Some *really* nice person (thank you sooo much, R!) bought and sent me Thrusti Kicki Grabbi‘s game of Truth or Dare from my Amazon wishlist– so I took a night off from working and feeling generally hopeless to have a really, really *really* hot night with a lucky boy. The game is so easy: take turns rolling the die and select a card based on whether “truth”, “dare” or “wild” (roller’s choice) comes up. Truth came up about ten times more often than dare and I was actually really happy with that; I was nervous about the dares, even though my date was extremely creative when his first dare came up (5 minutes of him in total control of my body and actions). The truth cards revealed so much it was difficult not to want to keep going with them: I got a chance to describe my top five sexual experiences (but without having to explain why, that was cool), and I found out what his ideal threesome would be like in detail — something I’d always wondered and was totally surprised to hear the answer. It wasn’t what I expected, at all. Talking about fantasy sex with someone hot is REALLY fun; the game is a nice way to have “permission” to do this because the cards tell you what you have to talk about. It’s like having a 3rd party application to facilitate information (and arousal). The game “makes” you bring it up, so neither party has to feel awkward asking questions.
The dares were sort of endgame; the first one we picked (actually, he picked) we decided went past both of our comfort levels so we tossed it and drew again — getting the hot him-in-charge for five minutes dare. The other dare we made a future date for (yay another date)! The last dare was… well, the last dare. It told us to each write five things we’d never done with each other before but had always wanted to. Then, put the ten ideas in a hat, and the person who got the “dare” card draws the idea. My idea was picked! It was “strip naked, make out for exactly ten minutes with no hands, with strategically placed lubricant.” Even hotter, he tried to keep me pinned physically throughout — I highly suggest couples try this idea, because between the intense kissing and all the body contact and wiggling… It’s too much.
That naughty game has got to be the best Valentine’s Day gift, ever — I can’t recommend it highly enough.
The hat with the other nine ideas/dares is sitting on my desk. Intact. Waiting… And no, I haven’t peeked, though I really want to…
