Image by Dustin Lacina.

I don’t do blogrolls or link trades, and I try to only link to sites and friends I think will be around for the duration. It always takes me a while because I do personal writeups based on my experiences, opinions and feelings. Tonight I added a bunch of new ones to my linklove page for resource reasons in a variety of categories:

* Boinkology An up-to-date sex news, entertainment and info site that’s women-run and features original blog content and their own video: caveat — dating and het-focused. Nice inclusion in any RSS feed. We’re not friends, but they have the right attitude.

* Savage Love (podcast, blog, column). My friend Dan could go in any of these categories, but I’ll put him in the top one where he belongs. Irreverent and accurate, he’s one of the best educators of our time. (This one took me long enough, doh).

* Sex In The Public Square Active on current sex topics, big on building community, eroticism and occasional snarkiness, this is one of my new favorite regular haunts.

* Sexual Intelligence with Dr. Marty Klein Sex and politics with a direct approach: his blog is a nice way to keep your sex news feed current and opinionated.

* Sex or Not? A very eclectic and endlessly fascinating sex entertainment blog in another language whch makes it even more fun.

* Sexoteric A very eclectic and entertaining mix of explicit imagery, art, and occasional poetry. They catch some good stuff there.

* Shake Well Before Use Ariel Waldman’s excellent sexy and tech blog — it’s work-safe but has a bite. Very fun stuff.

* Shiny Shiny Not about sex, but I am a drooling addict of thie girl-powered and -focused tech gadget blog.

* Adorkable Grrl Not too much sex blogging, but a cute, smart fun to read friend.

* Dave Naz Incredible and completely adventurous erotic photographer (of the hardcore variety) — his blog never lets me down. And he’s sweet and soft-spoken and has tons of humility.

* Dustin Lacina Friend, erotic photographer (Gawker Artist) and all-around badass. I love Dustin! (image via)

* Steve Diet Goedde An outrageously talented fetish photographer, good friend and seriously sweet guy.

* Susan Mernit Very active in tech, and a wide breadth of sex in the blogosphere, Susan is a prize, sweetheart and sublime critic. Yahoo Personals is extremely lucky to have her in charge.

* ISIS-Inc A fabulous online service dedicated to innovative strategies and high-tech solutions for sexual health education and STD/HIV prevention, with a focus on tech and getting accurate info to youth.

* The Kinsey Institute Dedicated to research, scholarship, plus events and a gallery.

* National Sexuality Resource Center A collection of online sexual lifestyle magazines chock full of mainstream sex content that isn’t full of stereotypes and typical Cosmo-Maxin sex garbage. Fun stuff, yet academic, and they’re deeply invested in advancing sexual literacy. They have an incredible religion and sexuality resource page. Also en Espanol at SexualidadesLatinas.org.

* The Midwest Teen Sex Show A fun, rambunctious video podcast that coversll all kinds of sex topics, and gets the conversation started with parents and especially for teens. Highly recommended.

* The Sexual Freedom Network They “believe that sexual freedom is a fundamental human right” and back up their mission with news, First Amendment focus, LGBT resources, and serious sex ed on all levels. A good candidate for resources and news.

* Gamelink The biggest selection of porn for sale (and most diverse): limited VoD and pay per minute, but still, they carry my friends Vivid Alt…

* I Shot Myself Women-run indy/amateur site down under that features women of all (hot) varieties making their own explicit photo shoots. Very yummy, lots of hot free content.

* I Feel Myself Women-run indy site that features really sexy amateur women filming their own explicit jack-off sessions. High quality and tasteful, with regular free content.

* Next Door Hookups A paysite with plenty of freebees — but most notably, it’s straight porn shot from a gay male perspective so the focus is on the (good looking) amateur guys. Refreshing, this girl loves it.

* Stroke that Dick Straight amateur boys making money jacking off for a basic paysite — incredibly enjoyable.

* Vivid Alt The mainstream porn’s rogue division makes some of the hottest porn around with a growing stable of art-focused directors and their site has all kinds of goodies. Love it.

And added to the free clip site list: RedTube.