in praise of cfnm

by admin on July 25, 2008

This is one of our regularly scheduled porn breaks, where I cease to bring you sex news, sexual health info and commentary and show you some adult entertainment. Today I want to share one of my very favorite porn niches with you, and it’s not the first time I’ve sung the praises of CFNM (clothed female, naked male). I love this genre for a variety of reasons: the girls are having a *blast* laughing and making the men into their playthings, the girls keep their clothes on if they want to, but the guys — the guys are in trouble. And they love it. There’s a little sexual embarrassment involved on the guys’ part occasionally — the boys seem to like showing off and being played with by a bunch of women having fun. I’ve never seen a shoot where no one’s smiling and having fun. And that, to me, is more like porn I’d like to see. I do like Brandi Belle‘s site, but the galleries at Pure CFNM are my faves — Belle is part of a larger porn network (Bang Bros.), and Pure CFNM seems to really dig the amateurs, as do I, and hold to my principle that the girls must be in charge — and not suddenly become typical porn scenes. The boy above is late to class — here’s the video version of his predicament. This is a very interesting garage sale. Here is what happens when a guy interrupts a sex toy “tupperware party”. These girls make a guy let them try to see what it’s like to have a penis (sorta). Delivery boy scenario — way better when the girls are in charge of that trope. And when two women catch a peeping tom, well…

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1 majors2410 December 12, 2009 at 12:21 pm

Thanks for promoting CFNM Violet. Theres nothing more fun than to be watched by ladies hwil openly masturbating.

2 Alison October 19, 2008 at 3:56 pm

I agree the boys getting spanked and caned are the best videos,
I wish we could see more spanking and caning and slippering of toy boys
over the girls knees.

3 samantha October 19, 2008 at 3:53 pm

A Boy getting caned (six of the best) in front of the girls is the best CFNM video yet

It brings back so many fond memories of my real schooldays !

Whacko !

4 Kaija August 5, 2008 at 2:18 am

I agree with gneiss_girl…I like the fact that the actors, male and female, don’t look like plastic pretty people. I also like the fact that the girls just seem to be unashamedly having a good time playing with a boy toy, who is also having a good time, and not being overtly degraded or abused or treated like filth, which is unfortunately what you see in a lot of mainstream porn when it’s a bunch of guys doing stuff to a girl. Just THINK of all the fun we could have if RL was more like the first scenario ;)

5 gneiss_girl July 25, 2008 at 7:51 pm

What I find so astonishing (and wish it wasn’t so rare) as well as wonderful about those galleries is how real the women look.

Yeah, they’re dressed up in a sort of generic style, but there’s a wide variety of body types and facial features represented, they really do look like the kind of women I’d see at a club, or the grocery store, or actually having an Ann Summers party.

And to see women looking like they’re genuinely having a good time with attractively embarrassed men? I’m sold.

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