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:: [video] Mateo: For The Ladies   30.03.2006

Remember a while back I went to an underground amateur male, alt-boy strip show in an Oakland warehouse, called For The Ladies? Well… I was cruising around Flickr and found their For The Ladies Flickr Pool, and thought it would be a good idea to upload the video I took at the show to YouTube. After being up for a few hours, it got a lot of views and collected a few fans — then, wonderfully, it got blogged by DudeTube!

I’m working on planning one of these for San Francisco: the guys are all amateur straight boys with no homophobia, and it’s all just a hugely wonderful turn on for the rowdy crowd of grrrls (like me), and a great time. I think there’s even another one this weekend. After the jump, check out Mateo taking it off and just generally looking hella hot.

Update: After 3794 views of the video, I got this email from YouTube:

“Your video Mateo grinds it at For The Ladies has been rejected due to its inappropriate nature. Please refer to our terms and conditions for more information on what video material is not permitted on YouTube.”

** It was only a naked man dancing. There was no erection, no close-ups, no genital touching. It was more like performance art. That’s some pretty heavy-handed and QUITE uneven censorship going on at YouTube.


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