Comments on: it’s not a “problem” until you’re in denial… http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html Journalist and author Violet Blue's site for sex and tech culture, accurate sex information, erotica and more. Tue, 26 May 2015 17:18:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Anthony Kennerson http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-25 Anthony Kennerson Tue, 26 Feb 2008 02:10:35 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-25 Hey, Violet....nice to see that you are finally allowing open comments...been a fan for a long while. On the antics of the "Thief Squad" and the attempted CYA of their head honcho: says a heck of a lot towards the lack of respect that sex performers get, doesn't it? That they can have their livelihoods taken from them without any consequences whatsoever; that their privacy can be violated at the drop of a finger on a keyboard.....pretty disgusting, if I may say so. The part about ratting private users to the authorities doesn't help their cause, either. And...the redesign, is, to use a word, NICE. Keep bringing it. Anthony Hey, Violet….nice to see that you are finally allowing open comments…been a fan for a long while.

On the antics of the “Thief Squad” and the attempted CYA of their head honcho: says a heck of a lot towards the lack of respect that sex performers get, doesn’t it? That they can have their livelihoods taken from them without any consequences whatsoever; that their privacy can be violated at the drop of a finger on a keyboard…..pretty disgusting, if I may say so. The part about ratting private users to the authorities doesn’t help their cause, either.

And…the redesign, is, to use a word, NICE.

Keep bringing it.

Anthony

]]> By: violet http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-22 violet Mon, 25 Feb 2008 23:27:57 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-22 thank you all so much for all the comments and compliments! I'm ecstatic to finally turn this thing -- um, my blog life -- into more of a real conversation. and yes, the troll/spam hammer is hair-triggered. I like how I can even get super-specific on who I can ban... ah, troll control :D ::smooch:: thank you all so much for all the comments and compliments! I’m ecstatic to finally turn this thing — um, my blog life — into more of a real conversation. and yes, the troll/spam hammer is hair-triggered. I like how I can even get super-specific on who I can ban… ah, troll control :D

::smooch::

]]> By: Adorkable Grrl http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-21 Adorkable Grrl Sun, 24 Feb 2008 21:32:44 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-21 O.o!!! Hawt new layout, Violet! So psyched at the comment option... YAY! And, patches & t-shirts w/Thief Squad are defs in order. What a tool Robert Stephens is... Good on Ariel for trying to nail him, though. O.o!!!
Hawt new layout, Violet!

So psyched at the comment option… YAY!

And, patches & t-shirts w/Thief Squad are defs in order. What a tool Robert Stephens is… Good on Ariel for trying to nail him, though.

]]> By: EllaRegina http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-20 EllaRegina Sun, 24 Feb 2008 08:50:18 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-20 Comments! Finally! Congratulations! Nice redesign, too. Looks good! Comments! Finally! Congratulations!

Nice redesign, too. Looks good!

]]> By: LaurenB http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-19 LaurenB Sat, 23 Feb 2008 02:37:19 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-19 Hooray! I *can* has talk at pretty lady! Now if only you had more time to podcast. ;D ...not that I should be listening to something that fascinating whilst driving in a urban area anyway. Hooray! I *can* has talk at pretty lady!

Now if only you had more time to podcast. ;D
…not that I should be listening to something that fascinating whilst driving in a urban area anyway.

]]> By: Loca Yo Alondra http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-18 Loca Yo Alondra Fri, 22 Feb 2008 15:44:47 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-18 I love the new update to the blog and ab fab love what do you for the community. I almost fainted in pleasure at having seen you at Gay Pride in San Francisco last year and have been a fan of yours for many years. Thanks for being open and blunt about everything and not shying away from it. You and the rest of the GLBT in my hometown praise you. :D I love the new update to the blog and ab fab love what do you for the community. I almost fainted in pleasure at having seen you at Gay Pride in San Francisco last year and have been a fan of yours for many years. Thanks for being open and blunt about everything and not shying away from it. You and the rest of the GLBT in my hometown praise you. :D

]]> By: Jaden @ Screenwriting for Hollywood http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-17 Jaden @ Screenwriting for Hollywood Fri, 22 Feb 2008 08:27:50 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-17 This sexy woman / Apple computer image is GORGEOUS! Your selection of images and the rest of your site are very tasteful. Your new site works much faster and I can see everything now -- yay! This sexy woman / Apple computer image is GORGEOUS! Your selection of images and the rest of your site are very tasteful.

Your new site works much faster and I can see everything now — yay!

]]> By: janeyruth http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-16 janeyruth Fri, 22 Feb 2008 08:20:50 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-16 Super upgrade. ty Very nice upgrade. Super upgrade. ty

Very nice upgrade.

]]> By: twizted http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-15 twizted Fri, 22 Feb 2008 06:12:44 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-15 Like the new blog! Congrats, and thanks for allowing comments. I remember Robert Stevens when he was a young, cocky head of an upstart little tech support company. He was always a salesman. He wowed my less 'pooter-savvy bosses back in the day. It didn't hurt that he was smoking hot back then—hard to imagine now.That was a pretty defensive response, and pretty corporate-standard too. The only thing that would effect change for Geek Squad would have to be financial losses of some sort. Keep up the info! Like the new blog! Congrats, and thanks for allowing comments.

I remember Robert Stevens when he was a young, cocky head of an upstart little tech support company. He was always a salesman. He wowed my less ‘pooter-savvy bosses back in the day. It didn’t hurt that he was smoking hot back then—hard to imagine now.That was a pretty defensive response, and pretty corporate-standard too. The only thing that would effect change for Geek Squad would have to be financial losses of some sort. Keep up the info!

]]> By: La Pelirojita http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-14 La Pelirojita Fri, 22 Feb 2008 05:33:27 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-14 I heart the new design but I miss the picture of you at the top! I loved to see your smiling face welcoming me into the site and I'm sad to see it go. I heart the new design but I miss the picture of you at the top! I loved to see your smiling face welcoming me into the site and I’m sad to see it go.

]]> By: Billifer http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-13 Billifer Fri, 22 Feb 2008 04:00:10 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-13 Fantastic work, Violet! Thank you <i>so</i> much for opening up comments! *Squee* There've been many times I've wanted to respond to something in one of your posts and was unable to do so without sending you an email -- and I know you get countless emails every day. As Nobilis (#1) mentioned, spamkilling is going to be a big thing. If you're using WordPress, I've found amazing results with Spam Karma. Fantastic work, Violet! Thank you so much for opening up comments! *Squee* There’ve been many times I’ve wanted to respond to something in one of your posts and was unable to do so without sending you an email — and I know you get countless emails every day. As Nobilis (#1) mentioned, spamkilling is going to be a big thing. If you’re using WordPress, I’ve found amazing results with Spam Karma.

]]> By: The Muscle Bound Geek:David Shorb http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-12 The Muscle Bound Geek:David Shorb Fri, 22 Feb 2008 03:53:33 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-12 Hey Violet, I love the great redesign, it is fantastic. totally awesomeness. Have A Great Day! The Muscle Bound Geek David Shorb Hey Violet,

I love the great redesign, it is fantastic. totally awesomeness.

Have A Great Day!
The Muscle Bound Geek
David Shorb

]]> By: aliyah http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-11 aliyah Fri, 22 Feb 2008 02:05:49 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-11 a very nice surprise when i browsed here tonight. i like it indeed! especially if you have comments enabled for interaction with people. though, i suspect there will be more than enough trolls to spoil the intelligent dialogue. a very nice surprise when i browsed here tonight. i like it indeed! especially if you have comments enabled for interaction with people.

though, i suspect there will be more than enough trolls to spoil the intelligent dialogue.

]]> By: Trekkie http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-10 Trekkie Fri, 22 Feb 2008 02:05:48 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-10 OMG. Comments! Fun. Looks great. Congrats on the upgrade hope it wasn't completely painful, unless you like those kinda upgrades. OMG. Comments! Fun.

Looks great. Congrats on the upgrade hope it wasn’t completely painful, unless you like those kinda upgrades.

]]> By: addycat http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-9 addycat Thu, 21 Feb 2008 22:20:02 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-9 yahoo - so neat and tidy - excellent upgradeness. yahoo – so neat and tidy – excellent upgradeness.

]]> By: Kurt http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-8 Kurt Thu, 21 Feb 2008 21:47:03 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-8 Very nice upgrade. I like how it keeps the best aspects of the old design, while managing to look much cleaner. Very nice upgrade. I like how it keeps the best aspects of the old design, while managing to look much cleaner.

]]> By: Emily http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-7 Emily Thu, 21 Feb 2008 20:16:07 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-7 The site looks amazing. I no longer have to wait for the site to load because I have a PC and Vista... (the devil hates me) Great job, XOXO to whoever did this for you!!!! -E The site looks amazing. I no longer have to wait for the site to load because I have a PC and Vista… (the devil hates me) Great job, XOXO to whoever did this for you!!!!

-E

]]> By: Alan Bostick http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-6 Alan Bostick Thu, 21 Feb 2008 19:42:42 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-6 Yay comments! That wasn't a denial, it was an evasion: the "bloggers don't really count" evasion. (Tell that to Alberto Gonzales.) If you can forgive the off-topic link pandering, have you heard about the study that indicates the risk to youths from so-called sexual predators is greatly exaggerated? Read all about it at my blog (http://www.spicejar.org/asiplease/archives/000669.html) Yay comments!

That wasn’t a denial, it was an evasion: the “bloggers don’t really count” evasion. (Tell that to Alberto Gonzales.)

If you can forgive the off-topic link pandering, have you heard about the study that indicates the risk to youths from so-called sexual predators is greatly exaggerated? Read all about it at my blog (http://www.spicejar.org/asiplease/archives/000669.html)

]]> By: lance http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-5 lance Thu, 21 Feb 2008 18:24:51 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-5 iz gorgeeus, no? yes! iz gorgeeus, no? yes!

]]> By: Danny http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-4 Danny Thu, 21 Feb 2008 18:06:33 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-4 <3 <3

]]> By: Jackson West http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-3 Jackson West Thu, 21 Feb 2008 17:39:02 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-3 Woohoo, comments! Looks great. This just popped up in my RSS, which also worked fine. No bugs to report here. Woohoo, comments! Looks great. This just popped up in my RSS, which also worked fine. No bugs to report here.

]]> By: Nobilis http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html/comment-page-1#comment-2 Nobilis Thu, 21 Feb 2008 17:36:29 +0000 http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2008/02/its-not-a-problem-until-youre-in-denial.html#comment-2 Thanks for allowing comments on your blog, VB. It's a good thing to open up the dialogue. I hope you have the anti-spammer hammer poised and waiting? Thanks for allowing comments on your blog, VB. It’s a good thing to open up the dialogue.

I hope you have the anti-spammer hammer poised and waiting?

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