creation without persecution, how long before women are allowed to have sex in other for-profit ventures without being ostracized by their own sex for doing so? American’s don’t force women to wear burkas, but we do deny them the right to have sex on their own terms, and we throw them in jail for using their bodies to earn a living no different from what a sports star does. I don’t mean to preach, but I will never understand why women aren’t absolutely outraged by laws against prostitution.

14 Allan McMillin July 25, 2009 at 7:29 pm

I have seen a very large amount of porn over the years but I can definitely say there are more than a few not so good looking guys and even the odd not so good looking girl in it

15 Felikz July 25, 2009 at 2:11 pm

congratulations!

16 Angela Caperton July 25, 2009 at 3:45 am

Yesterday when I saw your Tweet about this on my blackberry, I was about ready to rip a laptop out of some poor commuter’s hands and run to the nearest WiFi hot spot to read it.

At home, far removed from possible assault charges, I was able to enjoy the article. It’s wonderful, and just too cool that it’s on CNN!

Now, excuse me while I check out a few of the sources you mentioned…

17 violet July 24, 2009 at 6:35 pm

haha, thank you! this is amazing in so many ways. the article made #5 on CNN most read today and put Comstock Films (mentioned in the piece) in the lead on Amazon’s indie films list. YAY!

I love my GETV shirt which reads, “I was Internet famous once.” that works for me :)

18 Jackson July 24, 2009 at 4:35 pm

Wow – you’re really famous now!

19 Jerry July 24, 2009 at 1:44 pm

Always glad to read an article on CNN that is not clueless about porn, and actually advances fact.

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