From the monthly archives:

February 2009

racist porn and the recession: this week’s SF Chronicle column

12 February 2009
One of friend (and favorite nerd porn star) Sinnamon Love's Twitter responses after reading this week's column. I don't know how to preface this week's column, Racist Porn and the Recession - Violet Blue: Nothing is recession proof, especially not your tired old racist porn. The topic is so upsetting that […]
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absolutely the worst article about sex ever written – tag: unintentional hilarity

11 February 2009
Image by friend, Richard Kadrey/Kaos Beauty Klinik. A day ago, on my overly customized Google News page I caught a headline that read, "Therapists Say Kinky Sex On The Rise" from ABC News. Naturally, pre-click, I was already laughing at the double-entendre and eagerly awaiting to see how, given the indication […]
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big props to DC Comics: fierce lesbian Batwoman set for release

11 February 2009
Click image for hi-res; via Greg Rucka. Visitors to last weekend's New York Comic Con got a little surprise: a preview of Batwoman at the back of their program guides. This allowed writer Greg Rucka and JH Williams III to openly admit that they're hard at work on DC Comics' Batwoman […]
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porn moment: bi and bi

11 February 2009
This image is from a bisexual Danish couple who are having a lot of fun (obviously) with their explicit, artistic blog, Bi and Bi: "a personal sex blog from a 30-something Danish couple" (image is from this series). Highly recommended for all kinds of visually tasteful bisexual combinations; site features […]
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I’d vote for Stormy Daniels over Vitter

11 February 2009
Image by mitbbsnews1. She seems more serious than Mary Carey, and I have to say it's rather fun... Porn star (she actually is a star) Stormy Daniels is is preparing to run for the Senate against Louisiana Senator David Vitter (R-LA), whose phone number was found in the records of the […]
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The Onion’s 2009 Valentine issue

10 February 2009
Image via The Onion. ...rocks, even when it has a bit of judgmental baggage here and there (just warning you). Highlights include: * Japan Pledges To Halt Production Of Weirdo Porn That Makes People Puke * Man Somehow Getting Worse At Sex * Per Tradition, Ex-Presidents Watch Obamas Christen White House Bed * Ex-Girlfriend Making […]
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healthy sex toys PSA: Breaking Up With My Blow Up Doll, the musical

10 February 2009
Kinds folksy. Not much dancing -- okay, a minute of dancing. Still, fun and informative. The best part is watching someone sing the word "pthalates" in a song. Breaking Up With My Blow Up Doll is from the green activists at Grist. For additional information, check out my unsafe sex […]
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Edward Gorey’s *other* sex related title: “The Recently Deflowered Girl”

9 February 2009
A mysterious mustachioed marimba player sent me this link today; a post containing the complete high-res scans of Edward Gorey's 1965 book titled “The Recently Deflowered Girl”. I didn't know this book existed. Some of you might be familiar with the ookey spooky artist's work from things like The Gashlycrumb […]
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pr0n for climbers

9 February 2009
Image via Stone Nudes. I don't know why, but climbing and bouldering is really kind of trendy in the tech scene here in San Francisco -- not in a bad way, it's totally healthy and very inclusive. Personally, I dislike heights, so you won't see me joining the fun, though I've […]
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the joydick

8 February 2009
Do I even need to explain this? I will because it's awesome! "Now even if you lose in the game, you can still be a winner in life." When I talk about future sex, I often tell journalists that much of the innovation is going to come from gaming -- […]
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my SXSWi talk: sexual exploitation, sexual expression and self-defense

8 February 2009
Incredible portrait of blogger/photographer Marta Lamovsek with Slovenian Playboy girls. "This pick was made after we shoot for a Slovenia Playmate of the Year. Aleš Bravničar as a photographer, I did the assisting (and girls loved me, of course ;)" My plane tickets are purchased (thanks, anonymous sponsor!) and I will […]
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oh, Xena: yes, that’s Lucy Lawless

7 February 2009
Images are from the short, hot and totally worth a visit collection of pics at New Film Dimension, where they caught the hot cylon (aka Juicy Flawless) onstage at the Roxie. She wasn't *only* dressed as a Catholic schoolgirl... Love her. LOVE HER.
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pretty girl friday

6 February 2009
Image of Katja B. from this gallery. Because every "girl Friday" is pretty... We start our tour in Argentina and as always, end up in Eastern Europe. But there's a pretty decent stopover in girl-on-girl land (porn's midwest, if you will) so it's not a bad tour. In fact, I found […]
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introducing: my new sexy food column at BrokeAss Gourmet!

6 February 2009
Image "in the kitchen" by h.andras_xms. I'm extremely excited to announce today's launch of my new sex column over at BrokeAss Gourmet! When the team behind this new food blog approached me, I instantly warmed to the idea of a gourmet DIY food blog without pretension; they did name it "BrokeAss" […]
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…and heaven knows they’re miserable now

5 February 2009
It is generally not my policy to send sites such as these traffic. However, the just-launched t-shirts at Passion 4 Christ Movement (p4cmtshirts.bigcartel.com) are... priceless. My irony meter passed red and the gauge exploded in giggles and steam when I saw the "ex-masturbator" tees right next to the "ex-hypocrite" shirts […]
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martinis with Mary Roach

5 February 2009
From the Best Sex Writing 2009 reading, via Nokia N95, left to right: Tracy Clark-Flory, Mistress Morgana, Rachel Kramer Bussel, me, Mary Roach. Last friday I had the extreme joy of reading from Best Sex Writing 2009 with one of my favorite authors -- and now, my friend -- Mary Roach. […]
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tiny nibbles exclusive: Andrew Blake’s “Switching” on Kink on Demand

5 February 2009
I just want to say how cool the people at Kink are, and what a great relationship I have with them: whenever something porny and sexy goes on one of their sites that they think you and I might like, they send me exclusive access that I can share with […]
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future sex on Attack of the Show

5 February 2009
Yesterday I was on G4's Attack of the Show for a short, live via satellite interview about future sex -- mostly Kevin wanted to know when he's getting his custom geeky robot girlfriend and when he will be able to get busy with her in space. It was a blast! […]
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real sex vs. porn sex: superb commentary by Lux

5 February 2009
Lux replies to the above graphic saying, "Also not the only kind of blowjob that ever makes its way on camera. Putting forth the assumption that all porn promotes aggressive, violent sex creates a very limited view of the possibilities of sex on film." The "Real Sex vs. Porn Sex" (Make […]
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a little hot boy thursday action

5 February 2009
Image by creamy shower. At this moment I've been quickly, ruthlessly taken down by the flu, so my posts might be somehow more erratic than usual. That said, it's been too long since I've sent some hot boy galleries your way. I've been holding onto this cute British CFNM gallery with […]
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