From the monthly archives:

October 2008

love’s many mysteries

25 October 2008
Image via GalaDarling, my love. I just now happened to click on Jiz Lee's beautiful post, Love Begets Love -- while listening to Mary J Blige's "What Love Is". Thank you, Jiz. A month ago I realized I believe in love too -- that I have to, to keep doing what […]
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fangtastic explicit Halloween audio erotica

24 October 2008
Image of Apnea's great pumpkin massacre by Deviant Nation's Flickr stream. Halloween is next friday, a week away, but there are a lot of costume parties and pre-Halloween shenanigans set for this weekend. To get myself even more in the mood, I consulted the spellbooks (I keep them next to Kinsey's […]
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safely fucking anonymous johns with inspiration from TCP/IP

24 October 2008
Image by airgap. How I came across this brilliant post is a bit of a story, but it's by way of my Twitter account -- and it's a really eloquent piece about fantasy versus reality when it comes to sex worker fantasies. And realities. "Three-way handshake" indeed. There's a lot of […]
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apple = no on prop 8

24 October 2008
Image by h.andras_xms. YAY for Apple! From Viviane: No on Prop 8 October 24, 2008 Apple is publicly opposing Proposition 8 and making a donation of $100,000 to the No on 8 campaign. Apple was among the first California companies to offer equal rights and benefits to our employees’ same-sex partners, and we strongly […]
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a sojourn – the start of cheesy Halloween porn

24 October 2008
Image of Evie Delatosso from this gallery; .wmv video from the same shoot is here. And when I say cheesy, I really mean it. This time of year is when I get to ogle all the bad babes-and-blood galleries, zombie porno videos and awesomely bad lesbian vampire action I can. And […]
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Australian net filtering story just gets weirder

24 October 2008
Just last week I reported here on the Australian government's big dumb and sad plan to filter the Internet for all Australian citizens against illegal and "inappropriate content" with no opt-out -- despite the government's own study telling it that filters are both ineffective and inefficient. Now, the story takes […]
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want

23 October 2008
Madonna's shoes. More here. (thanks, Kat!)
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hot boy thursday: a quickie

23 October 2008
I've wanted to shoot a male erotic mirror series very similar to this for quite a while, but I only seem to hook up with fairly shy boys. In the meantime, I'll enjoy the images by gertharms. Besides the above photostream, I found a couple of yummy galleries to pass the […]
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no more Palin porn, kthxbye!

23 October 2008
Image of Lisa Ann as Serra Paylin in Hustler's "Who's Nailin' Paylin?" via sacrificio19, but Hustler has hardcore stills, if you want to spend the next four years scrubbing your eye sockets with brillo pads and figuring out how to actually put your brain in an autoclave to get the […]
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UK kicks US ass at sex ed, again

23 October 2008
When you think about all the leading minds in the world we have here in America -- some of the greatest thinkers, artists, writers, intellectuals and educators in human sexuality, we should really be leading the way. But no. Maybe that makes me want to try harder -- and I […]
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the ecosexual’s case against long distance relationships

23 October 2008
Image by i want some15. I know plenty of people who have online loves and remote lovers, but is it a sustainable model? I don't mean in the long-term love sense, or the hot sex forever sense --- in the *green* sense. Slate doesn't think so. Snip, sans external links: You're sitting […]
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the unbearable lightness of being Sasha Grey

22 October 2008
I've had Sasha Grey on my mind a lot this week; I don't know her personally, but she's popped up in my life a few times over the past year in some fairly significant ways. She really hit my frontal lobe last week when Fleshbot covered some on-set sideline footage […]
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Carlos Batts does Chuck Palahniuk’s “Snuff”

21 October 2008
These are the new covers for Chuck Palahniuk's book "Snuff" by artist and filmmaker Carlos Batts. Carlos said I could show you these as an exclusive post as long as I put up a link to his film "Kiss Attack" on Amazon and told you all to buy a copy. […]
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repress it, and they will come

21 October 2008
Image via. Oh come on -- for these truly freakish news items about churches and porn, you know there were like a million really *bad* posts titles floating around in my head. The kind that make you really mad at me, and laugh just a little, groan painfully, and then withhold […]
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the geek girl’s sex toy: mia

21 October 2008
There isn't much for me to say about the new, hot MIA vibe except that I want one really bad -- and after reading Jiz Lee's review of Lelo's discreet USB charging purse-sized accessory ("... you'll never have to go to Walgreens to buy lame batteries ever again"), I have […]
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fucking hot erotica a la Alison Tyler

20 October 2008
Image by DarkDaze, via High On Sex. See also: DarkDaze on Flickr. This weekend my dear, dear friend Alison Tyler had a Fucking Hot contest -- sadly, it's over as of today (that's what I get for being behind in my email, sorry!). But, the greatest thing about this contest, to […]
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UK scouts actually learning to “be prepared”

20 October 2008
The article's link to the new sex ed guidelines issued by the Scout Association is broken (plz fix, thx!), but the article about the Boy/Girl Scouts' decision to give sexual health advice and condoms when needed is pretty astounding in what it means to teaching kids survival skills -- and […]
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google maps mates with casual encounters

20 October 2008
I've been waiting for something like this -- the clever people at hookupmaps took Craigslist's Casual Encounters and Google Maps, rubbed them together until smoke started coming out of the unholy union, and made a fabulous combination. Go to your city/location, click a filter (m4f, etc.), play with listings and […]
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tasty flesh: live nude zombies xxx

19 October 2008
What's better than tough, hot naked girls battling zombies? Not much in my book, especially when my favorite holiday of the year is approaching -- and to have this above pinup land in my inbox this morning (with a wonderful note from the artist's sweetheart saying that she sent […]
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voter guide to sex and queer rights

18 October 2008
Image via magandafille. Two issues in the American election are very personal for me: sex education in public schools and gay rights. Sifting through the muck of rhetoric and putting together puzzle pieces of rushed talking points and obfuscation during the debates hasn't helped, so I'm extremely happy to see that […]
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