From the monthly archives:

January 2009

erotic role play for couples: take the test + free chapter!

14 January 2009
This is pretty exciting: I wrote Erotic Role Play: A Guide for Couples, and released it in every DRM-free format I could think of (and I'm in discussions for a *paper* version, too). Tonight, I took the first chapter, made it into a .pdf -- and podcast it. So everyone […]
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outrageous motion: aeric meredith-goujon photography

14 January 2009
I haven't included Aeric Meredith-Goujon's photography (aericmg.com) in a post since at least 2007, and since then, Meredith-Goujon has been very busy stocking their site with explicit erotic photography of the highest order. Couples, comeshots, solo play, female ejaculation caught in light at the perfect moment -- and I find […]
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balloon animals gettin’ down and squeaky

14 January 2009
This incredibly adorable Durex condom ad can bee seen in its original form at Superfad (superfad.com), which has its viral mojo and hipness really going on -- there are some naughty-funny squeakalicious outtakes on that link, too. Found via the Good Vibes blog.
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toy monster: Barbie’s creator was a total hedonist

14 January 2009
Image by (Cristian®), also @ MySpace. Given Barbie's capacity over the ages (and at any age) to fuel our fantasies, and previous rumors that Barbie's predecessor was the Bild Lilli Doll -- a German doll out of a comic strip who had no compunctions about trading sex for gifts and money: […]
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China’s porn and “vulgarity” crackdown: out of control

12 January 2009
A short while back a friend of mine traveled to China to perform with her (Chinese American) musical group, and she sent me a message while on the road that Tiny Nibbles is indeed blocked in China. But I've been watching China's latest porn crackdown in Orwellian horror, and I'm […]
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what Wikipedia consdiers “obscene”

11 January 2009
Interesting and very amusing email I got from someone whose recent experience as a Wikipedia editor shows that Wikipedia is not as inclusive as we think when it comes to... well, classifying so-called "obscenity": So, I added you to this page: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet …putting down that you were “an American author, lecturer, and […]
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Gizmodo is having a really weird time in Vegas right now

9 January 2009
Image: The actually promising looking teledildonic Virtual Hole (girlsr.tv, site not updated for CES/AVN), via Gizmodo. I kind of feel bad, like, looking at today's sex-related posts on Gizmodo make me with I'd sent them with a porn bubble Sherpa or something. First, Jason Chen gets a porn gadget PR marketing […]
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great public sex shoot by Princess Donna

9 January 2009
Image from this hot gallery. Princess Donna is a female porn director (and performer) at Kink, and her new site Public Disgrace is pretty outrageous -- the latest episode to go up is really hot. In it, Princess Donna dominates a cute Czech brunette in a subway station at night, and […]
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ginger red by Aaron Cansler at Nerve – free for us

9 January 2009
Image from Nerve's Ginger Red gallery by Aaron Cansler. This is one of those things that I got in my inbox and was like -- are you serious? Nerve emailed me with a heads-up about Aaron Cansler's new gallery Ginger Red, with teasers but the rest of the shoot behind their […]
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I say, sorry Britney: vote for Cho!

9 January 2009
My pal Margaret Cho is in one of those linkbait 'vote for' traffic gaming marketing wet dream scenarios -- it's a "vote for the best celebrity blogger" contest, and I say do it, vote for Margaret. Because she rocks, she's dirty, funny, hot, she doesn't censor herself and she actually […]
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not at AVN or CES, thx!

8 January 2009
Image of "Vikki Blows Wallpaper..... All black and white apps" via AutomaticEntropy. I'll just stay local and soak up the booth babeage as it hits the Internets, and share anything good I find with you. In the meantime, yay for Gizmodo for posting All The Gadget Booth Girls Who Are Not […]
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filthy dirty explicit exuberant :adorable: hentai wallpapers

8 January 2009
Image from this Konachan gallery, via High on Sex. Now, I'm not sure if "maruku" is the name of the artist or a genre tag -- correct me if you know, please -- but the two-page gallery of maruku desktop wallpapers (konachan.com; large image files) has kept me entertained throughout my […]
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read: the real fight club

8 January 2009
* Fight Club Porn: Violet Blue goes a round in the ring with the star of groundbreaking film, "Champion: Love Hurts" (San Francisco Chronicle; sfgate.com) * Syd was sekritly in my bed with her hot luv Jiz and KumiMonster, NYE -- namaste, motherfuckers. * See also -- exclusive (very) explicit gallery: "Champion". In […]
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tonight’s premiere: MacHeads, The Movie

7 January 2009
Photo by Scott Beale / Laughing Squid when Scott and I ran into the MacHeads filmmakers at Macworld 2009 yesterday. If you're in town and attending San Francisco's Macworld 2009, tonight at 6:15 in room 134 of the North Hall of the Moscone Center is the premiere of MacHeads: The Movie. […]
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facebook = not hot

7 January 2009
Image by Danny Sullivan, which accompanied his 2007 search engine land article. Via Lawgeek, and not terribly sex related but a *great* read nonetheless -- Why I Left Facebook: By mollyschoemann, snip: Because every damn time I signed on to Facebook, my feed went like this: [Girl you found distasteful in high school]: […]
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a most curious sex toy

7 January 2009
I haven't seen one in real life, but got the email about its alleged clitoral prowess (and rechargeability) so now I'm really wondering how this thing stacks up: The Femblossom. It's not cheap, but it's on sale for $80 right now, which is still a bit of a stretch for […]
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Behind Kink now on Twitter

6 January 2009
Image of Sasha from this Kink on Demand "First Time Bound" gallery; watch sample videos from this shoot here. They just got started and it's all linky goodness: check out Behind Kink's fresh and virginal Twitter account (and also check out Behind Kink's website -- and the SF Chronicle feature I […]
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see you at MacWorld tomorrow…

5 January 2009
Image by MaleficusV from this sexy iPod set; also visit his site (maleficusv.com) for more goodies. It's that time of year again... Steve Jobs won't be there to shower me in affection *this* time, but perhaps I can get a pic with Phil -- but if he touches me, I'm totally […]
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like Elvis has left the building

5 January 2009
Image by The Mofo; purchase here. ...erotic photographer of great style and ubersexiness The Mofo has left Flickr. Which makes my RSS contact updates a bit less exciting to peep; fortunately his website is delicious, and his prints are not only for sale but they are unbelievably inexpensive. So. Want. The […]
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peepshow surveillance: Giles Walker’s Pole Dancers

4 January 2009
I just did a full post on the London exhibit "Mutate Britain" that 20-year mechanical artist Giles Walker's Pole Dancers are in, but thought I'd be remiss not to show you the eerie, cool video plus a couple extra images here. Read more about the exhibit and recent, firey […]
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