From the monthly archives:

April 2009

a lovely random find

21 April 2009
Image by lazareva valeria; see more of her gorgeous photography here.
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mutsugoto: I’ll sign up to beta test this one too, plz

21 April 2009
This tech art 'intimacy device' looks really fun, sweet and sexy to play with -- and I'm fairly certain I can find a test bunny to sign onto the project with. Possibly maybe. *But* I'd also like to work in the idea that this would be an *extremely* good reason […]
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stereotypes and assumptions: sexual orientation

20 April 2009
stereotypes + assumptions: straight male This is generating a lot of extremely interesting discussion on my Flickr photo stream, so I thought you might like to check it out. Last weekend I participated in a sex ed training exercise about stereotypes and assumptions regarding sexual orientation. Remember, sexual orientation isn't a […]
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boytaur chaser

20 April 2009
Boytaur. The brainrinse you never needed (thanks, E!)
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it looks longer if you use metric

20 April 2009
Image from Condometric, which is an experience all in itself -- thanks, metric.org! I am in a strange and giddy, oversexed mood this week and you are just going to have to put up with it. I did 18 hours of sex ed this weekend, lost my voice, got it back, […]
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see you on the highway, Ballard

19 April 2009
One of my personal heroes died today. "The superheroes of the future will be people who'll challenge this condominium of boredom, and we'll find that our Bonnies and Clydes will emerge to challenge the suburban values." --J.G. Ballard, JGB News, 1993 "I never said we should shy away from or retreat from technology. […]
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Swinging

17 April 2009
Image via hotness Gala Darling. Never tried it myself. But this is a shamelessly hot photo, so whatever. How's your friday? I'm about to prep to interview Sasha Grey, am chilling in nothing but a slip and my laptop on someone elses' couch feeling soft and melty and kind of sexy, […]
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super cute candid of Miss Mina

16 April 2009
Just saw this incredibly cute, just uploaded candid shot of my pal Mina Model and had to share it with you.
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for the love of Jimmyjane

16 April 2009
Image of Jamie Hewlett (Tank Girl creator) art from Jimmyjane's sexy-hip line, Ultimate Member Limited. I can't even begin to explain what a great time I had having lunch at the local Jimmyjane (also: Twitter) offices -- they're like the coolest, smartest, hippest people I've met in a long time, and […]
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hot boy thursday: back on track

16 April 2009
Image from this gallery. Hot boys for your (and uh, my) Thursday viewing pleasure, plus some hot het porn mixed in -- het couples shot by gay pornographers, so it has a decidedly different feel (like lots of kissing, eye contact and focus on full body shots in addition to nice […]
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the final portrait: sainthood, Merkley??? style

15 April 2009
"Violet Blue - Portrait with Halo of 13 Freebie Dildos & A Sacred Heart/Butt Plug" * I am speechless. * Buy his book, it's fucking fantastic. * Buy prints of this, or just be totally entertained (and see the large size of this image) in Merkley???'s post Making Our With Big Ben, Hanging […]
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I’ll beta the sex chat room test of the EPOC Neuroheadset

15 April 2009
Broken Robot Girl by Tamar Levine and Rob Sheridan. The EPOC Neuroheadset isn't meant for sex chat rooms, and I'm sure the company wants nothing to do with sexual applications for their product. I'm sure. No one would want that. Oh no. But the first commercially available EEG neuroheadset is just […]
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study: children exposed to porn may expect sex to be enjoyable (the onion)

15 April 2009
The horror! From The Onion, thanks Praemedia!
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I think I need these

14 April 2009
But do people really read warning labels? Get them here (thinkgeek.com).
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yay more Dana DeArmond in mah hometown!

14 April 2009
I just love seeing smart, empowered friends doing work at Kink. This is Dana DeArmond in a new Device Bondage shoot (gallery plus video is very explicit; bondage + oral sex).
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pull out and pray : Chron column

14 April 2009
Image by patre35. I recommend pulling out immediately. This is last week's column, which I'd better get to you here before this week's column is live. Have I been busy? Yes, and in the best ways possible. I have been doing things like modeling and spending time with loving friends offline, […]
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new GETV episode: I interview Mayor Gavin Newsom

14 April 2009
This was fun. Here's the GETV post; here's the SF Appeal post with a bit of a snarkbite at the end, which I love. I also wrote up the seminar Mayor Newsom (twitter) gave at Long Now, which you can read about here. One of the things I loved was that […]
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OMFG

13 April 2009
"Violet Blue - SkyCam" Me and all that is like me, by Merkley??? OMFG. ::stunned
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what the fuck, Amazon?

12 April 2009
Image via phheww. Everyone and their mom is emailing and DMing me today about Amazon's move to de-rank so-called "adult" books, including a national award winner. Basically they're removing books for adult content from their sales ranks -- not that they ever included any *actual* adult books in their official sales […]
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a non-sex moment: last night with the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence!

11 April 2009
I have a pile of posts waiting for you but this just went live from my evening out last night and I think you'll dig it: An Immaculate Reception: The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence 30th Birthday Party. We love our Sisters. You know who else loves them? Dolly Parton. Every […]
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