Comments on: SF Weekly’s Matt Smith Screws Kink.com: Unfair, Unbalanced, Malfeasant Journalism http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2009/04/sf-weeklys-matt-smith-screws-kinkcom-unfair-unbalanced-malfeasant-journalism.html Journalist and author Violet Blue's site for sex and tech culture, accurate sex information, erotica and more. Tue, 26 May 2015 17:18:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: April http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2009/04/sf-weeklys-matt-smith-screws-kinkcom-unfair-unbalanced-malfeasant-journalism.html/comment-page-1#comment-5723 April Sat, 02 May 2009 04:42:42 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=2601#comment-5723 Violet, I've been a fan for quite some time and applaud you for showing such restraint (pun intended). This was a gross abuse of power on Mr. Smiths part and only demonstrates his short sighted views. Think he would be open to a hug followed by a ball gag and then a spanking? Cheers, April Violet,

I’ve been a fan for quite some time and applaud you for showing such restraint (pun intended). This was a gross abuse of power on Mr. Smiths part and only demonstrates his short sighted views. Think he would be open to a hug followed by a ball gag and then a spanking?

Cheers,
April

]]> By: violet http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2009/04/sf-weeklys-matt-smith-screws-kinkcom-unfair-unbalanced-malfeasant-journalism.html/comment-page-1#comment-5630 violet Sun, 26 Apr 2009 21:20:03 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=2601#comment-5630 no problem -- you all don't get to see the lovely anti porn comments people are trying to leave on this post, calling me sick, degraded, perverted, etc. they just jealous ;) no problem — you all don’t get to see the lovely anti porn comments people are trying to leave on this post, calling me sick, degraded, perverted, etc.

they just jealous ;)

]]> By: lastswitch http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2009/04/sf-weeklys-matt-smith-screws-kinkcom-unfair-unbalanced-malfeasant-journalism.html/comment-page-1#comment-5628 lastswitch Sun, 26 Apr 2009 04:03:45 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=2601#comment-5628 VB, can you clarify your critique of the language in the article? It’s pretty uncontroversial for some BDSM to be characterized as “torture” — isn’t that the “T” in CBT? And “impalement” is also standard hyperbole. Searching kink.com for these terms turns up a few hits in these contexts, see: http://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Akink.com+inurl%3Abrowse+impale+torture (sorry for the possible double-post, I mis-typed my email address) VB, can you clarify your critique of the language in the article? It’s pretty uncontroversial for some BDSM to be characterized as “torture” — isn’t that the “T” in CBT? And “impalement” is also standard hyperbole.

Searching kink.com for these terms turns up a few hits in these contexts, see:

http://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Akink.com+inurl%3Abrowse+impale+torture

(sorry for the possible double-post, I mis-typed my email address)

]]> By: Blurp http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2009/04/sf-weeklys-matt-smith-screws-kinkcom-unfair-unbalanced-malfeasant-journalism.html/comment-page-1#comment-5627 Blurp Sun, 26 Apr 2009 03:40:05 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=2601#comment-5627 Ah my bad I thought sistersfan was Violet in response to my previous reply. Ah my bad I thought sistersfan was Violet in response to my previous reply.

]]> By: Blurp http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2009/04/sf-weeklys-matt-smith-screws-kinkcom-unfair-unbalanced-malfeasant-journalism.html/comment-page-1#comment-5626 Blurp Sun, 26 Apr 2009 03:37:32 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=2601#comment-5626 In all honestly we wouldn't have even heard about this and all the other great information if it wasn't for you and other professionals like you! We live in the land of zion, the chosen people that have stuck our nose in your state affairs in the not so distant past! Yes I am talking about our beloved state of Utah! Were polygamy is still practiced in there sacred temple, (They have code words for this called 'sealing' where one man can be spiritually married to more then one woman, you just can't practice it till you get to the other-world called the Celestial Kingdom). http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plural_marriage#Relationship_of_Current_Practice_Regarding_Temple_Sealings_to_Plural_Marriage Yet if anyone else practices any other type of sexual practices other then what they prescribe then your a sick and perverted and will most likely end up in the terrestrial kingdom. The MoPos, an acronym I made up for the great church that police the worlds mating rituals and consumption will argue over whether or not a beauty shop is immoral if the hair stylist are dressed in bikinis. I can go on and on and on, but who cares right? Who cares about the square state of Utah! Well I think you should care, and the reason is that the information that I read from your website or the information that I hear from your podcast I secretly plant into the MoPos. Being that all of my family, our Mormons, and the majority of my associates are also they get to hear about the mystical, intelligent woman from the fallen state of California! I have a sneaking suspicion that a few of them have even subscribed to your podcast, but there still in the closet about it. Its important to me that you keep on educating us laymen about the world of sexuality. Because if you don't and other proffesionals like you don't educate we will be lost to the drummer of Chris Buttars who recently said that the gay community is worse then the biblical Sodom and Gomorrah http://www.deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,705285940,00.html So if you can't find it in the goodness of your heart to produce more podcast perhaps you can take another direction! Maybe you can keep on producing your brilliant and thought provoking material to spite the likes of Smith and But tars. In all honestly we wouldn’t have even heard about this and all the other great information if it wasn’t for you and other professionals like you! We live in the land of zion, the chosen people that have stuck our nose in your state affairs in the not so distant past! Yes I am talking about our beloved state of Utah! Were polygamy is still practiced in there sacred temple, (They have code words for this called ‘sealing’ where one man can be spiritually married to more then one woman, you just can’t practice it till you get to the other-world called the Celestial Kingdom).

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plural_marriage#Relationship_of_Current_Practice_Regarding_Temple_Sealings_to_Plural_Marriage

Yet if anyone else practices any other type of sexual practices other then what they prescribe then your a sick and perverted and will most likely end up in the terrestrial kingdom. The MoPos, an acronym I made up for the great church that police the worlds mating rituals and consumption will argue over whether or not a beauty shop is immoral if the hair stylist are dressed in bikinis. I can go on and on and on, but who cares right? Who cares about the square state of Utah! Well I think you should care, and the reason is that the information that I read from your website or the information that I hear from your podcast I secretly plant into the MoPos. Being that all of my family, our Mormons, and the majority of my associates are also they get to hear about the mystical, intelligent woman from the fallen state of California! I have a sneaking suspicion that a few of them have even subscribed to your podcast, but there still in the closet about it. Its important to me that you keep on educating us laymen about the world of sexuality. Because if you don’t and other proffesionals like you don’t educate we will be lost to the drummer of Chris Buttars who recently said that the gay community is worse then the biblical Sodom and Gomorrah

http://www.deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,705285940,00.html

So if you can’t find it in the goodness of your heart to produce more podcast perhaps you can take another direction! Maybe you can keep on producing your brilliant and thought provoking material to spite the likes of Smith and But tars.

]]> By: lostswitch http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2009/04/sf-weeklys-matt-smith-screws-kinkcom-unfair-unbalanced-malfeasant-journalism.html/comment-page-1#comment-5625 lostswitch Sun, 26 Apr 2009 03:36:40 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=2601#comment-5625 VB, can you clarify your critique of the language in the article? It's pretty uncontroversial for some BDSM to be characterized as "torture" -- isn't that the "T" in CBT? And "impalement" is also standard hyperbole. Searching kink.com for these terms turns up a few hits in these contexts, see: http://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Akink.com+inurl%3Abrowse+impale+torture VB, can you clarify your critique of the language in the article? It’s pretty uncontroversial for some BDSM to be characterized as “torture” — isn’t that the “T” in CBT? And “impalement” is also standard hyperbole.

Searching kink.com for these terms turns up a few hits in these contexts, see:

http://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Akink.com+inurl%3Abrowse+impale+torture

]]> By: Qotfw http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2009/04/sf-weeklys-matt-smith-screws-kinkcom-unfair-unbalanced-malfeasant-journalism.html/comment-page-1#comment-5623 Qotfw Sun, 26 Apr 2009 00:19:50 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=2601#comment-5623 This scott twit is most definitely one of those closeted porn addicts I'm sure. Freedom is the distance between church and state. FFS! This scott twit is most definitely one of those closeted porn addicts I’m sure.

Freedom is the distance between church and state. FFS!

]]> By: sistersfan http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2009/04/sf-weeklys-matt-smith-screws-kinkcom-unfair-unbalanced-malfeasant-journalism.html/comment-page-1#comment-5621 sistersfan Sat, 25 Apr 2009 03:44:51 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=2601#comment-5621 Now I know why there was no update to public disgrace today - folks are not getting the training they need. Seriously though, I wonder how many religious groups are getting free training from the same program? I have an objection to tax dollars being spent on that... Now I know why there was no update to public disgrace today – folks are not getting the training they need. Seriously though, I wonder how many religious groups are getting free training from the same program? I have an objection to tax dollars being spent on that…

]]> By: Blurp http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2009/04/sf-weeklys-matt-smith-screws-kinkcom-unfair-unbalanced-malfeasant-journalism.html/comment-page-1#comment-5620 Blurp Sat, 25 Apr 2009 02:34:07 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/?p=2601#comment-5620 Hello There Violet, The only pleasure that I get from my work is the ability to listen to your podcast! Since I discovered them, my wife and I have become avid fans of yours! However, there have been no podcast of late, and the last one was a bit sad. So for the sake of my sanity can you find the mic again and speak to us? Hello There Violet,

The only pleasure that I get from my work is the ability to listen to your podcast! Since I discovered them, my wife and I have become avid fans of yours! However, there have been no podcast of late, and the last one was a bit sad. So for the sake of my sanity can you find the mic again and speak to us?

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