From the monthly archives:

July 2008

sleeping around craigslist

13 July 2008
Image by Claudette Psico. I've really enjoyed imagining the routines of the Chilean exotic dancer who was just arrested for pole dancing on the subway (thanks, Amy!); unfortunately her playful cultural contribution to the dull commute of strangers was not well received by authorities. But I loved that she was essentially […]
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pretty girl friday, after midnight

12 July 2008
Image by inmymind. This post is graced by the startlingly beautiful images of Russian photographer imnymind (I don't speak or read Russian so if anyone wants to tell me their name, fabulous!). He has more here; all links are hi-res so check your speed before poking around... I also have a […]
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the accretion of little things

11 July 2008
Image via violetbluevioletblue.net Walking into a Castro business today, the guy behind the counter saw me and called out, "Hey! I thought you were unpublished!" I grinned and replied, "Hey, don't make me unsmile." Later, at my publisher's office, I got a big butch hug. "You know you can't have a dyke romance […]
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this is not your pretty girl friday

11 July 2008
Nor is this your anatomically correct porn fantasy: it's the work of artist Alex Sandwell Kliszynski, who endeavors to explore the human-doll porn composite. (Note that I did not say mashup. Point for me.) His gallery is here. According to my friends at Sex and Blogs, his My Luxuria collections […]
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a very strange auto erotic death?

10 July 2008
Just stumbled across this news item in the Sydney Morning Herald (popup warining), snip: (...) Senior Constable Davis said towels, cushions and pillows, a foot spa and construction hat appeared to have been deliberately placed over Ms Germain's body. "It didn't look like she had pulled it on top of her. […]
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hot boy thursday

10 July 2008
I think this week's hot boys are extra hot -- pulling direct from the sexiest boys I've seen on Fleshbot in a while, first I bring you Fleshbot's exclusive PREF Mag gallery. I have a well-thumbed (hey!) copy of this gay French glossy in my house at all times, and […]
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cinekink: the thinking person’s traveling erotic film fest

9 July 2008
Image of Madison Young, whose Writers and Rockstars might just be the belle of the festival; this image is from her last film Undone, via her Tied4Sex site. I'm so very excited that CineKink is this weekend here in San Francisco -- and the refined, indy, edgy traveling eroto-porn film fest […]
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guardian uk on bdsm: note – “Sir Guy” is not knighted

9 July 2008
Image by addictedimage. Indeed. Reporting on the wake of a scandal, today Guardian UK endeavors to cover both Max Mosley's lawsuit over News of the World running a video of him in a military BDSM scenario and the topic of BDSM itself. They do both a bit ham-handedly, but the resulting […]
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I’m on playboy’s list of sexiest bloggers!

9 July 2008
Photo by Pauline and Pauline. I love that they used the word "canoodling" even if the context is meta-ironic. Peep Playboy's list of the Hottest Female Bloggers and vote... I see my friend Veronica Belmont is on there with me (yay!), and since I named her sexy geek #1 in my […]
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3d fetish photography by charles mons

8 July 2008
This is the first time I've ever wished I had a pair of 3D glasses in my laptop bag. Finding the goldmine of beautiful fetish photography on Charles Mons' website was one thing, but seeing that he'd made galleries of them into 3D images was another. Very cool, extremely sexy. […]
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this week’s web scandal brought to you by jezebel

8 July 2008
It also happens to be about sex. Because, you know, only stupid girls get raped. I'm pretty floored by this one; check out Jezebelism, and then see how college blogs are reacting ("Jezebel Writers Too Smart To Be Raped") to seeing two Jezebel bloggers go on Lizz Winstead's show, get […]
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barcelona sex project

7 July 2008
You know, when a day goes by and I haven't done a blog post I get anxious. Plus, things pile up, and then I feel like posts I want to do don't get their proper day in the sun. Boo! So even though I've been working like a crazy person […]
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sex surrogacy: florida’s last sexual surrogate

6 July 2008
Another breathtaking photo by my friend Richard Kadrey. It's quite sensationalized and comes off initially -- annoyingly -- as biased against sex workers and sexual outsiders (which I feel is a clumsy attempt to differentiate sex work from sex surrogacy), but the article Sexual Healing: Sad stories and otherwise freaky tales […]
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so google is a brunette and firefox is a blonde?

6 July 2008
The Firefox blonde accompanies the article Report Looks At Vulnerable Web Browsers. The Google brunette is the lede photo for Google Adds Link To Privacy Policy. What are they trying to tell us? I can totally see Google as a topheavy brunette, sure. But I just don't feel in my heart […]
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the sexy geek philologist and the AK

6 July 2008
Image of the uber-hot sexy nerd girl Merrick Monroe by PK Ripper; Merrick's lickable website is finally back in action so you should really stop by and say o haiii... People say unkind things about Marina Orlova, the hostess of Hot For Words, but I love her. She's informal and dorky […]
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gulp

5 July 2008
Image by Edward Olive. I could probably come up with a better post title for my reactions to Taschen's gallery for their Big Penis Book. But... whoa. There's a video on that page but I don't want to have my eye poked out so I did not watch it. How can […]
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the new yorker: secret diary of a call girl

5 July 2008
Image of the gorgeous, and very real, sexy geeklet Valerie Lewis. In the sex blogging scene, the blog -- rather, mostly the author behind it -- Belle de Jour has been a subject of debate, controversy and occasionally envy. It's one of the longer-running sex blogs, anonymously typed by someone who […]
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a lovely surprise from jimmyjane

5 July 2008
Photo taken with my sturdy Ocean. What a great way to close a crazy week: a gift from JimmyJane! I think there may be some benevolent force in the galaxy, yet. They like me there, I think. That's great because I actually *love* their products. And now I get to love […]
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in praise of pretty girl friday

4 July 2008
Image of Lucy Nova from this gallery. After a visit to Walgreens and feeling my brain liquefy to the strains of their patriotic 4th of July medley (that included Mariah Carey) and made me wonder if 'suicide by Metamucil overdose' would look good on my obit, I just couldn't do the […]
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the mysterious maison close

3 July 2008
Found at Sexe, love et gaudriole, the mysterious Maison Close. Or not so mysterious: it's a fledgling high-end Parisian lingerie company that supplies boutiques worldwide, and is readying to open a brick-and-mortar store in Paris. I know, it's just me showing you that I found more agonizingly beautiful yet totally […]
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