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  • Porn’s HR isn’t a brave new world in personnel management; it is unexceptional to the core. And so here, for your viewing pleasure, are some highlights from the porn boss playbook of business management.
    Business as Usual (Jacobin)
  • “Part of Ariel Schrag’s job in writing what Stephen Burt aptly calls “Trans Literature for the Masses” is to give a narrative gloss on the intricacies of a particular subculture—the focus on pronouns, preoccupation with bodily modification, particular lingo, what opinions are considered acceptable and unacceptable to voice regarding hot-button issues like gay marriage, sex parties with dildo blowjob contests, people named Riverrun, Le Tigre.”
    In His Own Image (The New Inquiry)
  • “Tongue Tied,” a bondage-themed video starring Miley Cyrus (now removed from YouTube under copyright claim), will not screen at the NYC Porn Festival. “Miley was proud to make a film with acclaimed filmmaker Quentin Jones,” a representative for Cyrus said in a statement to HuffPost Entertainment. “Neither she nor Quentin are participating in this ‘festival’ in any way.”
    Bondage-Themed Video Featuring Miley Cyrus Pulled From Porn Festival (HuffPo)
  • One of the lesser-known side effects of Viagra is blue-tinted vision. How does a pill that’s supposed to help men maintain an erection cause them to see the world as too blue?
    Why Viagra Tints Your Vision Blue (io9)
  • On Thursday, the Toronto Star, one of the largest newspapers in North America and the most-read in Canada, published a story that is everything wrong with vaccine reporting in one dangerous package. The story was, at its core, a collection of unproven anecdotes that suggested, among other things, that dozens of women north of the border had been harmed or worse by the Gardasil HPV vaccine.
    How the Toronto Star massively botched a story about the HPV vaccine (Vox; I feel terrible because I forgot who sent me this – but thank you!)

  • In order to prevent a repeat of the venereal disease (VD) epidemic of World War I, the U.S. government teamed up with artists, designers, and ad-men to set the story straight, plastering public-health warnings on walls at bases and training facilities just as military ranks were growing exponentially.
    How the Military Waged a Graphic-Design War on Venereal Disease (Collector’s Weekly)
  • He explains that the structure of every sex party DJ set is the same, complete with a ramp-up, climax (pun intended) and a finish that creates a crescendo that will hopefully jive with the room’s overall sexual rhythm. The components of a successful “play”-list depends on a multitude of factors, from what time of night it is to how many people are on the dance floor to what the décor is like.
    This Is What It’s Like to DJ a Sex Party (Vice)

Thank you to our sponsor in Spain, woman-run Lust Films.

  • The leadership of the Jehovah’s Witnesses – one of the world’s most insular religions – for 25 years has instructed its elders to keep cases of child sexual abuse secret from law enforcement and members of their own congregations, according to an examination of thousands of pages of documents in recent cases.
    Jehovah’s Witnesses use 1st Amendment to hide child sex abuse claims (Reveal News)
  • In November, male chastity device manufacturer CB-X Male Chastity sponsored Alastair Galpin’s 100th World Record Attempt: “Furthest Surface Journey in a Male Chastity Device.” The world record breaker was able to reach his goal on a journey that took him 5,000 miles spread out over 37 days.
    CB-X-Sponsored World Record Attempt Completed (XBIZ)

Thank you to our sponsor, Nubile Films.

  • NOFX bassist Fat Mike, noted adult director/writer/performer Soma Snakeoil and Tony Award-winner Jeff Marx (of “Avenue Q” fame) pent years figuring out just that with their latest collaborative project, “Home Street Home,” slated for an 11-show run between Feb. 20 and March 7 at San Francisco’s Z Space, centers on Sue, a 16-year old runaway who plunges headfirst into the deviant subculture and alternative lifestyle of the streets.
    NOFX’s Fat Mike, Soma Snakeoil’s Punk Rock Musical Depicts ‘Real’ BDSM (XBIZ)
  • With more than 60 works of art, Seduction: Japan’s Floating World | The John C. Weber Collection examines the decadent lifestyle associated with Edo’s (present-day Tokyo) entertainment districts and the enticing, though complicated, world of the Yoshiwara. On Thurs, Feb 19, the art of “Seduction” comes to life.
    Courtesans, Cooks, Samurai and Servants: Seduction Opening Party (Asian Art Museum, San Francisco)
  • Posting “revenge porn” images and videos on the internet is becoming a criminal offence in England and Wales. The Criminal Justice and Courts Bill, which has a specific amendment dealing with such actions, will receive Royal Assent and become law later. Offenders face up to two years in jail.
    ‘Revenge porn’ illegal under new law (BBC)
  • “Looking for men and women for no-strings attached sex, preferably no condoms?” reads the enticingly explicit message seemingly posted by a young Brazilian woman on popular meet-up mobile site Tinder. In reality, though, the poster is not a sultry Brazilian redhead.
    Brazil entices Tinder users in covert safe-sex campaign (Medical Express)

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  • The number of Americans requiring emergency room care for injuries involving sex toys has approximately doubled since 2007, according to data from the Consumer Product Safety Commission. Much of that increase happened in 2012 and 2013, following the release of the wildly popular erotic novels in the Fifty Shades of Grey series. And the overwhelming majority of these injuries — 83 percent — require ”foreign body removals.”
    Sex toy injuries surged after ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ was published (Washington Post)
  • Christian Grey is sexy. Christian Grey is a billionaire. Christian Grey is a sexy billionaire. Christian Grey is also, of course, a fictional character – a fantasy. The source of his fortune is left utterly vague: all that we’re told is that he owns something named Grey Enterprises Holdings, Inc. But here’s the weird thing: the fictional Christian Grey can teach us a lot about how today’s real-world wealth works, and what the word “billionaire” actually means.
    Christian Grey and the allure of fake billionaires (Fusion)
  • The last time I was quoted in an SFist piece, a commenter was stalkery and fucked up to me, and the then-editor’s reaction to my dismay was, oh, he’s actually a great guy. This time, it was for a different writer and under a new editor, and I was quoted along with some really incredible people — but the sensationalist title casts us as “porn stars and professional fetishists,” whatever the fuck that means. I am neither. I was told it would be quotes from “50 sex-positive models, authors and luminaries.” The quotes are great, but this will be the very last time I help out, or get anywhere near, SFist.
    50 Adult Stars And Professional Fetishists On Why They Hate Fifty Shades Of Grey (SFist)

Thank you to our British sponsor, Joybear.


  • After purchasing the Fifty Shades of Grey Come Alive Pleasure Gel For Her, “on at least two occasions” from Lovehoney’s Official Pleasure Collection, approved by E.L. James, Warchol was a less than satisfied customer. By Thursday, Warchol filed for a lawsuit saying the product’s claim to have customers “experience enhanced orgasms and stimulation as every tingle, touch, and vibration intensifies” was anything but.
    Woman Sues E.L. James When Sex Lube Is Less Than 50 Shades Of Great (Medical Daily)

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  • Radiation shield boxers: While harm from cell-phone rays has so far been lacking sufficient scientific proof, a US firm wants men to take no chances with radiation. Boxer shorts made with the use of thin silver textile “absorb radiation” will help “protect men’s reproductive organs and maintain fertility health,” according to their producer, Manhattan-based Belly Armor company.
    Radiation-proof, sperm-friendly boxers launched (RT; also ABC)

Thank you to our Australian sponsor and friend, For The Girls.

  • News outlets were quick to cover the launch of Titcoin, because it’s good fun and good click-bait to put porn and tech trends together. But what, then, has Titcoin done to be adult-industry friendly, other than insert ‘Tit’ into its name?
    Why Is Wall Street Taking ‘Titcoin’ Seriously? (Playboy; please note that the editor is responsible for the title of my article)
  • Porn tube sites now run the adult industry. Founded in 2007 by Canadians Stephane Manos and Ouissam Youssef, MindGeek (formerly known as Manwin and Mansef) has over 100 million daily visitors and is one of the top 10 consumers of bandwidth; some reports have them in the top three. They operate nearly a hundred websites that in total consume more bandwidth than Twitter, Amazon, or Facebook.
    Mindgeek porn monopoly: Its dominance is a cautionary tale for other industries. (Slate)

  • A Taiwanese company is taking social networks and teledildonics all the way (finally!) with the beta launch of its tasteful new social network, LovePalz Club. Intended to be paired with the LovePalz Twist (a sex toy with male and female versions that retail for $89 and $79 respectively), it makes use of Bluetooth to connect devices through a cloud server. Once coupled with another Twist, you can control the speed, pattern, and pressure of the vibrations felt by your partner.
    Adult Social Network Connects Strangers via Sex Toys (Future of Sex)




  • Miami-Dade (Florida) County’s sex offender residency law and housing restrictions are some of the tightest in the country. The ACLU is now challenging that law, and the way it’s been enforced in Miami, with a lawsuit filed Thursday on behalf of the sex offenders.
    ACLU Challenges Miami Law On Behalf Of Homeless Sex Offenders (NPR)

Thank you to our sponsor in France, Explicite Art.

  • The absolutism of the fight against vanilla sex (it’s never just like “have fun with it!”) suggests a total lack of awareness re: the actualities of the kink community.
    Vanilla Sex: A Perfectly Fine Way to Fuck (Gawker)

Thank you to our sponsor in Australia, I Feel Myself.


  • Ebola and sex: it is transmitted through bodily fluids, but only after a patient begins showing symptoms, experts say. Even though sex involves a high level of bodily fluid exchange — including semen, saliva and sweat — most experts say it isn’t risky if a person is not showing initial flu-like symptoms of the virus such as a high fever, body aches and vomiting or diarrhea.
    Sex and Ebola: How risky? (CBS News)

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  • My first article for Playboy points out that Jennifer Lawrence is the new face of revenge porn, and that suing Google would be the least productive use of the power, influence and money she could bring to actually changing what revenge porn victims go through.
    Jennifer Lawrence: The New Face of Revenge Porn (Playboy)
  • In a much-criticized post Wednesday on LinkedIn Pulse, business writer Bruce Kasanoff derided Jennifer Lawrence for posing modestly topless in Vanity Fair magazine. Originally titled “Why Jennifer Lawrence’s Breasts Confuse Me” and later changed to “Why Jennifer Lawrence Confuses Me,” Kasanoff’s piece showed an inability to understand consent. Kasanoff deleted the inflammatory article Thursday.
    Jennifer Lawrence’s Breasts Aren’t Sending Mixed Messages (TIME)

  • Someone is trying to make “The Snappening” happen. Whether they’re trying to make it happen as a nude photo dump or as a hoax is unclear. Naturally, Snapchat says it’s their users’ own fault saying, “Snapchatters were victimized by their use of third-party apps (…)”
    A Third-Party App May Have Leaked Tens of Thousands of Snapchat P (Gizmodo)

Thank you to our French sponsor, Dorcel Club.

  • Playboy just spoke with Elijah Wood while he was promoting Open Windows — a thriller that revolves around a computer geek (Wood) gaining voyeuristic access to his favorite actress (Sasha Grey) via increasingly questionable means — and discovered the most disturbing movie Wood has ever seen in a film and which of his Lord of the Rings co-stars smells the best.
    Elijah Wood opens up to Playboy About Sasha Grey, and more (Playboy)
  • Pennsylvania Gov. Tom Corbett’s press office released details Wednesday of disciplinary action taken against eight state employees for viewing pornography on office computers while working for his Democratic challenger, Tom Wolf; Mr. Wolf, who has a big lead in polls over the incumbent Republican, accused Mr. Corbett of allowing a “culture” of porn viewing among his employees while he was state attorney general.
    Pennsylvania porn wars rock governor’s race (Washington Times)

Gratitude to our sponsor in Spain, women-run Lust Cinema.

  • When pressed, an EPA employee recently admitted he’d been cruising NSFW sites for two to six hours every workday since 2010. Similar revelations have emerged recently at the Department of the Treasury, the National Science Foundation, and the Federal Communications Commission, where an employee said he watched porn for up to eight hours a week because he was bored. In 2010, 33 Securities and Exchange Commission employees were found to have viewed pornography repeatedly instead of doing their work.
    Watching Porn at the Office: ‘Extremely Common’ (Businessweek)

  • Escorts make $100 a hand job — but entrepreneurs like me? We make $5,000 a night. Welcome to the new economy of the oldest profession.”
    Sex Is Sex. But Money Is Money. (Medium)
  • In news coverage of campus rape in recent years, scenarios with male sexual assault victims aren’t depicted too frequently. How gendered cultural scripts help conceal and laugh away a serious problem.
    When Women Sexually Assault Men (PS Mag)
  • Digital swinging on Tumblr: Nerve talks to some of the couples and singles who enjoy Tumblr as they would any other kind of sex party.
    Digital Swingers (Nerve)

Thank you to our Dutch sponsor, Abby Winters.

  • Trigger warning for violence, gore in a sexual context: Kink, the world’s largest producer of BDSM and fetish entertainment has opened the world’s first erotic haunted house. “Hell in the Armory” runs all this month in the 100-year old San Francisco Armory where the company shoots its adult films. While the erotic haunted house isn’t nearly as explicit as the company’s films, parental guidance is strongly suggested.
    Hell In The Armory (Kink, hellinthearmory.com)

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Above: Amber Heard by Steven Klein | W Magazine

  • Look up the code F66.0 in the International Classification of Diseases (ICD), the world’s most widely used diagnostic reference, and you’ll find sexual maturation disorder. That seemingly official psychological condition occurs when uncertainty about sexual orientation makes a person depressed or anxious, according to the ICD.
    No scientific basis for gay-specific mental disorders, WHO panel concludes (Science)
  • This article is intense, and the Tinder guys are really fucked up — oh, and like Snapchat, their startup myth is all lies. Wolfe says in her suit: “Although it is tempting to describe the conduct of Tinder’s senior executives as ‘frat-like,’ it was in fact much worse — representing the worst of the misogynist, alpha-male stereotype too often associated with technology startups.”
    The Truth About Tinder and Women Is Even Worse Than You Think (Bloomberg)
  • At least 3,000 porn websites around the world feature the revenge porn genre, and the number is rising, says John Di Giacomo of Revision Legal, a Michigan-based law firm. Women’s charities in Britain and America say more victims are contacting them for help all the time. (Men are occasionally targeted, too.) In Japan the number of cases reported to police more than tripled, to 27,334, between 2008 and 2012.
    Misery merchants (The Economist)
  • CNBC reports that Google is now banning porn businesses from utilizing their ad network. The truth is, the policy of not allowing adult ads in the Google ad network was announced in March.
    Google AdWords Begins Enforcing Porn Ads Rules (Search Engine Land)
  • “Join sex, relationship and business geek, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for an informative and humorous evening where he’ll show you three crushing mistakes most sex educators are making that leave them frustrated, burnout and broke, and the successful business models and practices that will help you turn your calling into a life-long, successful career.”
    SFSI Seminars: The Business Side of Sex Ed: How To Make a Living As a Sex-Positive Professional (Brown Paper Tickets)


  • I, along with 200-plus others, have decided to spend my weekend learning about consensual non-monogamy or love with multiple partners. In other words, polyamory. This is one of a handful of conferences and retreats organized each year by Loving More, a nonprofit that’s been promoting “openly and deeply loving more than one person at a time” for over 27 years.
    A Surprising Weekend Inside the Touchy-Feely World of Polyamory (Nerve)


  • When my boyfriend and I were looking at our first apartment together last year, the number-one thing we decided we needed in order to get along was… separate bedrooms. We’re not the only ones. Arianne Cohen recently proclaimed that sleeping in her “woman cave” (a.k.a. guest room) helped save her marriage…
    The Beauty Of Not Sleeping Together (Refinery 29)
  • Kink CEO Peter Acworth has released a video statement giving his side of the events surrounding the protest of a prison theme of a gay circuit party, and expressing regrets that anyone had to be arrested. He makes clear that Kink is not looking to press any charges against anyone. But in the video, it is clear that some protesters were more in search of a fight than others.
    Video Released From Saturday Armory Protest; Kink.com’s Peter Acworth Responds (SFist)
  • This letter is fantastic. “It’s my understanding that the FBI considers all speech activities on the domain MyRedBook.com ‘unprotected speech’. I hereby state for the record, that I was a MyRedBook VIP member, and enjoyed the use of those “private and public forums” for the purposes of speech which had heightened expectations of privacy as characterized by anonymous, password protected speech on the Internet.”
    MyRedBookVIP: The Letter (MyRedBookVIP)
  • The FBI seizures of MyRedbook.com and SFRedbook.com could put more than 10,000 sex workers who relied on the sites in financial turbulence, says a leading authority on erotic service providers. Maxine Doogan, who leads the nonprofit ESPLER — known formally as the Erotic Service Provider Legal, Educational and Research Project — said that MyRedBook, in particular, had more than 40,000 listings for erotic services when it was seized by the FBI and IRS.
    MyRedBook Closure Said to Affect More Than 10,000 Sex Workers (XBIZ)

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  • Morgana Maye (the amazing Mistress Morgana) goes on Masocast to talk about BDSM as therapy, how kink is perceived in the medical community, guilt and shame, how to play with someone on a deeper level, the DSM and much more.
    Morgana Maye on Masocast (Masocast)
  • Molli, now a UK-based sex worker, was “rescued” by an anti-prostitution NGO while employed as a sex worker in India. She tweets the truth of what happens in NGO-run, sex worker “rescue” centres, and her revelations inspired the Twitter hashtag #notyourrescueproject which gained publicity recently. “Rescued” sex workers [by certain NGO's] are saying they are beaten, held against their will, have to “pay” NGO staff with sex, and must have someone pay for their release. They are also afraid to state the names of the NGOs doing this, as they believe the NGOs will come find them again.
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  • Calvin Darden, Jr. was charged by federal prosecutors Thursday for allegedly crafting an intricate scheme to defraud banks and impersonate his prominent father in an attempt to buy men’s magazine Maxim. The U.S. Justice Department alleges Darden lined up $28 million in loans from three lenders to scoop up the risqué mag. As part of the scheme, which nearly came to fruition, Darden allegedly impersonated his father, Calvin Darden, a director at Target (TGT) and former executive at United Parcel Service (UPS).
    Man Charged in Scheme to Fraudulently Buy Maxim Magazine (FOX Business)
  • NPR thinks that porn’s piracy problem is tied to its users desire for anonymity. This is not entirely accurate; porn’s piracy shares the same issues *all* digital media (music, movies, software, etc.) are grappling with – and can be solved in the same ways. That said, take a look at NPR’s newest porn piece.
    Hurting For Cash, Online Porn Tries New Tricks (NPR)
  • A survey conducted by adult webcam site Cam4.com and French survey institute IFOP surveyed a representative sample of 1,023 adults about their pornography habits. Ninety percent of men and 60 percent of women reported watching porn regularly. Fifty-three percent of survey participants watch porn as a couple, and 66 percent said they would watch with their partner if asked.
    People Who Watch More Porn Have More Sex, Survey Finds (HuffPo)
  • Amateur porn website Homegrown Video cataloged all video submissions they received over a six-month period. They found that almost one-third of homemade sex tapes submitted between July and December 2013 were created not in sexually liberal coastal cities, as one might imagine, but in the Bible Belt. Furthermore, 56.9 percent of videos were submitted by women (VB note – or accounts posing as female?).
    You May Be Surprised By Who’s Filming And Uploading Amateur Porn (HuffPo)

  • A federal bankruptcy trustee plans on putting up the Girls Gone Wild franchise for auction in April, effectively selling off its trademarks and domain names. The plan to sell off the assets of the longtime adult entertainment brand includes a stalking horse bidder — one that has already drawn out a plan to potentially acquire the assets — that would raise $1.825 million to partly pay off Chapter 11 claims. XBIZ has more information on issues around the sale, and the full list of domains on the block.
    Girls Gone Wild Bankruptcy Auction Planned for April (XBIZ)
  • Queer porn producer Pink & White Productions has announced the launch of its new emerging pornographer series Point of Contact. The studio said the series showcases first-time filmmakers equipped with camera and micro-budget, who “take to the streets and sheets to explore sexuality and grow as pornographers.” The project launches with five directors: James Darling, Minax, Tina Horn, Cyd Loverboy, and Shanna Katz. A dozen more directors are slated to follow.
    Pink & White Launches New Series for Emerging Filmmakers (XBIZ)

  • I’m guessing Kinsey Confidential missed the whole Sasha Grey / Stoya popularity thing, where they made bush a hot thing at least five years ago, even long after European and Aussie sites cashed in on demand for the eroticism of pubic hair… Still, I’m surprised no one mentioned the nipples :)
    Mannequins: Foreshadowing The Return Of The Retro Bush? (Kinsey Confidential)

  • A reader asks Dr. Glickman, “How do turn my history of confusion over “bad behavior combined with good intent” into a skill for identifying and dealing with people who don’t know that they have bad behavior?”
    When Good Intentions Meet Bad Behavior (Charlie Glickman)
  • The UK government is planning to extend its broken, deeply problematic and censorship-friendly ISP-level internet filtering to “extremist” content. The filters were implemented to censor “adult” content and have swept a wide variety of sites into the void, including health websites, tech forums and at one point, even WordPress blogs.
    Ministers bid to block extremist videos posted on foreign websites (BBC)
  • Eros Guide wanted to know how some sex workers spend Valentine’s Day, so they checked in with some of the most popular female sex workers on the Eros Network to see what they had planned for Valentine’s Day — and then asked a few other questions to see just how romantic they are.
    How Does Your Escort Spend Valentine’s Day? (Eros Guide)
  • The Associated Press originally sought the records for U.S. military personnel stationed in Japan after US military sexual assaults against Japanese women raised political tensions there. The AP analysis found the handling of allegations verged on the chaotic, with seemingly strong cases often reduced to lesser charges. In two rape cases, commanders overruled recommendations to court-martial and dropped the charges instead.
    Documents Reveal Chaotic Military Sex-Abuse Record (ABC)

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  • OhMiBod celebrates its fourth year at CES with the unveiling of blueMotion, a wearable massager that uses Bluetooth technology. Compatible with Android and iOS smartphones, the blueMotion massager will hit the market in March 2014 and retail for $129. I once likened the sound of an OhMiBod toy to “a hive of angry bees” in a MacLife review, but I’d definitely give their new vibe a spin.
    OhMiBod Unveils blueMotion Wearable Massager (XBIZ)
  • We’re only a week into 2014 and already a viable candidate for Most Fascinating Person of 2014 is The Guy With Two Penises, who has become a Reddit – and Internet – sensation. It helps that he’s incredibly cool, sexually articulate and totally comfortable with his sexuality.
    10 Fascinating Facts From the Man With Two Penises AMA (Rolling Stone)
  • The Department of Work and Pensions, headed by Iain Duncan Smith, has extended subsidized wage subsidies to porn industry employers willing to take on Britain’s jobless youth. But there is a caveat — the subsidies only apply to production-oriented jobs. Employers will receive no such financial breaks for hiring young performers.
    U.K. Encourages Porn Companies to Hire Unemployed Youth (XBIZ)

  • Go Team CoCo!!! Retired porn star Coco Brown has a new role: Come 2015, she may very well be the next Space Expedition Corp. trainee, with a $100,000 check that will send her to space. Ms. Brown is paying the money to train for a March 2015 flight. “It’s just the pilot and me,” said Ms. Brown, in The New York Post. “I’m the co-pilot. We take off from Curacao and land an hour and a half later.”
    Porn star Coco Brown preps for 2015 space travel (Washington Times)
  • A train traveler who had devoured a cocktail of legal highs and alcohol was arrested after trying to have sex with a drinks trolley. Andrew Davidson was seen humping the trolley while shouting ‘I want to kiss you, I want to fuck you’. Before he foisted himself upon it, he had placed his hands on a female passenger and attempted to kiss a member of staff.
    Off his trolley: Man sentenced after trying to have sex with a buffet cart (Metro UK)
  • Intense manscaping, hour-long erections, only one erogenous zone and injections of Caverject are just a few of the ways male porn stars are carefully crafted to be more like circus performers than sex partners.
    10 ways porn perpetuates myths about men and sex (Salon)

  • She created the most awful female dating profile ever on OkCupid, and recorded the results. “As a child of the Internet and confirmed weirdo, imagine my relief when they finally took that last bastion of in-person awkwardness — dating — to my laptop.”
    4 Things I Learned from the Worst Online Dating Profile Ever (Cracked)
  • From hard drugs to air guns and fresh breast milk, illegal and grey-market goods are easy to find on mainland China’s most popular online shopping sites. The trade flourishes in part because of a legal vacuum – the mainland does not have a law specifically governing e-commerce. Instead, a collection of guidelines loosely govern online transactions. But revisions are under way, according to one legal expert helping with the changes, and should stifle much of the internet’s black market.
    Guns, drugs and breast milk: China’s web shoppers exploit vacuum to buy illegal goods (scmp.com)

  • Of all these type of articles we’re seeing this time of year, this one is recommended. As the New Year gets under way, Dr. Petra Boynton asks a few sexuality experts for their top tips on staying sexually happy and healthy in 2014, whether in a relationship or single.
    Want a happy and healthy relationship in 2014? Here’s how (Telegraph UK)
  • 2013 marks female pornographer Ms. Naughty’s 13th year in porn, and this is her 8th (fabulous, must-read) yearly retrospective about porn for women.
    Porn For Women Retrospective 2013 (Ms. Naughty)

  • Mother Jones’ Molly Redden wrote about a recent Human Rights Watch report, “In Harm’s Way,” which argues that aggressive policing in New Orleans is contributing to the city’s soaring HIV/AIDS rates. One tactic that Human Rights Watch found to be particularly problematic: the police harassment of suspected sex workers for possessing condoms.
    When having condoms gets you arrested (Mother Jones)
  • Our favorite erotica siren Alison Tyler deliciously describes how to get hot on these cold winter nights with erotica – how to use it, very specifically.
    Passing Chemistry (gasm.org)

  • The number of reported sexual assaults across the military shot up by more than 50 percent in 2013, an increase that defense officials say may suggest that victims are becoming more willing to come forward after a tumultuous year of scandals that shined a spotlight on the crimes and put pressure on the military to take aggressive action.
    Reports of sexual assault in the military jumped 50 percent in 2013 (PBS)
  • Paul-Julien Robert grew up on a country estate with dozens of adults; but he had no idea which one was his father. In the European free-love commune, where he was born in the late 1970s, pretty much all of the men had slept with his mother, any of them could be his dad.
    Surviving Life in a ‘70s Sex Commune (Daily Beast)
  • This is yet another article about having better sex in 2014, but it’s one that very smartly recommends that queer sex is better sex… and I agree :)
    How to Have Better Sex in 2014 (VICE)

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Sex News: Tristan Taormino’s condom stand, breast weights, sexual jihad

22 September 2013
A Kiev-based agency has developed iron weights shaped like breasts. It’s a real product. Breast Weights: A Bro-tastic New Standard In Agency IP (Fastco Create) Russia’s Federal Service for Supervision of Consumer Rights Protection and Human Welfare has blocked Looo.ch and added it into the Registry of Forbidden Sites. The site recently […]
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Sex News: Kink talks Google Glass, anti-incest app, China targets Apple for porn

20 April 2013
Peter Acworth of Kink.com is already thinking about how his business could make the most of Google Glass a la Kink.com style. According to SVBD, "The heads up display will offer filmmakers discreet recording capabilities and point-of-view perspective, something that could be particularly useful for the adult entertainment industry, where […]
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Sex News: Ben & Jerry’s trademark porn suit, Sleepfucking, JetBlue ponysex, OMG bouncy house

7 September 2012
Mythical Proportions (above) was the winner of the Stranger's HUMP festival, 2011, Best Humor prize. You have until October 5 to submit an entry to Dan Savage's incredible film festival. Sexsomnia (sleepfucking), a woman rapes her boyfriend and the ever-entertaining Jesse Bering - it's a capital installment of Savage Love. […]
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Sex News: Urgent UK porn filter protest, straight male perspective, The Buffy Effect

4 September 2012
Um, YES. Which libraries? Men of the Stacks (menofthestacks.com, via Ms. Maughty) Actually, now it's only two days - for the love of free speech, PROTEST THIS my UK friends: The UK’s Department of Education is currently holding a public consultation on parental internet controls, the results of which will influence […]
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Eye Candy: BDSM quickie

28 August 2012
Looks like local porn star Jack Hammer had a fun time this week with starlet Skin Diamond. Jack is a friend who has livened up many Femina Potens parties I've attended in the past few years, and he has been featured in one of the Hot Boy Thursday posts. It's […]
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Sex News: Online Game Sweep, AdultFriendFinder Sued, Online Porn Metrics, Asexuality, Wikipedia

6 April 2012
The New York State Attorney General announced a sweeping purge of registered sex offenders from online gaming worlds Thursday. In what’s being called Operation: Game Over, his office is cooperating with entertainment giants Microsoft, Disney, Apple, Blizzard, Electronic Arts, Warner Bros. and Sony. New York State Attorney General Announces Purge of […]
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Sex at SXSW 2012 – The Ultimate SXSexy Guide for Sexy Geeks in Austin

8 March 2012
It's time for the world's largest internet conference, SXSW Interactive 2012 in Austin, Texas. I will be there from (today) Thursday March 8 through Wednesday, and I am there primarily to be a brat. I'm also doing stuff like interviews and podcasts with various media outlets (like MSNBC, who did […]
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Sex News: Lindsay Lohan, Dejected Britons, Porn Crimes, Kindle Fire, Ken Russel’s Erotic Alice

10 December 2011
"Have you ever seen an IUD before? It's a lot like an IED—frightening, complicated, and sort of jury-rigged looking... You can even sort the sperm blockade by fun categories, like "party ready" (easy enough to use while blacked out!), "easy to hide" (for those with tight pants and/or draconian parents), […]
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Sperm Bank Secrets, UK Commons Confiscations, Zombie Ass, Scuba Fetish Death [Sex News]

26 September 2011
A very interesting copy of items confiscated from people while entering the UK House of Commons... my favorite is "magic wand" but don't miss the handcuffs, giant tennis balls, tent... and piercing kit. Things confiscated from people entering the UK House of Commons (Reddit) Fetish model model Jade Vixen just […]
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China’s Sex Toy “Boom”

9 July 2011
Sifting the imagined facts from the meaningless ones in the lengthy China Daily story "A Kiss of Life For Sex Toys" is even more work than doing that same task with articles about sex in the mainstream western media. The article in the state-run newspaper almost completely ignores China's importance as […]
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NIbbles: Fake Lesbian Blogger Activists, Cabbie Collects Backseat Hook-Ups, DOMA Unconstitutional, Crowe on Circumcision

13 June 2011
The next time you're getting hot and heavy in the back of a cab, you may want to think about the fact that there is a third person involved—the driver entrusted with delivering you safely to your assignation. Cabbie Collects X-Rated Pics Of Passengers Hooking Up (Gothamist) A 40-year-old American man […]
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OkCupid, Rough Sex Dating Data and Psychology Today’s Problem: Dr. Satoshi Kanazawa

24 May 2011
The image above is not, as you might be hoping, a tag cloud indicating what you can expect in the men's room vs. the ladies' room of your local dive bar. On the contrary, it's part of a fresh crunch of the famous/infamous OkCupid data about online dating, as detailed […]
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Friday Nibbles: Me vs. Jeffrey Dahmer, Cher’s FTM Issues, Unsung Black LGBTQ Heroes, More

28 January 2011
* I, for one, want to fly the ladyboy skies! Newly-formed Thai airline recruits 'Ladyboys' as air hostesses (Telegraph) * Violet Blue versus Jeffery Dahmer - wow. Are these Google Family Values? Why doesn't Google see the serious problem with this? Read: Seven Things Google Doesn’t Mind You Searching For (ErosBlog: […]
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Thursday Nibbles: Sexiest Vegas Hotel, Sex.com Gossip, Brutish Male Sexuality

6 January 2011
* In Las Vegas, porn magazine AVN kicked off their annual convention today; I generally consider Vegas to be one of the least sexiest places on Earth, sort of like the Playboy mansion's version of sexiness. However, this very sexy video for newly opened hotel The Cosmopolitan makes me think […]
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