From the monthly archives:

April 2008

pirate bay: completely uncensored blogs

16 April 2008
First we had Fuck Like A Pirate Day -- now, it looks like hosted blogging might get a chance to revive the free-thinking spirit that made blogging so powerful in the first place... until people started getting kicked off of WordPress, Blogger, LiveJournal and other hosted blog sites for posting […]
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eeek of the day

14 April 2008
Not sex related: I come across at least one thing online a day that makes me go eeek. It's usually a private, quiet little eeek. I can no longer live in silence. Today's case in point: The Cats' Inn grooming page featuring "panty" shaves and "Lion Cuts".
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candy kisses and lollipop girls

13 April 2008
At a welcome home party for Extra Action last night I got a lot of compliments on a recent photo shoot; someone asked if my Flickr exploded after I posted it. I laughed and said, actually... yeah. He said, and you didn't even blog it, did you? I said no... […]
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tonight: sizzle with me in SF at Femina Potens

12 April 2008
Tonight I'm reading something funny and dirty at Femina Potens, with a lineup of people I'm deeply excited and honored to be counted among (like Lorelei Lee, Madison Young, and more). After, there's going to be a live bondage shoot for NoFauxxx, which should be... hot. Here's the info on […]
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free fucking machines memberships for lolpr0n capshuns!

10 April 2008
Over at Fleshbot right now, I just posted a fabulous Fucking Machines membership giveaway -- along with a hyooge yummy sexy fun hardcore gallery just for fun. Check out U Can Haz Free Robopr0n: Fucking Machines Contest Giveaway!: I've got three one-month Fucking Machines passes to give out to whoever […]
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a mouthful of hearts and flowers

10 April 2008
Lollipops by Miette. Painted Ladies courtesy of my beautiful hometown! Image via my Helio Ocean.
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in the Chron: wtf is feminist pr0n?!

10 April 2008
Image of the amazing award-winner Madison Young by Kelly Lind. I just had to ask... Especially since the Feminist Porn Awards are getting huger and more popular every year. We must know! What does it mean? And I may be stepping into yet another controversial minefield. But it's important, and really […]
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around the bend and back

10 April 2008
* Gawker blog i09 has a first peek at costuming of evil secretary Silken Floss (played by Scarlett Johansson, image via) for Frank Miller's directorial debut, The Spirit -- adapted from the 1940s newspaper comic. I'm not a Johansson fan, but I am a huge HUGE fan of Frank Miller's […]
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hot boy thursdays, ahhh

9 April 2008
Photo by Jean-Paul. The Hot Boy Thursdays are not as regular as I'd like, but... I've got quality. Here's a *very* sexy, self-portraited boy self-tagged on Flickr as "straight" and "for women". There is a whole lot more of him here, and self-identified amateur photographer Jean-Paul has more drool-worthy pages of […]
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holy shit: John Stagliano indicted on 8 obscenity counts

8 April 2008
Image from Fashionistas Safado; more images here. John Stagliano has long been a porn director of high regard for me -- and a businessman I admire. His company, Evil Angel (named after a combo of former girlfriend plus his name as a male erotic performer), is unique among all other porn […]
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an irresistable screencap

7 April 2008
Oh, Regis... see what happens when Kathie isn't around to monitor your blogads!? This irresistable screencap is fresh off my friend (author, feminist, sex-positive pundit) Audacia Ray's new blog for the Village Voice, Naked City. In this post, she's reviewing my online pal Porno Jim's passion: The Porno Jim Show, […]
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a moment of sweetness

7 April 2008
When I was leaving the house a day ago, my downstairs neighbor opened the door right when I came out, and said... oh, hey! we've been seeing your name *everywhere* these days..." I thought uh-oh, but smiled -- I have a great relationship with my neighbors. But I've never really […]
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more on sex + body image, immodesty blaize, other jiggly links worth considering

4 April 2008
Image of sumptuous British burlesque dancer Immodesty Blaize by the also-stunning Loraine Ross. * Bombshell Betty comments on the Ugly Violet (trolls and female sexual self-image) column I wrote, and takes the discussion ever further with more sage advice in body love/hate -- and don't miss her excellent post How […]
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the nightmare of free porn

3 April 2008
So I'll be doing a lot of text posts for a while, until I get a new set of backwards-skating WordPress workarounds figured out -- like sharing this scary-accurate retelling of what it's like to be a porn reviewer: the highs, and oh, the lows... The Pro Circuit: Free Porn, […]
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radio silence

3 April 2008
Sorry about the quiet day here; my WordPress upgrade was a really unfortunate idea. I miss Movable Type!
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hot gay sex and Jay Leno’s gayest look

3 April 2008
Image by my friend Jack Shamama. This week's SF Chronicle column is Hot gay sex is for homophobes: Psych study links homophobia and homoerotic arousal; Violet Blue wants Jay Leno to know he's safe. The comments are already over 500 and my inbox is crammed with everything from comments like, "What […]
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a stellar, deep review for Best Women’s Erotica 2008

2 April 2008
Image by the extremely talented, ahem, well-named Violent Indigo (no relation!) I poured my blood, sweat and other precious fluids into editing Best Women's Erotica 2008, and so far the reviews have been overwhelmingly great. Today, my publisher sent me Erotica Revealed's in-depth review, and I'm blown away. I feel […]
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kink.com pranked

1 April 2008
I just got an email from my friend who works at Kink.com, reading: When I got to work at the SF Armory this morning, [name redacted], who directs Behind Kink, asked me if Peter's Assistant had found me yet. I said she had not, why was she looking for me? "To tell […]
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