Comments on: kids are like DUH we know what oral sex is

By: Syd

Syd — Thu, 22 May 2008 01:42:32 +0000

I think you should give him a call on Loveline and debate him over the air. That would be interesting to listen to.

By: violet

violet — Wed, 21 May 2008 18:03:32 +0000

@ Simon: I’m updating the post to remove the links to Dr. Drew’s infected site now — thank you!

By: Simon

Simon — Wed, 21 May 2008 17:53:13 +0000

The Dr Drew link is to a site that has suffered in the recent spate of SQL Injection attacks.

It has scripts referring the the banner 82 (dot) com site.

More details of SQL Injection here:

http://www.shadowserver.org/wiki/pmwiki.php?n=Calendar.20080514

Probably best not to direct folks there Violet. Don’t visit the link. Most of the SQL injection exploits were using exploits against old browsers, old browser plugins (flash), so make sure all your software is up to date, and practise safe hex.

By: burnout

burnout — Wed, 21 May 2008 16:42:45 +0000

FYI…The link to “blame Dr. Drew” was flagged by my anti-virus for a potential virus or exploit.

By: Lesbilicious

Lesbilicious — Wed, 21 May 2008 14:23:52 +0000

Thanks for helping reveal the oral-instead-of-”proper”-sex myth!

Also, glad he couldn’t resist the pun…, but “The bottom line is that you should think about your needs and feelings first”

By: secondlastwish

secondlastwish — Wed, 21 May 2008 03:06:33 +0000

I will personally own up to some of this “technical virgin” thing on behalf of sex educators in my small part of the world. I think when the study that showed relatively high rates of oral sex came out, it was nice to pin that on virginity pledges and ab-only folks. It’s all about spin from both camps.

And really overall, ab only avoids talking about oral sex at all and kids are doing it so we should use that ammo back at them.

(Also…I kind of like Dr. Drew…he gave me a lot more information on Loveline growing up than I ever learned in school. But 10+ years later, maybe he should chill out about anal sex.)

By: Mike Place

Mike Place — Wed, 21 May 2008 02:56:18 +0000

I’m so glad someone else thought this was stupid

By: Morgan

Morgan — Wed, 21 May 2008 00:17:56 +0000

Is it just me… Or does Dr Drew seem to be jumping to conclusions?

Question: “Is my boyfriend gay because he likes anal sex?”

Dr Drew: “There is no evidence that suggests that males who are excessively preoccupied with anal sex are homosexual, but that shouldn’t be what you are worrying about. You should be asking yourself why you are participating in an activity that you find unpleasant. You shouldn’t have to engage in any sexual activities that you do not enjoy.

You need to talk with your boyfriend and let him know that you dislike anal sex and do not wish to engage in it anymore. If you have already told him how you feel, and he still wants to do it, then I doubt he really cares that much about you. The bottom line is that you should think about your needs and feelings first and if your boyfriend doesn’t like it, maybe he’s not the right guy for you.”

…

Well, this poor girl didn’t necessarily say she disliked it. A simple question leads to “Maybe he isn’t the right guy for you” very quickly.

I’m so glad such well informed people are enlightening the masses over the internet.