From the monthly archives:

August 2007

conservative sexual fetishes: a hardcore guide — in sf gate :)

9 August 2007
I'm kind of not surprised this week's column is shoved down the page; it's likely making people like "fellow" columnist Cinnamon Stillwell piss in her chastity belt. This week, I lovingly guide readers through the sexual fetishes of people like, the Murdochs, the Malkins, the Haggards, the Bushes, the Gonzales' […]
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about those top 50 sex scenes: what makes great sex onscreen?

8 August 2007
When I reviewed IFC's uber-fabulous Indie Sex series, I mentioned their list of 50 Greatest Sex Scenes in Cinema, a list that IFC co-presented with Nerve. As I mentioned, your mileage may vary with their picks, but Josh Spero over at Guardian UK's blogs has a really fantastic opinion post […]
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my co-column with dan savage for savage love! strap-on sex for straight couples

8 August 2007
Gorgeous image by my friend Steve Diet Goedde, at (more friends!) Stockroom. Previous (non-explicit) image was deleted from Flickr, ha. I just love that the column got titled with one of my more outrageous quotes -- You Don't Have To Be Mistress Asscrusher or Worthless Buttslut To Enjoy Strap-On Sex. Co-written […]
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“snip snip”

7 August 2007
I had an urge to make my tights into stockings -- while still wearing them. Hacker Boy insisted on helping; I live blogged it as it happened with my Helio Ocean. The set of what happened in my kitchen is here.
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adult swim: sex

7 August 2007
It's a very short but fun video with a variety of funny sex moments in the lives of various Adult Swim cartoon characters... Oh, Phil Ken Sebben. How I need you. (more...)
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hot, erotic photos at paulie & pauline

7 August 2007
One of my favorite kinds of erotic photos collections always include couples -- it's easy to find babes, fetish girls, porn scenes... but sexy couples are difficult to find. I return endlessly to the work of Samantha Wolov, but now I'm happy to see a very talented photographer friend of […]
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absolutely wonderful GETV episode now up: the musee mechanique

6 August 2007
GETV is just getting more fun all the time -- I had a wild urge to go to the Musee Mechanique down on Pier 45 (the old mechanical museum) and Eddie brought the camera. We had a blast! Then Eddie kicked my ass at pinball. Watch the episode on the […]
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well-hung obiter dictum

3 August 2007
* It's time for indie porn film fest submissions -- and bi (coastal) is the new black. My friends at CineKink NYC are partnering with LA's Erotica Film Fest for the fest and their submission deadline is August 15. It looks less indie and more mainstream porn than I'd hoped, […]
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review: ifc’s indie sex series is riveting

2 August 2007
Image from Secretary, via. An update on the state of sex and cinema has been long overdue. IFC did it in their excellent IFC's Indie Sex Mini-Series, which started last night and runs through friday saturday: it's airing in four parts on the IFC channel right now (after midnight, of course). […]
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hey flirty-pants

2 August 2007
This week's column is locally focused: a fun guide to some (of my) favorite places to flirt and hook up in San Francisco. When I leave the house, that is. Snip: About a month ago I provided some comments for a Men's Health piece about "finding men" in San Francisco, and […]
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susan mernit’s thoughts on organizing the female sexblogosphere

2 August 2007
Someone I like (but don't really know), Susan Mernit, has a great post up on the BlogHer blog about her thoughts re: how she'd categorize some of the leading women in the sexblogosphere. It's a fascinating, well-thought post, with lots of really interesting female sex blogs (and bloggers) put into […]
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italian translations!

1 August 2007
A whole box of them just arrived -- Italian translations of my first book (and its sequel) Sweet Life 1 and Sweet Life 2. w00t!!!! Eeeeee!!!! But the irony here for me is in the re-titling of the books (compiled into one volume, above). You see, I named my first collection […]
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